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Aziz Ansari on Love in the Age of Like

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Aziz Ansari is a comedian and author of Modern Romance.

MY PARENTS HAD AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

This always fascinated me. I am perpetually indecisive about even the most mundane things, and I couldn’t imagine navigating such a huge life decision so quickly.

I asked my dad about this experience, and here’s how he described it: he told his parents he was ready to get married, so his family arranged meetings with three neighboring families. The first girl, he said, was “a little too tall,” and the second girl was “a little too short.” Then he met my mom. He quickly deduced that she was the appropriate height (finally!), and they talked for about 30 minutes…

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