--- title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Family Traditions description: You may already have more than you realize. canonical: https://time.com/4143024/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-family-traditions/ author: Carey Wallace article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-12-09T20:33:16.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:57:33.439Z og:title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Family Traditions og:description: Its a way to make the holidays more meaningful og:url: https://time.com/4143024/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-family-traditions/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt5734408432ffdeb6/698874b5bc6cfc63433dac4d/traditions.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 5200 og:image:height: 2925 og:image:alt: Plate of variety of holiday cookies og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Family Traditions twitter:description: Its a way to make the holidays more meaningful twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt5734408432ffdeb6/698874b5bc6cfc63433dac4d/traditions.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # How to Talk to Your Kids About Family Traditions > Sponsored content. 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But to get the most from our traditions, says Meg Cox, tradition expert and author of _The Book of New Family Traditions: How to Create Great Rituals for Holidays and Every Day_, we need to talk about them. And to talk about tradition, says Cox, we need to recognize that we may already have more family traditions than we realize. “People think that it has to be elaborate and complicated, and it doesn’t,” Cox says. “So many incredible family traditions are very quick: the way you say goodbye, the funny thing you say when you put your kid on the bus, or put them to bed.” Over time, Cox says, those habits become traditions. That means parents should “make sure they reflect the values and messages that you want to transmit to your kids.” So how can parents start good conversations with kids about family traditions? **_Elementary age kids_**, says Cox, can start to think about their favorite parts of a tradition: what they like best about a holiday. And since young kids love to ask why, it’s natural to start to explain the values behind a tradition, like the sense of gratitude we hope to nurture at Thanksgiving. And to let them start shaping traditions, by asking them what they might like to add or change. **_Middle school kids_**, Cox says, can get into deeper questions. One major benefit of tradition, Cox says, is that it nurtures a sense of identity for kids. That can be a great place to start conversations about any tradition: does it have to do with our family history, or our religious or ethnic identity? Also, traditions often have a “rite-of-passage” quality, says Cox, like moving from the kids’ table to the grown-ups table at a certain age. So parents can also talk with kids about those moments of transition, and what they might mean. **_High school kids_** can benefit from learning more about other traditions, says Cox. And what they learn might eventually enrich family traditions: “something that might be cool for us to try.” As high school kids step into adulthood, it’s a great time to let them begin to lead. And to let go, as older kids may not always enjoy the same traditions they enjoyed as children. At any age, it’s important to hold onto tradition, but not fear change. “Our lives change constantly,” she says. 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