--- title: What Lincoln Can Teach Obama's Critics About Equality description: Critics of President Obama's directive to schools about allowing transgender students to use bathrooms of their gender are not being leaders canonical: https://time.com/4353641/abraham-lincoln-equality-lessons/ author: Wayne Maines article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-06-01T20:20:23.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-08-04T07:55:31.346Z article:section: Ideas og:title: What Abraham Lincoln Can Teach President Obama's Critics About Equality og:description: My transgender daughter should have the same rights as other Americans og:url: https://time.com/4353641/abraham-lincoln-equality-lessons/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt09a650ee5e0e89be/698895c75f570f50d0b21289/wayne-maines.jpeg?branch=production&width=960&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 960 og:image:height: 540 og:image:alt: wayne-maines.jpeg og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: What Abraham Lincoln Can Teach President Obama's Critics About Equality twitter:description: My transgender daughter should have the same rights as other Americans twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt09a650ee5e0e89be/698895c75f570f50d0b21289/wayne-maines.jpeg?branch=production&width=960&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # What Abraham Lincoln Can Teach President Obama's Critics About Equality > Sponsored content. 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Nicole Maines, her father Wayne, and her brother Jonas talk about how bathrooms have become the new frontier for transgender civil rights._ by [Wayne Maines](https://time.com/author/wayne-maines/) ## Wayne Maines Jun 1, 2016 8:20 PM UTC  Courtesy of author Courtesy of author Wayne Maines at Gettysburg National Park by [Wayne Maines](https://time.com/author/wayne-maines/) ## Wayne Maines Jun 1, 2016 8:20 PM UTC I was touring the Gettysburg National Park battlefields when I learned that Maine’s governor, Paul Lepage, had [joined](https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2016/05/25/texas-governor-says-state-will-sue-obama-administration-over-bathroom-directive/) 10 other states in suing President Barack Obama’s administration over the new directive that says public schools should let transgender students use the bathrooms and locker rooms that match their gender identity. At that moment I was standing five feet away from the Maine 20th Volunteers Civil War monument, which marks the ground where Maine hero Joshua Chamberlain won the Battle of Little Round Top. Hearing that our governor was joining this protest made me sick to my stomach. My family’s battles for equality are still too fresh. In 2014 my family won a case in the Maine Supreme Court against our school district for preventing my transgender daughter, Nicole, from using her school’s student restrooms. Stories of other families suffering because people are afraid of transgender people across the nation haunt me. When Nicole and her twin brother, Jonas, were 10-years-old, I had to sit down at our breakfast table to talk to them about hate, fear, freedom of speech and equality. Freedom and equality are strong words, but at the time I did not understand their true meaning. As I watched Nicole be denied an equal education and the same common privileges as her classmates, I started to understand their power. As we moved to a new town to live in hiding, and I worried whether my daughter would be safe, I came to understand why we must fight to make sure that they are more than just words. The strength and wisdom needed to make them come true requires courage and action. **Read more:** [My Transgender Daughter Deserves the Same Rights as Your Children](http://time.com/4096479/houston-equal-rights-ordinance-wayne-maines/) My children learned the power of these words at an early age. They often faced bullying, harassment and discrimination, but like Chamberlain, they stood firm. Chamberlain never wavered or retreated. He instilled in his men a strong sense of loyalty, duty and honor. His men followed him because he was a true leader. I have tried to teach my children the same. They believed that our state leaders would do the same. But some are not prepared to do so. Over the past seven years my family has asked our state and national leaders to guarantee equality for every American no matter their race, religion, sexual orientation orgender identity. I was so pleased to see that President Obama, the Department of Education and the Department of Justice understood the needs of the transgender community. I am proud of them for having the courage to make stand for comprehensive equality, and I am disappointed that others are now taking wrong turn, and that transgender Americans could be placed in harm’s way. It is disheartening that these governors have not become more knowledgable, that they are listening to false truths. If they were true leaders, they would seek out the truth and see that their fears are unwarranted. At Gettysburg, looking down at the once blood-stained fields with names like Devil’s Den and Cemetery Ridge, I was reminded that families and friends killed each other here. They did so because their definitions of freedom were different. Yet President Abraham Lincoln set a clear vision for us all to follow: “_Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal_. “ Every governor in America needs to visit Gettysburg and walk the property with a qualified historian and listen closely to learn from our past. There is so much to learn about life, death, honor and leadership from those who fought and died on our own soil. Listening to our guide describe how the 20th Maine Volunteers advanced without ammunition, fixing their bayonet’s for a charge knowing that they were sacrificing their lives to protect others was almost unimaginable. They were not running to die; they ran forward to bring freedom to people they did not know. **Read more:** [Transgender Teen: Bathroom Equality Is a Civil Rights Issue](http://time.com/4330120/transgender-bathroom-equality/) As I walked the hallowed grounds of Gettysburg, imagining each intricate decision of battle, I continued to look to back at Little Round Top. I thought about my own battles, battles against good Americans who cannot or will not try to conquer their fears. I thought about my own failures as a young leader and father. My fears kept me from accepting that my son was in fact my daughter. With time I gained the courage and strength to change. It required a strong loving heart and an open mind, and with new knowledge I mustered the courage to admit I was wrong and discard my fears. Leaders do more than lead us in battles; they are role models, mentors and advocates for change. The governor of Maine has a right to his own opinion—freedom of speech must not be denied—but it is unfortunate that he is using the power of his position to promote policies that do not reflect the will of the people of Maine. Time and time again the citizens of Maine, the majority of our elected officials and our state’s highest court have had the foresight and courage to protect and serve all Mainers. I would hope that he and every state governor would do the same. ## Transcript [ MUSIC ] You need to be able to be someone who's like not afraid to step up to the plate and sort of mark that line in the sand and be like, we are a country that is for this. We are for everyone. I just really like commend Obama for having that courage. I can remember when Jonas was ten telling him never let your sister out of your sight. And he'd say, yes sir. And then I'd tell him you do whatever you gotta do. To protect your sister. Again, a nice dad. And no father should ever have to tell their ten year old to do whatever they have to do to protect their sibling. It was just years of And trying to explain this really, really simple thing of, if someone is, if someone feels that they are a girl, or a boy, or whatever, they should be able to use the facilities that make them feel most comfortable with themselves. It's okay not to understand Now the whole trans thing. You know, that's all right. My dad doesn't understand it, I still don't know everything. What's important is you, sort of, educate yourself on your own time, but you have to respect everybody else's time. Because nobody should have to wait For a quality. 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