--- title: The Secret Pleasure of Breaking New Year’s Resolutions description: New Year's is the only time we can take back control of our failings—or at least, feel like we do, writes Costica Bradatan. canonical: https://time.com/6549171/new-year-resolutions-failure-essay/ author: Costica Bradatan article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2023-12-28T12:00:00.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:58:20.400Z article:section: Ideas og:title: The Secret Pleasure of Breaking New Year’s Resolutions og:description: New Year's is the only time we can take control of our failings—or at least, feel like we do, writes Costica Bradatan. og:url: https://time.com/6549171/new-year-resolutions-failure-essay/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb410340716025059/698a436f09208fa69c41b0e1/NEWYEARSRES.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2400 og:image:height: 1350 og:image:alt: NEWYEARSRES og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: The Secret Pleasure of Breaking New Year’s Resolutions twitter:description: New Year's is the only time we can take control of our failings—or at least, feel like we do, writes Costica Bradatan. twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb410340716025059/698a436f09208fa69c41b0e1/NEWYEARSRES.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # The Secret Pleasure of Breaking New Year’s Resolutions > Sponsored content. 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That’s never going to happen!” we tell ourselves with a giggle. We know only too well that in the morning, when the feast is over, we will return to our old seriousness. Only now, we play the end-of-the-year game with all the more abandon. Our conveniently vague or unrealistic [New Year Resolutions](https://content.time.com/time/specials/packages/completelist/0,29569,2040218,00.html) fail because they are meant to fail. Because they are made half in jest, in an unguarded moment of carnivalesque freedom. For most of us, this may be the only time of the year when we can afford to mock failure, even as we mock ourselves in the process. The only time where we can take back control of our failings—or at least, feel like we do. Most of the time, it is failure that controls and mocks us, and we can’t even attempt a smile as it does so. For failure is no laughing matter. In Western culture, and especially in the U.S., we tend to associate failure with the most serious of calamities: loss of social status and respectability, public degradation, marginalization, ostracization. Since failure doesn’t like to travel alone, whenever it shows up, a sense of finality and doom also creeps in. There is a good historical reason for that. The way we think about failure today is informed, in more than one way, by the strong Calvinist ethos that played such an important role in [the birth of modern capitalism in the west](https://books.google.nl/books/about/The%5FProtestant%5FEthic%5Fand%5Fthe%5FSpirit%5Fof%5FC.html?id=4MmligHndssC&redir%5Fesc=y). Very much like the early Calvinists, we associate financial prosperity and social success with a sense of personal salvation. To make money, and to show it, is a sign of “election”—divine in Calvin’s case, social in ours. Reversely, failing to do so signals personal damnation; Calvin called such people “reprobates,” and relegated them to eternal flames. We call them “losers,” and consign them, a touch more charitably, to the margins of polite society. **_Read More:_**[_The Medieval Monk’s Guide to New Year’s Resolutions_](https://time.com/6244155/medieval-christian-monks-new-years-resolutions/) Unsurprisingly, the guiding principle is the same in both cases: It’s not enough for Calvin’s elect to be saved. Others have to be doomed, too. The heat of hell makes paradise’s breeze all the more refreshing. It’s only in relation to those who lose that victors are victors— and can feel as such. Indeed, the existence of “losers” is key to the success of capitalism as a system: it’s what keeps it in perpetual motion and everybody on their toes. Just as Calvin’s elect could never be completely certain of their salvation, and had to work on it incessantly, so too do the capitalists need to watch their back continually and make sure there is always a distance between them and their competition. And since everybody is playing the same game—and playing it ferociously—we just cannot afford to stop. To do so would be to allow someone else to take your place and to feel like a “loser.” As the cycle goes, we end up working ourselves to death just to stay socially alive. That’s why if there’s something that capitalism cannot do without is not necessarily the free market or private property, but a much humbler thing: _ranking_. Thanks to it, the players of the capitalist game know, at any given moment, where they are exactly, who is ahead and who is behind, who has made it big and who has gone under. We rank everything: countries and companies, universities, high schools, books, and films—even individuals. Each one of us is reduced to a set of numbers, which largely predetermines our biography: credit score, GPA scores, class rank upon graduation, the ranking of the university we went to. We are not who we think we are, but what our numbers say about us. The capitalist accomplishments, then, may have been born not so much out of some luminous desire to succeed, but out of something darker. What has fueled every capitalist success has been not joy, but dread—[the dread of failure](https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/02/opinion/failure-romania-america.html). Terrorized by the fear that we may not be among the socially saved, we never stop outworking and outspending each other. As a result, we may never go officially bankrupt, but we know in our bones that, inwardly, we’ve been so for a long time. In 1853, when the system was still in relative infancy, Herman Melville published his grand hymn to idleness, [_Bartleby, the Scrivener: A Story of Wall Street_](https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/11231), a book about doing nothing in a world where everybody was busy doing something, anything. Only one year later, in 1854, Hendy David Thoreau published his [_Walden_](https://www.gutenberg.org/files/205/205-h/205-h.htm), in which he asked: “Why should we be in such desperate haste to succeed, and in such desperate enterprises? If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a dif­ferent drummer.” I can’t emphasize enough how subversive the two books were. Or how influential. Thanks largely to them, a [counterculture](https://psyche.co/ideas/learning-to-be-a-loser-a-philosophers-case-for-doing-nothing) was born in America that is all about the need to listen to a “different drum.” In this alternative America, everything is turned upside down: Failure is celebrated instead of success, and loafers, slackers, and other bohemians are respectable figures, not the hard-working folk. For all its colorfulness and piquancy, this counterculture remains marginal, which is probably a good thing. There would be no fun if such celebrations were to become routine. And yet, with our “New Year Resolution,” and the secret pleasure we derive from the failure to keep them, this counterculture bursts unexpectedly into the mainstream—if only once a year, and even then, ever so guiltily. ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"OpinionNewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/6549171/new-year-resolutions-failure-essay/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/6549171/new-year-resolutions-failure-essay/"},"headline":"The Secret Pleasure of Breaking New Year’s Resolutions","datePublished":"2023-12-28T12:00:00.000Z","dateModified":"2026-04-13T08:58:20.400Z","description":"New Year's is the only time we can take back control of our failings—or at least, feel like we do, writes Costica Bradatan.","url":"https://time.com/6549171/new-year-resolutions-failure-essay/","keywords":["society","Living","freelance"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb410340716025059/698a436f09208fa69c41b0e1/NEWYEARSRES.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Costica Bradatan","jobTitle":null,"url":"https://time.com/author/costica-bradatan/"}],"articleSection":"Ideas","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb410340716025059/698a436f09208fa69c41b0e1/NEWYEARSRES.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"NEWYEARSRES","caption":"","creditText":"Illustration By Ryan Gillett for TIME","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/section/ideas/","name":"Ideas"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"/tag/society/","name":"society"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":3,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/6549171/new-year-resolutions-failure-essay/","name":"The Secret Pleasure of Breaking New Year’s Resolutions"}}]}] ```