--- title: Robert Gates & Boy Scouts Should Accept Openly Gay Adults description: On my 18th birthday, I must say goodbye to the organization that has shaped my youth. canonical: https://time.com/3080380/an-open-letter-to-robert-gates-the-boy-scouts-need-to-accept-gay-adults/ author: Pascal Tessier article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2014-08-06T04:01:12.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:54:30.883Z article:section: Ideas og:title: An Open Letter to Robert Gates: The Boy Scouts Need to Accept Gay Adults og:description: On my 18th birthday, I must say goodbye to the organization that has shaped my youth. og:url: https://time.com/3080380/an-open-letter-to-robert-gates-the-boy-scouts-need-to-accept-gay-adults/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt858abb4dcc6106e8/69869e58361760362f90d53e/500955271.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2300 og:image:height: 1294 og:image:alt: Pride Week 2014 og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: An Open Letter to Robert Gates: The Boy Scouts Need to Accept Gay Adults twitter:description: On my 18th birthday, I must say goodbye to the organization that has shaped my youth. twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt858abb4dcc6106e8/69869e58361760362f90d53e/500955271.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # An Open Letter to Robert Gates: The Boy Scouts Need to Accept Gay Adults > Sponsored content. 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Stacey Bramhall—Moment Editorial/Getty Images by [Pascal Tessier](https://time.com/author/pascal-tessier/) ## Pascal Tessier Aug 6, 2014 4:01 AM UTC I was just 4 years old when I went on my first camping trip with my older brother and his Cub Scouts pack. After that, I was hooked. Scouting has been a constant part of my life since then. The Boy Scouts taught me everything from how to survive in the woods to the morals and values that shaped the person I am today. For that, and for the good times and friends I made through Scouting, I will always be grateful. But today I have to say “goodbye.” Today is my 18th birthday, a milestone on my path to becoming an adult and the day I am no longer eligible to be a Boy Scout because I am gay. Despite the Boy Scouts’ historic decision last year to open its ranks to gay youth, the Scouts still ban gay adults. And as of today, that means me. In his first speech as the newly elected president of the Boy Scouts of America, former U.S. Defense Secretary Robert Gates said that, although he supports allowing gay adults in Scouting, he will not take the leadership to make change. Gates went on to argue that ending the ban on gay adults now could lead to the Boy Scouts’ ultimate demise. “And who would pay the price for destroying the Boy Scouts of America?” Gates asked. “We must always put the kids and their interests first.” Except kids like me, it seems. Kids who have devoted their entire adolescence to Scouting, from Pinewood Derby to Eagle badge, only to be tossed out and told that we are predators. In allowing the Boy Scouts’ ban on gay adults to continue—not because he believes it is the right thing to do, but because he is afraid of the possible consequences of enacting a fair policy—Mr. Gates is knowingly sacrificing thousands of devoted Scouts who happen to be gay. Scouts like me. So today, I am hoping that you, Mr. Gates, will let me convince you to stop the sacrifices. Mr. Gates, only you have the power and experience to bring an end to the unwarranted, unjust and un-Scout like ban on gay adults. Every day that you do nothing, more boys and parents struggle with their place in Scouting, in their communities and in their families. Not long ago, Mr. Gates, you were instrumental in the repeal of the military’s ban on gay service members, telling the U.S. Senate in February 2010 that, “The question before us is not whether the military prepares to make this change \[to allow gay service members\], but how we best prepare for it.” Openly gay adults will eventually be allowed in Scouting, Mr. Gates. As support for equality continues to grow, Americans will soon demand it. The question before you, then, is not whether the ban should end, but how many more young people like me will be a victim of your failed leadership if you do nothing. _Pascal Tessier is the first known openly gay Eagle Scout. 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