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Rosmarin is an associate professor at Harvard Medical School and a program director at McLean Hospital Jun 10, 2026 12:39 PM UTC  Photo-Illustration by Chloe Dowling for TIME (Source Images: Malte Mueller—Getty Images, Yevgen Romanenko—Getty Images) by [David H. Rosmarin](https://time.com/author/david-h-rosmarin/) ## David H. Rosmarin David H. Rosmarin is an associate professor at Harvard Medical School and a program director at McLean Hospital Jun 10, 2026 12:39 PM UTC Many Americans [believe](https://www.tiaa.org/public/learn/financial-wellness-and-mental-health) that more money would improve their [mental health](https://time.com/tag/mental-health/). To some extent, they're right. Money provides stability, opportunity, and freedom from many difficult pressures. Worrying about rent, [medical bills](https://time.com/7208964/how-to-negotiate-medical-bills/), childcare, retirement, or some combination of these can take a tremendous toll on [emotional well-being](https://time.com/article/2026/06/03/nature-mental-health-boost/). At the same time, financial hardship and mental distress often [reinforce one another](https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.aay0214), creating cycles that can be difficult to escape. But after years of providing concierge mental-health services to some of the wealthiest individuals and families around the world, I've come to appreciate a less obvious reality: Wealth can create unexpected risks to mental health and relationships. When I first began working with high-net-worth individuals, I was captivated. Clients arrived with car services waiting outside, returning to lives defined by extraordinary luxury and comfort. It did not take long, however, to notice a pattern of significant loneliness, family conflict, and emotional distress beneath the surface. In many cases, immense wealth appeared to weaken the very foundations that sustain psychological well-being. The mechanism is surprisingly simple. Money tends to change our relationships. When resources are effectively unlimited, many of the everyday frictions that strengthen bonds—such as compromise, negotiation, accountability, and shared sacrifice—can be bypassed. Relationships tend to become more transactional, shaped less by mutual interdependence and more by expectations, access, and control. Perhaps as a result, [many wealthy people often feel isolated](https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/what-does-extreme-wealth-do-to-the-brain.html) and alone, even in the presence of others. I've seen this pattern repeatedly. In one case, parents had poured nearly a million dollars into covering their son's gambling losses over several years. Each bailout was intended to help. Indeed, this approach preserved peace in the short term by postponing [difficult conversations](https://time.com/tag/time-to-talk/). But the gambling worsened, and eventually so did the family dynamics. By the time they came to my office, their son was estranged. What struck me most was not the addiction itself. It was how money had altered relational patterns. Rather than confronting a painful reality—which parents with more limited resources would have been forced to do—the parents used money to insulate themselves, thereby creating a bigger problem than had they not been so wealthy. Their son did not need another check. He needed to come to terms with his addiction, and he needed [boundaries](https://time.com/6323105/how-to-set-boundaries-at-work/) that his parents had avoided setting. In another case, a college student from a prominent family became depressed during her sophomore year. Her parents responded by reminding her how fortunate she was, and how much they had invested in her future. Feeling unable to disappoint them, she concealed her struggles until they became severe. By the time she entered treatment, she was engaging in self-harm and considering leaving school altogether. She later described feeling trapped in a "gilded cage." The phrase captures something important. I reflected that her family’s socioeconomic standing was one of the causes of her depression, since it compromised her relationship with her parents. Their focus on achievement and success left no room for vulnerability, making it difficult for her to express emotional needs or seek help when she was struggling. In most families, life imposes limits. People must compromise and tolerate frustration because they depend on one another. They must work through disagreements because there are few alternatives. These experiences can be uncomfortable, but they are also how trust, resilience, and intimacy are built. Money can remove many of those pressures. It can smooth over conflicts, delay consequences, and create options to avoid uncomfortable moments. It can make it possible to “solve” interpersonal problems financially by using money to control others. The result is emotional distance and pain for all parties. Real connection requires expressing emotions and needs directly and from the heart. The qualities that sustain healthy families, including honesty, accountability, forgiveness, and sacrifice, cannot be purchased or given. They must be practiced and earned. Humans are relational creatures. So it’s no surprise that consequences of these patterns extend to physical health as well. The [Harvard Study of Adult Development](https://www.adultdevelopmentstudy.org/), spanning nearly 80 years, shows that strong social bonds protect individuals from life's adversities, and are better predictors of long and happy lives than intelligence, genetics, and certainly money. Along these lines, the [U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention](https://www.cdc.gov/social-connectedness/about/) and the [World Health Organization](https://www.who.int/groups/commission-on-social-connection) warn that loneliness significantly increases the risk of cardiovascular disease, stroke, and depression, raising the likelihood of early death by roughly 30%. Further, these dynamics have a social impact beyond personal relationships and family life. Many wealthy individuals occupy positions of extraordinary influence. They lead companies, direct investments, fund philanthropic initiatives, and shape institutions that affect thousands, sometimes millions, of people. Healthy leadership requires honest feedback, accountability, and the ability to tolerate people who say "no." When wealth impedes authenticity, the consequences can extend well into economic, cultural, and civic spheres. In his [closing letter as U.S. Surgeon General](https://www.vivekmurthy.com/partingprescription) under President Biden, Dr. Vivek Murthy warned that the nation’s growing focus on wealth and achievement is weakening meaningful human connection and compromising health. His message was direct: Human connection is not a luxury. It is a fundamental requirement for well-being. Money can create extraordinary opportunities and alleviate tremendous stress. But it cannot substitute for honesty, vulnerability, accountability, or love. Those remain the foundations of psychological wellbeing, regardless of how many dollars are in your bank account. 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