--- description: The ‘Queering the Map’ site is providing space for LGBT people in conflict-stricken Gaza to share messages of solidarity, love, and loss. title: In Gaza, ‘Queering the Map’ Reveals Heartbreaking LGBT Notes image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blta4cfa39bd4aced44/698a41669d83e84b8db97cc4/queering-the-map-gaza.png?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [World](/section/world/) ## World Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [Israel-Hamas War](/tag/israel-hamas-war/) ## Israel-Hamas War Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # In Gaza, ‘Queering the Map’ Reveals Heartbreaking Notes of LGBT Love and Loss  by [Chad de Guzman](/author/chad-de-guzman/)  ## Chad de Guzman Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Reporter Oct 20, 2023 8:30 AM CUT  A screenshot of the interactive website where users can post anonymous, geotagged messages. A screenshot of the interactive website where users can post anonymous, geotagged messages.Queering the Map  by [Chad de Guzman](/author/chad-de-guzman/)  ## Chad de Guzman Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Reporter Oct 20, 2023 8:30 AM CUT These days, it’s not easy for anyone living in Gaza. [Hardly any safe refuge can be found](https://time.com/6324602/gazans-evacuation-israel-egypt/ "undefined") amid Israel’s unrelenting airstrikes of the territory in retaliation to [Hamas’ terrorist attack on Oct. 7](https://time.com/6321849/israel-attack/ "undefined"). But for LGBT Gazans, the specter of death from the Israel-Hamas war only compounds what was already a struggle to live freely in a place where [homosexual relations between men is outlawed](https://www.humandignitytrust.org/country-profile/palestine/ "undefined") and [open queerness violates social and religious mores](https://www.haaretz.com/middle-east-news/palestinians/2018-02-21/ty-article-magazine/.premium/what-its-like-to-be-a-gay-man-in-gaza/0000017f-f90a-d887-a7ff-f9ee85fd0000?lts=1697779022886 "undefined"). Amid the dual threats of escalating violence and ongoing repression, a six-year-old interactive site started in Canada has emerged to provide the world a rare glimpse of the perspective of members of Gaza’s LGBT community. [Queering the Map](https://www.queeringthemap.com "undefined"), a moderated platform founded in 2017 by [Lucas LaRochelle](https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/25/style/queering-the-map-lucas-larochelle.html "undefined") in Montreal, allows LGBT-identifying users to make anonymous geotagged posts. The pink-colored atlas of community-sourced anecdotes, ranging from the raunchy to the heart-rending, has charted experiences across the world, [in at least 28 languages](https://www.thehindu.com/life-and-style/pride-month-2023-this-website-celebrates-queer-memories-from-across-the-world/article66997007.ece "undefined"). ### More From TIME There are no timestamps on the messages, making it difficult to know when they were posted. Some share a general portrait of living as an LGBT person in the enclave. “I know I was different from a young age. I knew I liked boys early on. But society demands it remains hidden. I live elsewhere now and I'm still trying to connect the dots. I wish things weren't this complicated. I don't want to hurt my family, but I cannot live a lie,” one post reads. A post written in Arabic, geotagged in Central Gaza, reads: “The only thing that keeps me patient in Gaza is the sea and you.”  Queering the Map Another, posted at the edge of a pier, reads: “A place \[where\] I kissed my first \[crush\]. Being gay in Gaza is hard but somehow it was fun. I made out with a lot of boys in my neighborhood. I thought everyone is gay to some level.”  Queering the Map Many messages geotagged within Gaza express solidarity with the decades-long cause of Palestinian liberation. Near the Nuseirat refugee camp, which was [targeted by an apparent Israeli airstrike on Tuesday](https://www.theguardian.com/world/video/2023/oct/18/gaza-drone-footage-shows-aftermath-of-strike-on-nuseirat-refugee-camp-video "undefined"), one post reads: “In solidarity with all my Palestinian brothers and sisters, you are all loved. Free Palestine.” Another post from the southern city of Khan Younis, where [hundreds of thousands of Gazans fled to](https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-67138165 "undefined") after evacuation orders in the north and [which has also been bombarded by air raids](https://www.aljazeera.com/gallery/2023/10/19/khan-younis-homes-levelled-by-deadly-israeli-bombardment "undefined"), reads: “Pls know despite what the media says there are gay Palestinians. We are here, we are queer. Free Palestine.” Other messages are even more heartbreaking. “I’ve always imagined you and me sitting out in the sun, hand and hand, free at last. We spoke of all the places we would go if we could,” reads a post tagged in the northern city of Jabalia, where [a series of Israeli missiles last week destroyed a refugee camp](https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2023/10/9/we-will-never-be-safe-a-day-of-bombing-in-gazas-jabalia-refugee-camp "undefined") and [reportedly killed dozens of people](https://www.aa.com.tr/en/middle-east/at-least-50-palestinians-killed-in-israeli-airstrike-on-jabalia-refugee-camp-northern-gaza/3012782 "undefined"). “Yet you are gone now. If I had known that bombs raining down on us would take you from me, I would have gladly told the world how I adored you more than anything. I’m sorry I was a coward.”  Queering the Map Another post, which TIME could not verify on the Queering the Map site but may have existed and later been removed, made [the rounds on social media](https://www.instagram.com/p/CygY7aFr%5FS4/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D&img%5Findex=2 "undefined") in recent days. Apparently tagged in the northern part of the Gaza Strip, it read, according to screenshots: “Idk how long I will live so I just want this to be my memory before I die. I am not going to leave my home, come what may. My biggest regret is not kissing this one guy. He died two days back. We had told how much we like each other and I was too shy to kiss last time. He died in the bombing. I think a big part of me died too. And soon I will be dead. To younus, i will kiss you in heaven.” > [](https://twitter.com/ismonshuokay/status/1713203459640697013) Queering the Map allows [content to be taken down upon request](https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hfAU6Y4H3f3Vjr7nXdrxGwF197zGUeZQPKYOVyM6XsI/edit "undefined"), and founder LaRochelle said in [an interview](https://www.sissyscreens.com/queering-the-map-interview/ "undefined") that moderators block messages that include specific personal details like first and last names. 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