9 Super Simple Ways to Make Facebook Less Annoying

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Once upon a time, Facebook was a quiet online gathering place for real-world friends to keep tabs on one another. Now it’s a neverending torrent of viral news articles, auto-playing videos, awkward political rants from distant cousins and a weekly Candy Crush invite from your 11th-grade English teacher.

It doesn’t have to be. Facebook is giving users more control over what kind of posts show up in the News Feed, which is controlled by a secret Facebook algorithm and shows a small fraction of all available posts each day. Spending just a few minutes navigating the social network’s settings menus can make Facebook a less chaotic experience and ensure that your data remains more private.

After trawling through Facebook’s hundreds of settings options, TIME compiled this list of tips to help you get the most out of your time on the world’s largest social network:

 

Quiet Your Chattiest Friends

Everyone has a few Facebook friends that never seem to shut up. A new setting lets you figure out exactly who these people are by listing which of your friends had the mosts posts in your News Feed in the past week. You can choose to “Unfollow” these friends, which is kind of like a stealth un-friending. Their posts will no longer show up in your News Feed, but they won’t know they’ve been unfollowed and you can still send them messages and look at their profiles. If you don’t want to go quite that far, you can also tell Facebook to simply show you fewer of their posts. These options can be accessed via the “News Feed Settings” option on desktop and the “Mange News Feed” option in the mobile settings menu.

 

An even faster method is to simply click the small gray arrow in the top right corner of any News Feed post and choose to either Unfollow that user or tell Facebook you don’t want to see that individual post in your feed. The same options apply for Pages.



Lists are another good way to control Facebook chatter. Place friends in the “Acquaintances” list and their posts will rarely show up in your News Feed. You can also make use of the “Restricted” list, which is kind of the inverse of the “Unfollow” option. Restricted users will only be able to see your public posts or posts in which you specifically tag them. This could be a useful way to deal with a friend request from your boss or a stealthy method to keep annoying users from commenting on your posts. Both lists can be accessed by visiting friends’ profile pages.


Eliminate Annoying Game Invites Once and For All

Maybe you’re tired of that soul-crushing feeling when your first Facebook notification in 24 hours turns out be another generic invitation to play Farmville. Get rid of these annoying app messages by clicking on the small X on the right side of the message in the notifications box. Facebook will then ask if you want to turn off notifications for that app permanently.

For more control, you can go to the “Blocking” menu in Settings and choose to block specific apps or app invites from individual friends who are probably frustrating hundreds of other people with their indiscriminate clicking.

Make it Harder to Be Tagged in Photos

Facebook won’t let you stop other people from tagging you completely, but you can prevent these tagged photos from showing up in your timeline. You can also disable Facebook’s “suggested tag” feature, which prompts other users to tag pictures that look like you. Both options are on the “Timeline and Tagging” screen in the Settings menu.

 

You can also remove tags of yourself from multiple photos at once by visiting the “Activity Log,” which can be accessed from the same drop-down menu that holds the Settings option (the downward facing arrow next to the privacy and notification icons in the main blue bar at the top of all Facebook pages). On the “Activity Log” page, select photos in the left-hand menu, and then select the check-boxes for all the photos you want to untag.

 

Stop Facebook From Using You in Its Ads

Facebook aims to make its ads as personalized as possible. Sometimes that means taking activity you’ve performed—liking a certain page, for instance—and then slapping your name on an ad as an implicit endorsement of the product. You can stop the use of your name in such ads by selecting the “Ads and Friends” section of the Ads screen under Settings.

Under an even odder setting on the same menu called “Third Party Sites,” Facebook says it doesn’t give third party websites or apps the right to use your name and photo in ads, but if the company decides to in the future, users offer consent by default. You can flip this setting so that no one will see your name next to these potential ads in the future.

 

Make Ads More Interesting

There’s no getting around Facebook ads—they’re the revenue driver that allows the site to be free and still be a thriving business. But users can exert some level of control of the specific ads they see. Ads can be dismissed using the arrow in the top-left corner of the ad in much the same way as posts from friends or Pages. Users can also change their ad preferences (viewable here) to ensure that ads related to specific topics, people or products are emphasized.

