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April 24, 2020 3:51 PM EDT
Jolie, a TIME contributing editor, is an Academy Award–winning actor and Special Envoy of the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees

TIME contributing editor Angelina Jolie guest-edited a special edition of TIME’s Parents newsletter. Sign up to read it and get weekly parenting tips and links.

Dear Parents,

I am thinking of you. I am imagining how hard each of you is trying to get through your days. How much you want to lead your loved ones through this. How you worry. How you plan. How you smile for them, when inside you feel at times you are breaking.

I was not a very stable youth. In fact, I never thought I could be anyone’s mom. I remember the decision to become a parent. It wasn’t hard to love. It wasn’t hard to dedicate myself to someone and something greater than my life. What was hard was knowing that from now on I needed to be the one to make sure everything was okay. To manage it and make it work. From food to school to medical. Whatever would come. And to be patient.

I realized I stopped my constant daydreaming, instead staying always ready for any break into what I was doing or thinking to answer a need. It was a new skill to acquire.

So now, in the midst of this pandemic, I think of all the mothers and fathers with children at home. All hoping they can do everything right, answer all needs, and stay calm and positive.

One thing that has helped me is to know that’s impossible.

It is a lovely thing to discover that your children don’t want you perfect. They just want you honest. And doing your best. In fact, the more room they have to be great where you are weak, the stronger they may become. They love you. They want to help you. So in the end, it’s the team you build. And in a way, they are raising you up too. You grow together.

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In refugee camps, social distancing isn’t possible, and there’s often little capacity for intensive medical care.

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In November, I interviewed professor Geraldine Van Bueren, one of the drafters of the U.N. Convention on the Rights of the Child. When the convention was adopted, 30 years ago, it created a distinction that is vital to the millions of children who live with conflict, poverty, violence, and abuse.

These TIME for Kids stories show children what it’s like to live and go to school in a refugee camp in Kakuma, Kenya, and Cox’s Bazaar, Bangladesh.

For those looking for ways to donate their time or money, here’s a list of charities and causes worth attention.

Contact us at letters@time.com.

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