What system do they use in his lab for quickly telling who will stay together?
In the book, Gottman explains the five points that allow his lab to make such spectacular predictions.
#1: Fondness and Admiration
#2: Me-ness vs. We-ness
#3: Knowing your partner
#4: Glorifying Your Struggles
#5: Disappointment vs. Satisfaction
And there is a point where the rift cannot be undone:
What’s the core takeaway you should keep in mind?
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