8 Vices That Actually Help You Lose Weight

When I read the usual weight loss advice, I’m often reminded of my days in Catholic school. While I was taught the virtuous path by nuns, today’s diet gurus like to teach by none’s: as in “None of that fat. None of that wine. None of that relaxing and lounging around and enjoying yourself.” Can’t have none, won’t get none, and if you reach for a pat of butter, you’ll get a rap across the knuckles.

But before you sign on to any program that involves a lot of sacrifice and suffering, hold up a minute. I’m all for putting in the extra effort to lose an extra pound or two, but the reality is that making weight loss too onerous can easily backfire.

You don’t have to give up your fun and live like a monk in order to strip away flab and reveal a flat, toned belly. In fact, slipping a few vices in with your virtues might be the best way to speed up your weight loss. Here are eight not-at-all-deadly sins that can get you a leaner body.

1. Pour the wine

Temperance may make the Church Lady happy, but there’s ample evidence to suggest a glass of wine a few times a week could aid weight loss. Clink! The benefits come from chemicals found in grape skins. One compound, ellagic acid, has been shown to change the way “fat genes” express themselves, boosting the metabolism and slowing the growth of existing and new fat cells. More research suggests another healthy ingredient in wine—resveratrol—could help to counter some of the negative effects associated with lack of exercise, like muscle-loss and blood sugar sensitivities.

Sinful Tip: Although red wine has some great antioxidants, white wine’s weight loss effects have been proven stronger. And wine’s not the only magic elixir out there: Drop the weight with these 23 Amazing Ways to Melt Fat with Tea!

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2. Get some sexual healing

Running for miles may lead to a kind of exercise nirvana, but I recommend a more immediate path to heaven. Researchers say sex triggers the release of oxytocin, a hormone released during times of bonding that can minimize stress hormones and suppress the appetite. One recent study found daily injections of the “love hormone” could reduce belly fat and body weight.

Sinful Tip: You’ll also burn calories doing it. Recent study suggests that, in healthy people, “moderate intensity” sex burns an average of 4.2 calories a minute for men and 3.1 calories a minute for women—better than a walk, not quite as good as a jog, but far more enjoyable than either.

3. Slather on the fat

Julia Child was right: Butter, and other high-fat dairy products, are nothing to fear. In fact, real butter—particularly grass-fed—is an excellent source of fatty acids that can support weight loss. One acid, butyrate, which actually derives its name from the Greek word “butter,” can help dieters by improving the function of mitochondria—the “batteries” in your cells that essentially keep you young. Another fatty acid, conjugated linoleic acid, or CLA, is actually sold commercially as a fat-burning supplement.

Sinful Tip: Avoid lower-calorie margarines and butter “spreads” that are made of trans fat—they’ve been directly linked to weight gain and gut fat. And while you’re in the dairy aisle, make sure you choose the right choice with our exclusive guide to the The 20 Best & Worst Greek Yogurts For Weight Loss!

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4. Slurp your pasta

Strange but true: You can actually burn calories by eating pasta. The trick: you have to put it in the fridge first. The drop in temperature changes the nature of the carbs in the noodles into “resistant starch,” meaning your body has to work harder to digest it (the pasta “resists” being digested, get it?) Cold pasta is closer in structure to natural resistant starches like lentils, peas, beans and oatmeal, which pass through the small intestine intact, keeping you fuller for longer. One study found that including this kind of fiber can increase feelings of fullness by over 50 percent! And another study showed that resistant starches can even help the body burn body fat.

Sinful Tip: You’ve got to eat it cold: Once you heat the pasta up again, you destroy the resistant starch. If you’re curious about more resistant starch options, check out these 20 Resistant Starch Recipes.

5. Cheat

No, we’re not talking about your relationship or your taxes. But cheating on your diet could be the key to busting through a weight-loss plateau. In fact a recent study found overweight dieters who ate a large breakfast that included a dessert lost 15 pounds over the course of 16 weeks, while study participants who ate a small, no-dessert breakfast gained an average of 24 pounds over the same time frame. Researchers say that it wasn’t the morning dessert itself that made the difference; it was simply the fact that they gave the dieters permission to enjoy their favorite foods.

Sinful Tip: Want to get even more pleasure from a “non diet” treat? Make it yourself! People who are involved in the cooking process report foods to be tastier and more satisfying. Stock your pantry—and stay on track—with these 35 Foods Busy People Keep Stocked.

6. Hit the snooze button

Ever feel guilty because you took a nap? You weren’t being lazy—you were training! No matter how many calories you dodge, how many miles you log, or how many pounds you press, it won’t get you anywhere near your weight loss goals unless you’re also getting enough quality sleep. When you don’t get enough shut-eye, researchers say, you’re more likely to munch on junk food, especially at night. In fact, a recent study found when teenagers lost just one hour of sleep, they consumed, on average, an extra 200 calories—that’s nearly a half pound of weight gain per week if you make it a daily habit!

Sinful Tip: Besides getting your 8 hours a night, keep your sleep schedule regular. People who maintain an unvarying sleep routine have lower body fat levels than those who keep irregular sleep hours.

7. Eat more chocolate

U.C. San Diego researchers found that adults who regularly eat chocolate are actually thinner than those who ate chocolate less often, regardless of exercise or calorie intake (the chocolate fans actually took in more calories each day). Coincidentally, researchers say the belly-slimming properties of chocolate are actually unlocked in our gut, where good bacteria ferment cocoa into anti-inflammatory compounds that can “turn off” genes linked to obesity.

Sinful Tip: Look for dark chocolate with at least 74 percent cocoa solids. For our list of the best sweet and salty treats, bookmark our all-new 50 Best Snacks For Weight Loss.

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8. Soak up the sun

Oh, were you not in the gym at lunch time? Thought you’d sneak out and lie on a park bench for an hour? You might have made the right weight-loss move. Sunshine slims us down by triggering our bodies to produce more vitamin D, the “the sunshine vitamin” that’s hard to get from food alone. In one study, overweight women who restored their vitamin D to healthy levels via supplementation lost 7 more pounds over the course of 12 months than women in a placebo group.

Sinful Tip: To maximize your benefits, soak up some rays before noon: A recent study found people who were exposed to just 20 minutes of bright light in the morning had significantly lower body mass index (BMI) than those who had most of their light exposure late in the day—regardless of how much they ate. For more habits that rev up your calorie burn, scope out these 55 Ways to Boost Your Metabolism!

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