Log Out of Facebook Remotely

Nervous that you accidentally left your Facebook account logged in on a public computer? You can actually log off the site on individual browsers and devices from a different location. Simply go to Settings, then Security, then the “Where You’re Logged In” option. You can choose to “end activity” and log out of any browser or mobile device where your account is logged in. The feature also works for Facebook-owned companion apps like Messenger and Paper (though seemingly not for Instagram).

 

Get Rid of the Sidebar

The Facebook homepage has gotten increasingly crowded over the years. The sidebar, which shows a list of friends currently online and a constant stream of all friends’ social actions, is one of the biggest culprits. But click the gear icon in the bottom right corner of the Sidebar and select “Hide Sidebar” to minimize the window and get some much-needed white space back on your desktop screen.

Stop Auto-Playing Videos

The latest potentail Facebook annoyance is the abundance of videos that start playing automatically as you scroll past them. These can be an unsolicited distraction and eat up mobile data if not kept in check. Though the videos play by default, users have the option of having them work while connected to Wi-Fi or disabling autoplay completely. The exact method for changing auto-play differs for desktops and mobile devices.

Hide Your Early, Immature Days on Facebook With One Click

If you’re trying to repent for your over-sharing sins of the past, Facebook will let you quickly make any public posts only viewable to your friends. Under the Privacy tab in the Settings menu, click “Limit Past Posts” under the “Who can see my stuff?” category. This option will make older posts that were originally shared with the general public or “Friends of Friends” only viewable to your Facebook friends. Ensuring that old posts are only viewable to you or to certain friends still requires fine-tuning on individual messages and photos.

