--- title: Valentine's Day: Honey, BooBoo and Babe: Why Adults Still Use Baby Talk description: You may not want to hear it, but this Valentine's Day you probably can't escape it canonical: https://time.com/7465/babe-baby-boo-why-couples-cant-quit-the-baby-talk/ author: Alice Park article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2014-02-13T10:45:20.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-02-21T06:24:43.695Z article:section: Health og:title: Valentine's Day: Honey, BooBoo and Babe: Why Adults Still Use Baby Talk og:description: You may not want to hear it, but this Valentine's Day you probably can't escape it og:url: https://time.com/7465/babe-baby-boo-why-couples-cant-quit-the-baby-talk/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt008994ee46c8086f/698682723617603e9c90a973/120074963.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 5134 og:image:height: 2888 og:image:alt: Couple flirting og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Valentine's Day: Honey, BooBoo and Babe: Why Adults Still Use Baby Talk twitter:description: You may not want to hear it, but this Valentine's Day you probably can't escape it twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt008994ee46c8086f/698682723617603e9c90a973/120074963.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Babe, Baby, Boo: Why Couples Can't Cut Out the Baby Talk > Sponsored content. 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Language experts may go back and forth over how long such baby talk should last with infants, but they’re generally on board with the idea that it’s not a bad way to engage babies – and certainly not harmful. But we’ve all heard the same baby talk directed at those considerably older – adults talking to other adults, mostly when they’re in love, in that same infantilizing way. And the reason they do it, say experts, is for the same reason we talk to babies that way. “We talk that way to one another because we love each other,” says Jean Berko Gleason, professor emerita of psychology at Boston University. “It’s the affective quality of the speech that people pick up when you talk to your loved one that way.” **MORE:** [Study: A Guy’s Bromances May Help Keep Sex With His Wife Alive](http://healthland.time.com/2011/08/10/study-a-guys-bromances-may-help-keep-sex-with-his-wife-alive/) And that makes sense, even if it is a little disturbing. Erotic love apparently draws from the same emotional well as…baby love? “It conveys intimacy and affect, because it’s tied to our memories of loving language,” says Gleason. We can thank our brain chemicals for that. Dopamine, the feel-good substance in our brains, is responsible for those warm fuzzy feelings we get when we think of being loved by mom and dad. Biochemically, a lover elicits the same dopamine surge, making you feel wanted and secure in the fact that your feelings are reciprocated. **MORE:** [Textual Relations: Couples Who Text Too Much Aren’t As In Love As They Want You To Think](http://healthland.time.com/2013/10/31/if-your-guy-is-texting-you-a-lot-hes-not-that-into-you/) Then there’s [oxytocin](http://healthland.time.com/2011/02/11/should-the-love-hormone-oxytocin-be-used-in-couples-therapy/), the so-called love hormone, that’s also common to both paternal and romantic love. Here’s a fun fact – it’s triggered by close contact between parent and infant, and also during orgasms. So the next time you catch yourself reverting to baby talk with your significant other, don’t feel so bad. 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