--- title: Hugh Hefner the Playboy Did Not Love Women description: Jill Filipovic writes about Hugh Hefner's legacy of mistreating women, and the pity he engenders nevertheless canonical: https://time.com/4963765/no-hugh-hefner-did-not-love-women/ author: Jill Filipovic article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2017-09-30T13:46:14.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-02-23T17:40:09.641Z article:section: Ideas og:title: No, Hugh Hefner Did Not Love Women og:description: 'Hefner did terrible things, and got rich off of them' og:url: https://time.com/4963765/no-hugh-hefner-did-not-love-women/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0c981745e42bdb65/6988e0047cdbac0a7cd5a46e/hugh-hefner-women.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 4240 og:image:height: 2385 og:image:alt: FRANCE-HEFNER-PLAYBOY og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: No, Hugh Hefner Did Not Love Women twitter:description: 'Hefner did terrible things, and got rich off of them' twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0c981745e42bdb65/6988e0047cdbac0a7cd5a46e/hugh-hefner-women.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # No, Hugh Hefner Did Not Love Women > Sponsored content. 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Hugh Hefner with his girlfriend, actress Barbara Benton, and other playmates at Le Bourget airport with the "Big Bunny" jet on Aug. 30, 1970.Stringer/AFP/Getty Images by [Jill Filipovic](https://time.com/author/jill-filipovic/) ## Jill Filipovic Sep 30, 2017 1:46 PM UTC Hugh Hefner loved his things: his silk bathrobes, his palatial mansion, his vintage cars. And of course, he would be quick to say, his girls — those interchangeable blondes all below a certain age, with their Barbie-shaped bodies and smiles that never moved their eyes. Hefner claimed to “love women.” He certainly loved to look at women, or at least the type of women who fit a very particular model. He loved to make money by selling images of women to other men who “love women.” He certainly met a lot of women, had sex with a lot of women, talked to a lot of women. But I’m not sure Hefner ever really _knew_ any of us. And he certainly did not love us. Hugh Hefner wasn’t just a rake in expensive (if extremely cheesy) bathrobes; he was allegedly, according to [multiple accounts](https://www.vice.com/en%5Fau/article/bjvyvw/dont-mourn-for-hugh-hefner.), an [abuser](https://static.currentaffairs.org/2017/09/good-riddance-to-an-abusive-creep). To add insult to injury, he will be buried next to one of the many women he wronged to enrich himself: Marilyn Monroe, whose images helped launch his magazine, but who never wanted them printed in the first place. Yes, Hefner was on the right side of many of the biggest issues of the modern era: free speech, reproductive choice, gay rights. _Playboy_ pushed the envelope on nudity and obscenity, sex and desire. But it did so within the narrowest of frames: men’s views, experiences, interests, biases and desires. Hefner likely would say that _Playboy_ was a reflection of the male psyche. But it also had a hand in shaping it — and the cultural psyche, too. What Hefner and _Playboy_ never did was present women as human, or consider us anything like men. Hefner made female sex objects more relatable and accessible — the _Playboy_ centerfold was the girl next door, not the famous movie actress —but this wasn’t so much an elevation as a downward shift: social permission for men to look at all women through the zipper in their jeans, and not even bother to pretend it was otherwise. Brilliantly, Hefner attached himself to the sexual revolution and the feminist gains that precipitated it. From his vantage point, publishing a magazine full of naked women was just one part of the new culture of “free love.” Except of course the promise of freedom in love was less free for women, who still found themselves saddled with the social expectation of being sexual gatekeepers, and often burdened and shamed by any pregnancies that resulted. And women didn’t have equal access to sexual pleasure, either – a dynamic Hefner helped to foster. While “free love” meant that men increasingly faced lower barriers to sexual access, it did not mean those same men tried to sexually please and cater to the women they had sex with, nor take responsibility for any unanticipated result – an infection, a pregnancy. Hefner advocated for contraception and abortion rights, sure, but because those things benefited men’s sex lives, not because they were necessary components of female freedom. He didn’t fundamentally challenge a view of sex as something women provide to men and that is primarily about male pleasure and experience, with women in a performative role. If anything, he took that existing sexual imbalance and magnified it, creating a brand that is synonymous with sexualized women being gazed at as things a man might want to acquire. There’s nothing wrong with getting naked or being sexy, and some feminists might argue that Hefner admirably challenged our silly cultural puritanism. But American women have long been expected to be aesthetically and sexually pleasing; Hefner just had them show more nipple. Sexist prudery, which equated a woman’s worth with her sexual choices, was supplanted by sexist objectification, which demanded a woman perform sexiness for male approval, and still punished her if she was too sexual on her own terms. Some deal. Hefner’s commitment to women’s freedoms is apparent in how he treated the women in his life. The women who lived in the _Playboy_ Mansion were [essentially trapped](https://www.buzzfeed.com/kateaurthur/holly-madison-burns-it-down?utm%5Fterm=.tqxY2kXrL#.rgvX1zx8k), required to stick to tight curfews, pressured to engage in whatever sex acts their ancient benefactor demanded and plied with drugs (he reportedly [called Quaaludes “thigh-openers”](http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/holly-madison-hugh-hefner-drugs-tried-buy-me-will-2015106)) to get them through it. Before she was a feminist leader, Gloria Steinem was a journalist, and [one of her stories](http://sites.dlib.nyu.edu/undercover/sites/dlib.nyu.edu.undercover/files/documents/uploads/editors/Show-A%20Bunny%27s%20Tale-Part%20One-May%201963.pdf) was about going undercover as a “bunny” at the Playboy Club in New York, where the young women had to follow an arcane set of rules. They were told private detectives may be following them and engaging in workplace sting operations to see if they were breaking any. “Bunnies” were required to undergo an STI test and a gynecological exam conducted by a male doctor of the club’s choice before starting work. America – and _Playboy’s_ role in it — shifted significantly in the final years of Hefner’s life. The magazine, and Hefner himself, once trafficked in an image of male sophistication. But by the 2000s, that image was, like McMansion America, more associated with the vulgar and tasteless, a run-down portrait painted into further dilapidation by a reality TV show shot at the Playboy Mansion. The magazine itself also changed: With ubiquitous free internet porn, _Playboy’s_ promise of full frontal no longer sold copies. _Playboy_ is now more or less nudity-free. Hefner did terrible things, and got rich off of them. But it’s still hard not to feel a little bit sorry for a man so clearly uncomfortable with himself that he built an empire on a commodified and empty casing of male sexual desire, a man who threw legendary parties to bond with other men over bikini-clad women, and who paid beautiful women to live in his house and have sex with him so he wouldn’t have to be alone. He was a man who didn’t even believe his “girlfriends” would come home at the end of the day if he didn’t make a rule. If Hugh Hefner wasn’t Hef, the founder of _Playboy_ — if he was just Hugh Hefner, the man – all of the things he confused with love would have never come to him. Not the sex, not the girls, not even the men he considered friends. He built an empire on male desire, but never seems to have been truly desired himself. He sold a new kind of masculine aspiration, of which he was the paradigm. It was the women he claimed to love who bore most of the cost, but now it’s easy to see the price he paid, too, the things a callow and shallow little man will trade for some time in the spotlight next to a blonde with a great rack. 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