The 50 Best iPad Apps

1Password. 1Password creates hard-to-crack passwords for your online accounts and hides them all behind one, secure master password (don’t forget your master password). Aside from just login credentials, you can use 1Password to protect your credit cards, passport, bank account numbers and even notes you don’t want falling into the wrong hands.AgileBits
Allrecipes. Referencing an iPad while cooking is usually far less cumbersome than using a computer, and the free Allrecipes app puts thousands of recipes and step-by-step videos at your fingertips. You can even sync recipes and ingredients with your Allrecipes.com account’s recipe box and shopping lists.Allrecipes
BaconReader for Reddit. Reddit — the self-proclaimed front page of the Internet — gets a glossy makeover with BaconReader. The app lets you cruise subreddits, follow friends, use multiple accounts and upload photos that you can draw all over using the iPad’s touchscreen.OneLouder
BlogPad Pro for WordPress. If you maintain a WordPress site, the $5 BlogPad Pro app deserves a spot on your iPad. The visual editor sports a ton of features, there’s an offline mode and the conflict-management feature prevents you from accidentally overwriting someone else’s work if you’re both trying to work on a post at the same time.Macroweb Ltd
Catalog Spree. Under normal circumstances, you’d need a pickup truck to lug 350 catalogs around. The free Catalog Spree app shrinks 350 popular catalogs into digital form and lets you swipe through pages and pages of potential purchases without breaking a sweat.Padopolis
Chrome. If you use Google’s Chrome web browser on your computer, loading the free app onto your iPad is a no-brainer simply for the ability to synchronize your browsing history, passwords and bookmarks. Incognito Mode gives you the option of browsing more privately, there’s a feature that helps you cut down on mobile data use, and you can search by voice.Google
Dictionary.com Dictionary & Thesaurus. Dictionary.com’s iPad app boasts audio pronunciations, daily content (Word of the Day, slideshows and more) and over 2 million definitions. Perhaps best of all, most of the content can be accessed offline, so if you’re in an area without connectivity, you’ll still be able to look stuff up.Dictionary.com
Fan TV. There’s no shortage of streaming TV and movie services available, but launching separate apps for each one quickly gets cumbersome. The free Fan TV app acts like a slick launchpad to other popular streaming apps, letting you find and watch what you want with minimal fuss.Fanhattan
Fantastical 2. Fantasical 2 is a feature-full calendar app that lets you add reminders, tasks and to-dos using natural language phrases. You can event set up geofences to have the app remind you of certain events or tasks when you enter a certain area, such as your home or office. And like any good calendar app, it plays nicely with Exchange, Google Calendar and iCloud.Flexibits
Feedly Reader. Some of us like to read our news the (relatively) old-fashioned way. Thankfully, cruising your RSS feeds is a breeze with Feedly. The free app presents your favorite news sources in a slick card-like interface, highlights which posts are popular with other users and lets you browse for additional sources to add to your collection.Feedly
FitStar Personal Trainer. FitStar looks to play the role of your virtual personal trainer by way of its “dynamic progression algorithm,” which adjusts the difficulty of your workouts alongside your fitness level and goals. The app can be cast to your TV set if you’ve got an Apple TV box, and the workouts are hosted by NFL great Tony Gonzalez.FitStar
Flipboard. One of the best-looking apps on our list, Flipboard bills itself as “your personal magazine.” Browse handpicked articles on various topics and pipe in updates from your Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and Tumblr accounts for a one-stop shop that caters to your interests.Flipboard
Friendly+ for Facebook. If you’re not too keen on Facebook’s own iPad app, you might consider ponying up a couple bucks for the Friendly+ app. It presents Facebook in a simple, well-laid-out interface and includes extras such as a PIN code lock, multiple account support and custom-configured birthday reminders. There’s a free, ad-supported version as well.Friendly App Studio
GarageBand. Apple’s GarageBand app lets you indulge your inner Van Halen by laying down up to 32 music tracks containing just about any instrument you could imagine. Connect four iPhones, iPads or iPod Touches over Wi-Fi or Bluetooth to record you and your bandmates at the same time, then share your finished creation on various social networks.Apple
Genius Scan+. Genius Scan+ helps you tame that mountain of paperwork, digitizing it so you can quickly deal with it later — much, much later. The app detects the edges of documents when you snap a photo, and can then save them as PDF files and back them up to popular online storage services. A free, feature-limited version is available as well.The Grizzly Labs
Google Maps. The reigning champion of helping you get from point A to point B, Google Maps is a must-download. Sure, the app helps you get where you’re going (or figure out where you are), but it also pulls in restaurant recommendations leveraged by Google’s purchase of Zagat, and real-time traffic information leveraged by Google’s purchase of Waze. If your iPad’s got a cellular connection, you can use Google Maps as a GPS system, too.Google
Hangouts. Assuming you have a Google account and friends who have Google accounts, the Hangouts app is an easy way to keep in touch with everyone. Let your fingers do the talking with the IM-like chat features, then switch to free group video calling with up to 10 people once the discussion really gets going.Google
