--- title: Happiness: 10 Steps to a Happier Life, Backed By Research description: Don't just cheer people up—celebrate their good news canonical: https://time.com/3980705/happier-life-research/ author: Eric Barker article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-08-04T04:01:28.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-03-31T08:39:03.380Z article:section: Ideas og:title: 10 Steps to a Happier Life, Backed By Research og:description: Don't just cheer people up—celebrate their good news og:url: https://time.com/3980705/happier-life-research/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt8497a91c0da525a6/69885d63e20a87082ca8c8b1/friends-hugging-celebrating.jpg?branch=production&width=1080&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: friends-hugging-celebrating og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: 10 Steps to a Happier Life, Backed By Research twitter:description: Don't just cheer people up—celebrate their good news twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt8497a91c0da525a6/69885d63e20a87082ca8c8b1/friends-hugging-celebrating.jpg?branch=production&width=1080&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # 10 Steps to a Happier Life, Backed By Research by [Eric Barker](https://time.com/author/eric-barker/) ## Eric Barker Aug 4, 2015 4:01 AM UTC  Group of friends holding sparklers in air, at party Group of friends holding sparklers in air, at partyGetty Images by [Eric Barker](https://time.com/author/eric-barker/) ## Eric Barker Aug 4, 2015 4:01 AM UTC I went through a number of great books on happiness and pulled together ten research-based tips that can help build a happier life: ## 1) Cut the small talk. Discuss what matters. Via [Pursuing the Good Life: 100 Reflections on Positive Psychology](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0199916357/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0199916357&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how to be someone people love to talk to, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2015/02/love-to-talk/).) ## 2) Have at least 5 friends you can discuss your problems with. Via [Finding Flow: The Psychology of Engagement with Everyday Life](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0465024114/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0465024114&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how to make friends and strengthen friendships, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2013/11/how-to-make-friends-easily/).) ## 3) Don’t just cheer people up. Celebrate their good news. Via [The Myths of Happiness: What Should Make You Happy, but Doesn’t, What Shouldn’t Make You Happy, but Does](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594204373/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1594204373&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how to avoid the four most common relationship problems, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/12/relationship-problems/).) ## 4) Write down your hopes and dreams. Via [The Myths of Happiness: What Should Make You Happy, but Doesn’t, What Shouldn’t Make You Happy, but Does](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594204373/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1594204373&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how writing can help you overcome anxiety, tragedy or heartache, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/11/how-to-deal-with-anxiety/).) ## 5) Live a month like it’s your last. Via [The Myths of Happiness: What Should Make You Happy, but Doesn’t, What Shouldn’t Make You Happy, but Does](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594204373/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1594204373&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on what you can learn about happiness from ancient wisdom, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/01/ancient-philosophers/).) ## 6) Know what makes everyone happy and everyone sad. Via [Engineering Happiness: A New Approach for Building a Joyful Life](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0520268210/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0520268210&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on what the happiest people in the world do every day, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/06/happiest-people/).) ## 7) Join a group. Via [Engineering Happiness: A New Approach for Building a Joyful Life](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0520268210/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0520268210&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how to never be frustrated again, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2015/04/frustrated/).) ## 8) For a happier life, set goals. Via [Engineering Happiness: A New Approach for Building a Joyful Life](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0520268210/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0520268210&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on what the most productive people do every day, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/06/most-productive-people/).) ## 9) Optimism can save your life. Via [Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1439190763/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1439190763&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how to be optimistic, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/07/how-to-be-optimistic/).) ## 10) Anticipating happiness will double your happiness. Via [Stumbling on Happiness](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1400077427/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1400077427&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20): --- > “” --- (For more on how to savor the good things and be happier, click [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/02/happiest-people-in-the-world/).) **_This piece originally appeared on_** [**_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2013/05/happier-life/)**_._** **Join over 200,000 readers. 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