--- description: If Eleven's reaction in the Stranger Things season 3 finale didn't already have you crying, then this callback may do the trick. title: Here's the Meaning Behind This Heartbreaking Stranger Things Callback image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbb7b15a229449895/6989ff9316d884a7c1c36a78/strangerthingsseason3hopper.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [Entertainment](/section/entertainment/) ## Entertainment Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [Television](/tag/television/) ## Television Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Let's Talk About the Meaning Behind This Heartbreaking _Stranger Things_ Season 3 Reference  by [Megan McCluskey](/author/megan-mccluskey/)  ## Megan McCluskey Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Staff Writer Jul 23, 2019 8:47 PM CUT  David Harbour as Hopper in Stranger Things David Harbour as Hopper in Stranger ThingsNetflix  by [Megan McCluskey](/author/megan-mccluskey/)  ## Megan McCluskey Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Staff Writer Jul 23, 2019 8:47 PM CUT **Warning:** This post contains spoilers for [_Stranger Things_ ](https://time.com/5610388/stranger-things-3-references/ "undefined")[season 3](https://time.com/5610388/stranger-things-3-references/ "undefined"). If Eleven’s (Millie Bobby Brown) reaction to [Hopper’s (David Harbour) death](https://time.com/5614771/stranger-things-3-hopper-death/ "undefined") in the [_Stranger Things_ season 3 finale](https://time.com/5617287/stranger-things-3-ending-explained/ "undefined") somehow didn’t already have you bawling your eyes out, then this heartbreaking callback to Hopper’s backstory may do the trick. Right before Hopper heads down into the secret underground Russian lab to close the gate to the Upside Down, he and El share an emotional moment in Starcourt Mall where they hold hands with the blue bracelet that El frequently wears wrapped around both of their wrists. But as was pointed out by eagle-eyed [Reddit user caveemaaan](https://www.reddit.com/r/StrangerThings/comments/cbswy3/okay%5Fwhos%5Fcutting%5Fonions/ "undefined"), this blue bracelet holds a deeper significance. Back in season 1 when a series of flashbacks revealed that Hopper had a daughter who died of cancer when she was 7 years old, she’s shown wearing a blue hair tie. Later, Hopper can be seen wearing the same blue hair tie around his wrist. But after Hop officially adopts El in season 2, she wears the hair tie as a bracelet to go to the Snow Ball with Mike (Finn Wolfhard). El then continues wearing it as a bracelet throughout season 3. Hopper had clearly walled off his emotions following the death of his daughter. But as soon as El came into his life, some of those walls began to fall. Thanks to the blue bracelet, we know that Hopper and El’s final conversation not only gave him a chance to express how important she was to him, but also cemented their father-daughter bond more than ever. 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