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# This Is the Definitive Phone Number to Give Sketchy Guys Who Demand Your Digits at Bars

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by 

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## Laura Stampler


Jun 13, 2014 4:50 PM UTC

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## Laura Stampler


Jun 13, 2014 4:50 PM UTC

In a perfect world, a woman would be able to politely deny a man’s request for her number and go back to peacefully drinking her gin and tonic. But any woman who has, say, stepped out of the house or interacted with strangers in public places, knows that sometimes rejected advances are met with machismo vitriol, and [even violence.](http://jezebel.com/woman-beaten-to-death-for-refusing-to-give-men-her-numb-1584496268)

That’s why the Feminist Phone Intervention hotline number was created. The next time an unwanted suitor demands your number, and you want to escape the situation, give him the following: **(669) 221-6251.** “Because,” [according to the project’s Tumblr,](http://feminist-phone-intervention.tumblr.com/post/88518084309/669-221-6251) “(669) UGH-ASIF, WTF-DUDE, and MAJR-SHADE were taken.”

All calls and texts prompt an automated quote by feminist writer [bell hooks](https://www.facebook.com/pages/Bell-Hooks/22762902634). Choice words of wisdom include:

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This is way better than the “[Rejection hotline.](http://rejectionline.com)“

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