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# "Defeated and Disrespected." Serena Williams Discusses Her Controversial 2018 U.S. Open Exit

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## Madeline Fitzgerald


Jul 9, 2019 8:29 PM UTC

by 

[Madeline Fitzgerald](https://time.com/author/madeline-fitzgerald/)


## Madeline Fitzgerald


Jul 9, 2019 8:29 PM UTC

In a new essay for ‘[Harper’s Bazaar](https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a28209579/serena-williams-us-open-2018-essay/?utm%5Fsource=twitter&utm%5Fcampaign=socialflowTWHBZ&utm%5Fmedium=social-media&src=socialflowTW),’ Serena Williams has addressed the [controversy](https://time.com/5398085/serena-williams-us-open-controversy-comments/) surrounding her performance in the U.S. Open final last year, when she lost to tennis player [Naomi Osaka](https://time.com/5498898/naomi-osaka/).

Williams, who holds records for medaling in the Olympics and winning 39 Grand Slam titles, described feeling “defeated and disrespected” by the incident.

During the second set of the September 2018 match, the umpire, Carlos Ramos, gave Williams a violation because he believed he saw her coach signaling her, which is against the rules of tennis. As she said at the time, Williams writes in the essay that she wasn’t looking for signals. “I don’t cheat to win. I’d rather lose,” she said. (Her coach later did say that he was trying to signal her, but didn’t think Williams ever saw him. Williams has disputed her coach’s account, and said she “didn’t understand” what he was referring to.)

She returned to the game “frustrated,” she wrote — and promptly lost another point to Osaka. At this point, she slammed her racket on the ground which, [while relatively common among athletes](https://www.apnews.com/4e79423ea2884f2ca4cb91adb0741418), is explicitly banned. She was issued another violation. At this point, Williams wrote that she felt, “passionately compelled to stand up for \[herself\]” and demanded an apology from the umpire. Instead, she was issued a third violation, causing her to lose the game on a technicality.


[After the match, Ramos said he was “sure of his performance” as umpire.](https://www.espn.com/tennis/story/%5F/id/24644514/tennis-officials-shaken-lack-support-chair-umpire-carlos-ramos)

In her essay Williams reflects on the aftermath, and its impact on her:

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> “”

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While the audience had booed Osaka throughout the match, and particularly at its conclusion, Williams remained supportive of her opponent. Williams hugged her after the match, and admonished the crowd. “I know you guys were here rooting, and I was rooting, too, but let’s make this the best moment we can,” she said [in a press conference after the match.](https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/tennis/naomi-osaka-upsets-serena-williams-who-received-game-penalty-to-win-2018-us-open/2018/09/08/089e1df4-b39f-11e8-aed9-001309990777%5Fstory.html?utm%5Fterm=.c958d262bedf) “Let’s not boo anymore. Let’s get through this.”


[“I’m sorry it had to end like this,”](https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/tennis/naomi-osaka-upsets-serena-williams-who-received-game-penalty-to-win-2018-us-open/2018/09/08/089e1df4-b39f-11e8-aed9-001309990777%5Fstory.html?utm%5Fterm=.c958d262bedf) Osaka said of the match.

Williams also stressed in the piece that she was also upset that the events took attention away from Osaka:

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She wrote that she later apologized to Osaka, who replied in turn offering encouragement for Williams to continue “trailblazing.” Williams described being moved to tears by this response. “We are not allowed to have emotions, we are not allowed to be passionate. We are told to sit down and be quiet, which frankly is just not something I’m okay with,” she concludes. “It’s shameful that our society penalizes women just for being themselves.”


## Transcript

People will look at you and they'll try and define you. Whether you're a woman, whether you're young, they'll try and cabin off what you're able to do. But people can only do that if you let them and so I always viewed my job as defining myself

>> If we are in a meeting we're there for a reason, not to just sit there and absorb. If you are only there not speaking you kind of create the impression that you're not prepared to be there. You need to participate and you need to know what you're talking about. You can ask a man to do a job that he's never been qualified to do and he will raise his hand and say, absolutely, I will do that job. Women always say, I'm not sure if I'm ready yet, More experience. I don't necessarily know if there's anything wrong with being more cautious and careful. I mean why have we come to decide that being brash and overly aggressive should be the way we are.

But we should also know that we're not going to feel any wiser or any more ready in ten years than we did ten years ago. So we might as well just leave. There is a lot of perception of, My gosh, it's really hard because of the gender. What are you gonna do about that, just not do it? If you want to do something, you just do it, and then hope that people catch up to you. For girls that are going to be playing little league, anything could happen. You could be up by 10 runs, and you can loose the game. So stay focused, make sure you play as a team, and hopefully you hit a home run, because no girl has ever hit a home run, and I'll be cheering for you.

You'll never make everyone happy, so you just have to be exactly who it is that you are, and at least know that you've been true to yourself. It's about attitude, aptitude, and opportunity. Who knew I would be here? But it all started with folks that thought I had a good attitude. That put me in places that challenged me and then provided me opportunities because I met and exceeded the standard. You often don't realize, people want you to succeed, and they often have very good solutions, both practical and in terms of thinking of opportunities for you. And the other thing is, I think it's not too bad Periods of great intensity doing one thing or the other.

Meryl Streep once said, " Every successful woman's life has its ebbs and flows ." Know your power, know the power of your intellect, of your values and commitment, the courage that you have, and don't let anybody trivialize How you have spent your years. All of them have contributed to making a very unique and special person. Just take joy, don't let anyone discourage you from that thing that you love the most. It's more about making life. [ MUSIC ] Them making a living that's what matters [ BLANK_AUDIO ].

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