--- description: The story of Mildred and Richard Loving's legal battle to stay married is not outdated in this racially charged time in America. title: Why the Lessons of 'Loving' Are Still Relevant Today image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltd4f4bfd7587027f5/6988a8b5cf40a8367cc450bb/loving-film.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [motto](/tag/motto/) ## motto Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Why the Lessons of _Loving_ Are Still Relevant Today by [Dennis Parker](/author/dennis-parker/) ## Dennis Parker Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Nov 24, 2016 2:00 PM CUT  Ruth Negga and Joel Edgerton in Loving. Ruth Negga and Joel Edgerton in Loving.Focus Features by [Dennis Parker](/author/dennis-parker/) ## Dennis Parker Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Nov 24, 2016 2:00 PM CUT It is a striking irony that the movie [_Loving_](http://time.com/4341168/loving-movie-review-cannes/ "undefined")_,_ which depicts the personal side of the legal battle to end laws prohibiting interracial marriage, comes out just as the United States’ presidential election illuminated the persistence of racial and social divides in our nation. The film tells the story of Mildred Jeter and Richard Loving. Jeter was Black and Loving was white. After marrying in Washington, D.C. in 1958, the couple [returned](http://time.com/3731628/richard-and-mildred-loving-reluctant-civil-rights-heroes/ "undefined") home to Virginia. In the middle of the night just [five weeks](http://people.com/movies/richard-mildred-loving-real-story/ "undefined") after their wedding, the local police raided their home and arrested them for daring to live as man and wife. The couple pled guilty to breaking the state’s Racial Integrity Act, and a local judge gave them a choice: Leave Virginia or go to prison. The Lovings moved to Washington, D.C. For five years, but were rearrested while visiting family in Virginia. This time, however, the couple fought back. Inspired by the civil rights movement, Mildred wrote to Attorney General Robert F. Kennedy for help. He directed her to the American Civil Liberties Union (my current employer, in full disclosure), which took the case to the Supreme Court. In 1967, the [court unanimously struck down](http://time.com/4362508/loving-v-virginia-personas/ "undefined") all state bans on interracial marriage. In today’s divided America, we can see how reaction to _Loving_ can serve as a litmus test for viewers and their views on race. Perhaps the film is a reminder of how far we have come as a nation since Mildred and Richard Loving’s marriage was judged illegal simply because of their races. Or, when viewed against the backdrop of the recent election, perhaps the film serves as a bitter reminder of how far we still have to go to confront the legacy of deeply-entrenched discrimination. And the movie may be seen in some quarters as glorifying a love that no government should legally allow. The strong link between fear and discrimination binds together the Loving era to the present-day. The Virginia anti-miscegenation law which criminalized the Loving’s marriage was the result of the centuries-old fear of black people, particularly their sexuality. The fear that black people — and particularly black men — were brutish, violent and hypersexual in large part spawned antebellum racial codes and the harsh Jim Crow laws that followed the Civil War. The fear of black men as rapists in waiting and the perceived need to protect the purity of white women from them was closely associated with many of the [lynchings](http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2016/10/30/magazine/black-male-sexuality-last-taboo.html?%5Fr=0 "undefined") that plagued the nation for the majority of its history. We cannot now know whether the outcome of the _Loving_ case would have been different if the relationship had been between a black man and a white woman. But the absence of a black man did not insulate the couple from fear, hatred or from prosecution under the law. Indeed, the [famous LIFE Magazine photograph](http://time.com/3731628/richard-and-mildred-loving-reluctant-civil-rights-heroes/ "undefined") of the couple kissing was probably not [embraced by everyone](https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2016/08/19/people-say-they-approve-of-interracial-couples-but-studies-uncover-bias/?utm%5Fterm=.aadcdf460d66 "undefined") in much the same way that photographs of[ same-sex couples kissing](http://www.nytimes.com/2007/02/18/fashion/18affection.html "undefined") create outrage 50 years later among people threatened by the idea that gay people could love, too. Clearly, neither the _Loving_ decision nor the civil rights movement ended the fear and its resulting discrimination. The _Loving_ film is hardly a celebration of how far we’ve come. Instead, it is a chilling reminder that the calls “to make America great again” signal a desire to take the nation back to some of our darkest moments as a country. Most importantly, the movie should spur us to finish the battle against fear and the discrimination that it engendered so that we could become the truly great country which we all deserve, for we have been loving far too long to turn back now. _Dennis Parker is director of the Racial Justice Program at the American Civil Liberties Union._ _MOTTO hosts provocative voices and influencers from various spheres. We welcome outside contributions. 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