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Friday, the author of My Mother/ My Self and two books on sexual fantasies, kept the message because jealousy was beginning to obsess her. “As much as I needed love and men,” she says, “as soon as I fell in love with one, I would be afraid of losing him, and I didn’t understand why the anxiety didn’t go to sleep. I came to see it as jealousy, a sense of a priori defeat whenever there’s a triangle of any kind.” Friday’s new book, Jealousy (Morrow; $19.95), begun about the time she cracked open the restaurant cookie, is a rambling and personal examination of the subject. Her central conclusion comes from the pioneering psychoanalyst Melanie Klein, who believed that jealousy is constitutional and rooted in the first few months of life. Klein taught that the mother’s breast, as feeder and comforter, is decisive in building the infant’s ego and sets the stage for envy and jealousy. Problems of envy are inevitable, and if they are not resolved in infancy, problems of jealousy may develop later. Withholding the breast generates envy of the mother’s power, and the appearance of a rival–the father or a sibling–can result in jealousy as the infant perceives that the third party is responsible for the withdrawal of the mother’s attention. Friday feels that her rivalry with her older sister for her mother’s affection fits Klein’s description. “I couldn’t get my mother’s attention no matter what I did,” she says. “No matter how many laurels I won, I was terrified of being left out, and the word for that, I now see, is jealousy.” The conventional social-science literature on the subject ties jealousy to low self-esteem: men and women who feel they fail to measure up will tend to exaggerate the danger of losing a special friendship or romantic attachment. A survey reported in the September issue of Psychology Today found that jealousy is apt to occur in the area of a subject’s interests or aspirations. Someone who desperately wants to be rich will be jealous of rich people, just as those who envy creative people may fear that their mates will run off with novelists and painters. Another truism: jealousy tends to arise if a person’s goals are unrealistically high. The survey showed that the most jealous people were those reporting substantial discrepancies between how they really are and how they would like to be. Views of jealousy tend to follow changing attitudes in the popular culture. In the 1950s jealousy was widely viewed as a healthy expression of determined love and in the 1960s, as a pathological obstacle to sexual freedom and self-love. Nowadays the emotion comes in three basic versions: SOCIOBIOLOGICAL. Jealousy is in the genes because it is evolutionarily adaptive. The ape (or human) who chases off a rival enhances his chances to get his genes into the next generation. Males are jealous because they can never be sure of paternity; females, because they need males to help protect the young. Says Rutgers Anthropologist Lionel Tiger: “Eternal vigilance is the price of sexual confidence.” SEXUAL REVOLUTIONARY. Since sexual freedom means the end of any claim to sexual exclusivity, jealousy is a lamentable hangover from the days when mates were viewed as personal property and extensions of the self. A high-water mark of this view was Alex Comfort’s More Joy of Sex, which compared sexual jealousy to carrying on “like a backward five-year-old who sees another child with his tricycle.” He solemnly advised readers to be proud of having a mate that others wish to sleep with. To the late psychoanalyst Leslie Farber, this view of jealousy was an attempt by pained sexual revolutionaries to conjure up invulnerability by declaring the pain invalid. Though the sexual revolution has fallen on hard times, some still agree with its alarmist view of jealousy. Manhattan Psychiatrist Robert Gould told Friday, “Jealousy has its roots in unhealthy patterns of development. It is tied up with possessiveness and ownership. As such, it is always pathological.” FEMINIST. Male jealousy is part of the structure of patriarchy that keeps all women in line. Women are viewed as exclusive property. Husbands monitor or cut off all social relations between wives and other men, and the economic dependence of women on men is part of a system to make certain that women will have little opportunity to stray. Friday is eclectic enough to agree with most of these views. “I’ve been through all the literature, and I find it all illuminating,” she says. To her, the feminist view is the most urgent because the ancient male structures that ward off jealousy are crumbling. “Men have traditionally married down, stuck the women at home and kept them dependent so they wouldn’t have to be jealous,” she says. “Women didn’t like sex anyway. Now women like sex, they control contraceptives, and they are becoming economically independent.” According to Friday, jealousy is an important part of the postfeminist friction between the sexes. Jealousy is built into any relationship, and many women are so unsure of men that they are downplaying their need for intimacy and putting all their emotional energy into work. “The envy and anger between the sexes is so extreme that you see all these women having children without fathers,” says Friday. “It’s a way of devaluating men. It’s a sign of envy–‘Who needs men? I’ll live alone.’ “ From Klein, Friday says, she learned that jealousy is about power: “In a world where we all want to be in control, we can’t afford intimacy. If you are afraid of jealousy, you will be inhibited about loving.” Psychoanalyst Willard Gaylin told Friday that living with chronic jealousy is like “walking through minefields.” She knows the feeling well. “I’m always going to be a jealous person,” she says, “but it’s not going to overwhelm me. 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