Hipmunk Hotels & Flights. Hipmunk takes the traditional flight-search model and turns it on its head, showing options sorted first by “agony,” then by price and other factors. You’re treated to a grid of at-a-glance info about which flights and hotels have Wi-Fi, which flights have long layovers, and a “heatmap” of hotel options that shows you how close each hotel is to the action — all in a fun, easy-to-use interface.Hipmunk
Houzz Interior Design Ideas. If you’re looking for a little inspiration when decorating your home, the super-slick Houzz app has it. Well, it doesn’t have a little inspiration, actually: It has a lot of it. There are over 4.5 million photos of rooms, furniture and other products, all of which you can clip and save to a virtual scrapbook.Houzz
iA Writer. When all you want to do is indulge in a bit of distraction-free writing, the sparse-yet-useful iA Writer has you covered. You can focus on as few as three lines when writing on your iPad, and files can be saved via iCloud or Dropbox to be accessed on your iPhone or other devices. The app’s special keyboard sports arrow keys and direct access to punctuation, too.Information Architects
iHeartRadio. If you’re listening to the radio, there’s a good chance you’re listening to a station owned by Clear Channel. The iHeartRadio app offers live streaming from thousands of Clear Channel stations, on-demand talk shows and the ability to create your own station from over 18 million songs.iHeartRadio
IM+ Pro7. If there’s an instant messaging service out there that’s even moderately popular, chances are IM+ Pro7 works with it. Whether your friends use Facebook, Skype, Google, AIM, Yahoo or one of several others, you’ll be able to communicate with each other without juggling a bunch of different apps.SHAPE GmbH
IMDb Movies & TV. Spend enough time in front of your TV and you’ll eventually want to know why that person in that one show or movie looks so familiar. The free IMDb (Internet Movie Database) app has info on over 2 million TV shows and movies and over 4 million actors, directors and crew members.IMDb
Intellicast HD. Weather apps are a dime a dozen (most are free, actually), but Intellicast HD has some of the best-looking, most up-to-date weather maps around. You’ll know exactly what’s headed your way, and how bad it’s going to be once it hits. The app is free; an extra two bucks gets you access to real-time, high-resolution radar feeds and some other goodies.WSI Corporation
Jinni My TV & Movie Guide. The promise of personalized TV and movie recommendations always seems to be something of a letdown. Jinni provides a ray of hope, though, analyzing thousands of data points while hooking into your favorite streaming services and your cable provider to serve up a watch list you might actually want to watch.Jinni
Kindle. There are several worthwhile e-book reading apps to choose from, but Amazon’s Kindle platform gets the nod thanks to its availability on just about every other device on the market. If it’s rectangular, has a screen of some type and connects to the Internet, you can probably use it to read a Kindle book.Amazon
Mailbox. Mailbox looks to tame your Gmail inbox by letting you quickly archive emails with a swipe or turn them into task-like entities to deal with later. The app’s design emphasizes speed and simplicity, helping you to slice through your mountain of messages in a matter of minutes. Yes, you’re basically engaging in digital procrastination, but at least it’ll help you feel somewhat organized. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of reaching inbox zero, if only for a short while.Dropbox
Mint Personal Finance. Instead of downloading separate apps to keep track of each credit card and bank account you own, try Mint. The free app connects to all your accounts and displays your balances, lets you customize a budget and shows your spending trends organized by category.Intuit
Morning. If you check your iPad first thing in the morning, why not get an overview of what you actually have to do each day? The Morning app shows you weather, reminders, traffic along your commute, news, calendar items, stock prices and more, all tucked into a handsome card-like grid that’s available in multiple colorful themes.Tamper
Notability. In the old days, to get your written notes synchronized with an audio recording, you used to have to spend over a hundred bucks on a fancy pen and paper combo. Notability now offers similar functionality in an inexpensive app. Take notes while your iPad records the audio, then play it all back later. Your notes will reveal themselves in time with what’s being played back on the audio recording.Ginger Labs
Paper by FiftyThree. Paper is a free iPad app with a simple interface that lets you write, sketch and paint in virtual notebooks. It may not seem like rocket science, but realistically replicating the feel of various writing and art utensils on a tablet screen is a complicated feat that Paper pulls off with style.FiftyThree
PCalc. If you’re going to load a calculator onto something the size of a tablet, you might as well go big. At $10, PCalc isn’t your ordinary calculator: It’s like a scientific calculator that fell in radioactive goop and now has superpowers. At the same time, however, it’s functional as a straightforward calculator for those of us who aren’t especially mathletic.TLA Systems
PDFpen. PDFpen is a great go-to app for dealing with complex PDF files, letting you edit documents, create notes and sign forms with ease. And if you’re a Mac user, the app is available for your computer as well, working with Dropbox and iCloud to sync your documents between your iPad and your Mac.SmileOnMyMac
