--- title: War Heroes Attract More Women Than Any Other Kind of Guy description: And why men don't find brave women attractive canonical: https://time.com/3742945/dating-war-heroes-and-humanitarians/ author: Belinda Luscombe article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-03-12T20:26:59.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:56:50.214Z og:title: War Heroes Attract More Women Than Any Other Kind of Guy og:description: And why men don't find brave women attractive og:url: https://time.com/3742945/dating-war-heroes-and-humanitarians/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4bb679f18325de4f/6987834e0b72e3bd566de22b/military-heros-attractive.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2560 og:image:height: 1440 og:image:alt: A stock image of a man in a military uniform lifting up a woman og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: War Heroes Attract More Women Than Any Other Kind of Guy twitter:description: And why men don't find brave women attractive twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4bb679f18325de4f/6987834e0b72e3bd566de22b/military-heros-attractive.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Why Women Like War Heroes More than Any Other Kind of Guy > Sponsored content. 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It is a free newsletter available at time.com/newsletters. ### Sources * TIME Newsletters: [time.com/newsletters](/c/time-nl-worth-2026q3/newsletters?i=de660e82-050c-457d-a7e2-f9fa76eaee59&cr=time-nl-worth-2026q3-v1)  by [Belinda Luscombe](https://time.com/author/belinda-luscombe/)  ## Belinda Luscombe Editor at Large Mar 12, 2015 8:26 PM UTC  Man in military uniform lifting woman up in airport, low section Man in military uniform lifting woman up in airport, low section Getty Images  by [Belinda Luscombe](https://time.com/author/belinda-luscombe/)  ## Belinda Luscombe Editor at Large Mar 12, 2015 8:26 PM UTC In a study that could explain _so much_ about the Brian Williams thing, it has been found that women are more sexually attracted to men who have been deemed heroic during conflict than men who have merely served in the armed forces. And—sorry, humanitarians—men who were deemed heroic during a non-war-related crisis didn’t have nearly the same game. Meanwhile, women who were considered heroic for any reason were found to be less attractive to men than regular women. (You read that right. _Less_ attractive.) The findings are the result of three studies done by researchers in England and the Netherlands. First, the researchers established from archives that World War II veterans who were Medal of Honor winners had more kids on average (3.18) than other returned servicemen (2.72). The number of offspring is not completely correlated with the frequency of springing into bed, however. So the researchers asked 92 female British students to rate how attracted they were to various profiles and the war hero came out as the No. 1 most dateworthy type. Military service was attractive to women generally, but interestingly, if the guy had no war honors, whether he had served overseas or never left home base made no difference to his magnetism. In other words, men who see more action don’t necessarily see more action. In the third study, 159 women and 181 men studying in Holland were given various profiles to rate and again the decorated war veteran was the female favorite. Soldiers who had been honored for their work in disaster zones or humanitarian crises got no spike in interest. And, depressingly, guys were less interested in women who had done something amazingly brave than women who hadn’t, even though the participants in the study were the supposedly gender equal Dutch. The researchers were looking at the impact of medals not to enhance the dating resumes of veterans, but to examine the effect of conflict and bravery on evolution. (Those who attract the most mating partners have the highest chance of passing on their genes.) So why are women drawn to guys who are demonstrably willing to engage in life threatening behavior? Because they’ve proved their genetic hardiness, suggest the researchers. “Raids, battles, and ambushes in ancestral environments, and wars in modern environments, may provide an arena for men to signal their physical and psychological strengths,” says Joost Leunissen, a psychologist at the University of Southampton and co-author of the study. The thinking is that those who have the clarity of thought to try something life-saving and the physical prowess to pull it off must be built to survive, and are therefore a good evolutionary bet. Leunissen also seems to offer, perhaps unintentionally, some eggheady advice on whether women should be on the front lines. “In light of the physical dangers and reproductive risks involved,” he says, “participating in intergroup aggression might not generally be a viable reproductive strategy for women.” Translation: not if they want to have kids. ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/3742945/dating-war-heroes-and-humanitarians/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/3742945/dating-war-heroes-and-humanitarians/"},"headline":"Why Women Like War Heroes More than Any Other Kind of Guy","datePublished":"2015-03-12T20:26:59.000Z","dateModified":"2026-04-13T08:56:50.214Z","description":"And why men don't find brave women attractive","url":"https://time.com/3742945/dating-war-heroes-and-humanitarians/","keywords":["Living","Veterans","Dating","Sex","war","study","Evolution"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4bb679f18325de4f/6987834e0b72e3bd566de22b/military-heros-attractive.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Belinda Luscombe","jobTitle":"Editor at Large","url":"https://time.com/author/belinda-luscombe/"}],"articleSection":"","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4bb679f18325de4f/6987834e0b72e3bd566de22b/military-heros-attractive.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"A stock image of a man in a military uniform lifting up a woman","caption":"A stock image of a man in a military uniform lifting up a woman","creditText":"Getty Images","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/tag/time-section-living/","name":"Living"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/3742945/dating-war-heroes-and-humanitarians/","name":"Why Women Like War Heroes More than Any Other Kind of Guy"}}]}] ```