--- title: Selena Gomez Talks 13 Reasons Why Controversy, Mental Health description: Selena Gomez shared why she thinks '13 Reasons Why' has started a dialogue about mental health issues for young people. canonical: https://time.com/4808916/selena-gomez-on-13-reasons-why/ author: Cady Lang article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2017-06-07T15:53:44.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-10-08T09:06:05.984Z og:title: Selena Gomez on '13 Reasons Why' Controversy, Mental Health og:description: "That stuff is uncomfortable for people to talk about, but it is happening" og:url: https://time.com/4808916/selena-gomez-on-13-reasons-why/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2bf88e6d0c803454/6988d090cf40a8605ec48062/selena-gomez-13-reasons-why-mental-health.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2000 og:image:height: 1125 og:image:alt: Selena Gomez Visits Music Choice og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Selena Gomez on '13 Reasons Why' Controversy, Mental Health twitter:description: "That stuff is uncomfortable for people to talk about, but it is happening" twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2bf88e6d0c803454/6988d090cf40a8605ec48062/selena-gomez-13-reasons-why-mental-health.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Selena Gomez Discusses Criticism of '13 Reasons Why': 'The Content Is Complicated.' > Sponsored content. 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There is no cost and no subscription requirement. ### Sources * TIME Newsletters: [time.com/newsletters](/c/time-nl-network-2026q3/newsletters?i=510f19eb-3c1d-4ba2-b608-fa34badb73da&cr=time-nl-network-2026q3-v1) ## Video: 3 Tips For Talking To Your Kids About 13 Reasons Why [Watch (HLS stream): 3 Tips For Talking To Your Kids About 13 Reasons Why](https://cdn.jwplayer.com/manifests/2WiuvyRU.m3u8) (2:55)  _Published 2017-05-18. 3 tips for parents about how to talk to kids about Netflix's controversial '13 Reasons Why' from Common Sense Media's Polly Conway_  by [Cady Lang](https://time.com/author/cady-lang/)  ## Cady Lang Jun 7, 2017 3:53 PM UTC 3 tips for parents about how to talk to kids about Netflix's controversial '13 Reasons Why' from Common Sense Media's Polly Conway  by [Cady Lang](https://time.com/author/cady-lang/)  ## Cady Lang Jun 7, 2017 3:53 PM UTC Since [_13 Reasons Why_](http://time.com/4718019/darkness-visible-in-13-reasons-why/) debuted on [Netflix](http://fortune.com/fortune500/netflix/), it’s been no stranger to controversy due to[ its graphic depiction of teenage suicide, depression, sexism, and rape](http://time.com/4775444/13-reasons-why-parental-nightmares/). The show is produced by [Selena Gomez](http://time.com/4762604/selena-gomez-the-weeknd-kiss-met-gala-2017/) and is based on a 2007 novel of the same name by Jay Asher and tells the tale of Hannah, a high school student who takes her own life and leaves 13 tapes for different people that explain why she committed suicide. While [the show was renewed for second season](http://time.com/4769997/netflix-13-reasons-why-second-season/), there’s still been a debate about the serious matters it depicts. Gomez took to _Elvis and Duran and the Morning Show_ on Monday to talk about the ways she feels the series addresses many of the struggles facing young people today. “This is happening every day,” she said. “Whether or not you wanted to see it, that’s what’s happening. The content is complicated. It’s dark and it has moments that are honestly very hard to swallow, and I understood that we were doing something that is difficult. But these kids today are so exposed to things that I would never even comprehend when I was 8\. My cousin teaches third grade and they’re doing things and saying things that I couldn’t even fathom.” Gomez later went on to defend the show’s dark themes and content, citing that the show has started dialogue about mental health. “I feel like if this is what we’re going to talk about, we might as well as do it in a way that’s honest, is real, and stays true to the book,” she said. “So all the questions that came up, and all the talk about it is valid and I understand it. That stuff is uncomfortable for people to talk about, but it is happening and hopefully, it opened the door for people to actually accept what’s happening and actually go and change it, talk about it.” Watch the full interview below. ## Transcript [00:00] I'm about to tell you the story of my life. More [00:03] specifically, why my life ended. [ MUSIC ] This [00:08] show definitely recreates a world that is real for kids, [00:13] in terms of how much social media activity happens. [00:16] And it shows the dark parts of high school life [00:20] and situations that are real and that happen, and I [00:24] think that teens respond to that big time. Just ask have [00:29] you seen the show? If the answer was yes, what did [00:32] you think of it? Does this seem like something that [00:34] would happen in real life? What would you do if you [00:36] were in this position? The major discussion points [00:40] for me It's not necessarily the content, the suicide, [00:45] the rape. It's the way its addressed in the show, the [00:47] way that the suicide is framed as sort of a revenge. [00:52] That's not how it works. [ UNKNOWN ] Come on. [00:56] I would make sure that my kid would be comfortable [00:59] talking to me about- That stuff happening in their lives [01:03] and the lives of their friends. I think that so many times [01:06] it's kept a secret. You gotta start opening up to us, kid. [01:10] Just opening the door to discussing what you might do [01:14] in that situation. That it's okay to tell people that that's [01:18] something that's You know gonna get you more [01:21] assistance and more guidance. If you gonna watch it, [01:24] watch it together and talk about it together. Even if you [01:28] don't allow your kid to watch it at least you could use [01:32] its existence as an opportunity to discuss these issues. [01:36] It's a dark show. It's not for everybody but a [01:40] lot of parents and Have come to us and said what [01:45] a great opportunity it was for them to come together [01:48] and talk about something that they were not going to [01:50] talk about otherwise. Some of you care. None [01:55] of you cared enough. Also just because [02:00] this show or any show is bingeable Doesn't mean [02:04] you have to do it that way. This show is so [02:08] deeply emotional and hard to watch. [02:13] I can't imagine watching it all in one sitting and then [02:16] going about my regular business. So if parents are [02:20] deciding to watch it with their kids, I would So take it [02:23] one or two episodes at a time. There is a world of [02:26] resources available to kids who have watched this [02:30] show or kids who are dealing with mental health [02:33] issues. And adults want to help and I think [02:37] that that's something that this show doesn't necessarily [02:40] drive home too much, but I think it's really important [02:43] for kids to know that. That's really all adults want is [02:47] to be involved and to help. That's all. 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