Photo Editor by Aviary. For a free image editor, this app from Aviary sports a wealth of features. Aside from being able to crop and rotate your photos, there’s red-eye reduction, blemish removal, teeth whitening and more. You can add doodles, text and stickers to liven up your images as well.Aviary
Pinterest. Pinterest, the web’s most popular pin board, makes for a great couch companion. Pass the time browsing your friends’ pins, or pin things from around the web for projects or vacation ideas that you’d like to revisit later.Pinterest
Pocket. Pocket lets you grab various bits from around the web — articles, videos, images and more — and save them for later perusal. The free app takes text articles and strips out all the ads, buttons and other digital detritus to present a clean, easy-on-the-eyes reading experience.Read It Later
Procreate. Procreate is not to be confused with a baby-making app. Despite the silly name, this app helps you make some serious art: With 120 brushes and over a hundred layers, Procreate turns your iPad into a digital canvas that can be manipulated almost as well as the real thing. You can even record your paintings as high-definition videos, playing back each stroke as it happens.Savage Interactive
Recorder Plus + HD. Recorder Plus + HD is a full-featured audio recording app that lets you record sound files limited only by the available space on your iPad. And if you need to edit those long files, there’s a built-in audio editor that’s easy to use thanks to the iPad’s touchscreen. You can even share your audio files directly over your Wi-Fi network. There’s a free version with fewer features, as well.TurboKey Studio
Scribd. Do you like e-books? Do you not like having to pay $10 for each one? Scribd is like a Netflix for e-books, giving you unlimited access to over 100,000 tomes for nine bucks a month. If you read books like people binge-watch movies and TV on Netflix or download music all day on Spotify, Scribd is worth a closer look.Scribd
Songza. Sometimes you don’t want to put too much thought into your music. In that spirit, Songza offers up mood-based playlists cobbled together by music professionals. Stream a mix for working out or driving or unwinding or singing in the shower. The moods can get as specific as you like, and the service is free and unlimited if you’re willing to put up with some intermittent ads.Songza Media
Spotify. For $10 a month, Spotify acts like a giant music store where you download as much music as you want for offline playback from your phone, tablet or computer. There’s also a streaming radio option, and if you don’t want to pony up $10 a month for the premium version, there’s an ad-supported version that lets you listen to any song for free.Spotify
StumbleUpon. StumbleUpon has long perfected the art of serving up random items of interest on the web to users who just want something to do. Choose an interest, hit the big Stumble button and give a thumbs-up or thumbs-down to whatever is presented to you. Repeat.StumbleUpon
Team Stream HD. Bleacher Report’s Team Stream app has a pretty fitting name. You pick your favorite sports teams and the app serves up a heaping helping of scores, tweets, articles, videos and photos in short order. You can set yourself up to get various notifications as they happen, and easily share updates over social media and via text messages to your friends.BleacherReport
Titan Downloader. The free Titan Downloader app features a built-in web browser that lets you save video files you find on various sites for playback at a later time. You can queue up multiple videos to play one after another and set a pass-code lock to prevent others from accessing your collection.Connect Technology
TripIt. As a TripIt user, you can make travel bookings and forward the confirmation emails from your airline, hotel, car-rental service and more to plans@tripit.com; those bookings will then be organized into a coherent itinerary available from within the free app.TripIt
Tumblr. Tumblr is a weird, wild, wonderful collection of musings, images and videos — the Internet is a better place for it. And the official Tumblr app pays the site a great service by being just as straightforward and well-polished. You can use it to share just about anything with a few taps, while keeping tabs on multiple blogs and all your messages. It works offline when you don’t have a connection, too.Tumblr
TuneIn. Think of the free TuneIn app as being able to turn your iPad into a radio capable of pulling in almost any station from anywhere in the world. The service boasts over 100,000 live radio station feeds and 2 million podcasts to choose from.TuneIn
Tweetbot for Twitter. There are plenty of free ways to interact with Twitter, but the $3 Tweetbot app is well worth the price of admission, with an eye-popping design, time-saving gestures that you can customize to perform various tricks and connections to several third-party web services.Tapbots
Vodio. In case you hadn’t noticed, there are a lot of videos on the web. Vodio stitches together the videos people are actually watching, and organizes them into various categories so you can watch the ones that interest you. The app even suggests videos to you based on the types of videos you watch on Twitter and Facebook, getting smarter over time.Vodio Labs
Yelp. If you’re on vacation or new in town (or even not-so-new in town) and you want to learn about what’s around you — shops, restaurants, dry cleaners, gas stations, bars, you name it — Yelp has you covered, complete with user reviews so you can separate the good from the bad.Yelp

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