--- title: Hot Tubs And Cold Shoulders description: NEW DATING SHOWS are getting wilder and more cutthroat. In their world of risible Romeos and jiggly Juliets, love is not for the faint of heart canonical: https://time.com/archive/6666992/hot-tubs-and-cold-shoulders/ author: James Poniewozik article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2002-08-12T04:00:00.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-02-27T07:24:38.830Z article:section: U.S. og:title: Hot Tubs And Cold Shoulders og:description: NEW DATING SHOWS are getting wilder and more cutthroat. 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Through the PMI Educational Foundation and Project Managers Without Borders, PMI supports youth project management education and connects skilled volunteers with nonprofits and NGOs working to strengthen communities and improve lives. ### FAQ #### Is a PMP certification worth it? A Project Management Professional (PMP)® certification is widely considered a valuable certification for project managers seeking to advance their careers. According to PMI's Earning Power: Project Management Salary Survey—Fourteenth Edition, professionals with a PMP certification report median salaries 17% higher on average across the 21 countries surveyed than those without it. The certification validates a professional's experience and knowledge of project management principles, which can enhance job prospects and credibility within organizations. #### What are the best certifications for project managers? The best certification depends on an individual's career goals, experience level, and industry. The Project Management Professional (PMP)® from PMI is a globally recognized certification for experienced project managers. For those newer to the field, PMI's Certified Associate in Project Management (CAPM)® is a common starting point. Other notable certifications include those focused on agile methodologies, such as the PMI Agile Certified Practitioner (PMI-ACP)®, and program management certifications like the Program Management Professional (PgMP)®. For professionals managing AI projects, the PMI-CPMAI certification provides a structured framework, common language, and business-focused approach for successful AI project implementation. #### How does PMI support career growth for professionals? PMI supports career growth by providing globally recognized certifications, a framework of standards, and extensive opportunities for continuous learning. Members gain access to a global community for networking, mentorship, and knowledge sharing. The organization also produces research and thought leadership on emerging trends, helping professionals stay current with skills in areas like AI, agile practices, and strategic business management. These resources are designed to help professionals at all levels enhance their skills and advance their careers. #### What is the PMBOK® Guide? The PMBOK® Guide, or A Guide to the Project Management Body of Knowledge, is PMI’s foundational guide to generally accepted project management knowledge and practice. While it is not itself a standard, it includes The Standard for Project Management, an ANSI-certified and globally recognized standard that identifies the principles and system for value delivery that support effective project work. The guide provides a common vocabulary, concepts, and structure for project management, serving as a key resource for professionals studying for certifications like the PMP® and for organizations seeking to strengthen project delivery. #### How is AI changing project management? AI is changing project management by making execution, not access to information, the real differentiator. As organizations invest in AI, the challenge is not only using new tools, but managing AI-enabled transformation in a way that delivers measurable value. Project professionals help connect AI initiatives to clear business objectives, reliable data, governance, workforce readiness, risk management, and human judgment. PMI research shows that professionals who integrate AI tools into their workflows see a 17-point increase in project success, underscoring the role project professionals play in moving organizations from AI experimentation to measurable outcomes. #### What are the most important skills for a project manager? Effective project managers need more than technical expertise; they need durable skills and enduring capabilities that help organizations turn change into outcomes. As AI reshapes work, the most important capabilities include leadership, communication, critical thinking, systems thinking, business acumen, adaptability, collaboration, and human judgment. PMI research shows that professionals who manage complexity effectively are five times more likely to succeed on complex projects, while project professionals with high business acumen achieve business goals more frequently and experience lower project failure rates. #### How can I get involved with the PMI community? Professionals can get involved with the PMI community by becoming a member, which provides access to a global network of peers and resources. Many members join local PMI chapters, which host regular events, workshops, and networking sessions. Online, PMI's projectmanagement.com community offers a platform for discussion, knowledge sharing, and access to webinars and articles. Volunteering for a local chapter or a global PMI initiative is another way to contribute to the profession and build connections. #### What is the difference between PMP and CAPM? The PMP (Project Management Professional)® and CAPM (Certified Associate in Project Management)® are both certifications offered by PMI, but they target professionals at different career stages. The CAPM is an entry-level certification designed for individuals with little or no project experience, validating their understanding of fundamental project management knowledge and terminology. The PMP is for experienced project managers and requires a combination of formal education and years of documented project leadership experience, making it a more advanced and globally recognized certification. #### How does PMI support social impact? PMI supports social impact by helping individuals, nonprofits, NGOs, and communities use project management to turn purpose into measurable outcomes. Through the PMI Educational Foundation, PMI expands access to project management education for youth worldwide, including underserved and underrepresented populations. Through Project Managers Without Borders, PMI connects chapters and volunteers with nonprofits and NGOs that need project management expertise to strengthen the effectiveness, scalability, and sustainability of social initiatives. 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The overweening drive for instant fame, near instant sex and a little money on the side is civilization as we know it–and it’s thriving. Dating series have become to the 21st century what sleazy talk and courtroom shows were to the late ’90s: a ubiquitous TV staple that offers a sneak peek at the national id–and the occasional blurred-out bare chest. Following Blind Date, the granddaddy–or sleazy uncle–of the genre, syndicated TV is filled with the likes of Change of Heart, Elimidate, The 5th Wheel, Rendez-View, Shipmates and EX-treme Dating; cable offers tlc’s A Dating Story and MTV’s Dismissed and Taildaters. You’ll find catfights, snarky comments, alcohol-fueled make-out sessions and always, but always, the Hot-Tub Scene. (In Southern California, where most of the shows are produced, there are evidently more Jacuzzis than cell phones per capita.) And now the trend has metastasized into supposedly more respectable network TV, thanks to the success of Fox’s Temptation Island and ABC’s one-man-and-a-harem hit The Bachelor. In the innocent days of 2000, NBC decided the dating show Chains of Love was too declasse for a major network. Now it’s airing Meet My Folks, a reality rip-off of the movie Meet the Parents in which Mom and Dad grill their children’s suitors using a lie detector–and the suitors quiz Mom and Dad about their sex lives. “We just want people to have a good time and develop some insights into the parent-child relationship,” says Jeff Gaspin, the executive in charge of NBC reality programming. On ABC’s upcoming The Dating Experiment, a couple undertakes challenges–spend a night together on Alcatraz, follow a 412-mile-long string–designed to bring the two closer. Next season on NBC’s Love Shack–deep breath–a man and a woman move into a house together, meet two dates each and kick one of their dates out; then another two singles move in and likewise choose from two dates, until, after six episodes, the audience votes to award one couple the house. Memento wasn’t this complicated. So is America going to hell in a hot tub? No, but at the very least, in today’s voyeuristic shows, love is a battlefield. Unlike, say, The Dating Game of the ’60s, they’re less about love connection than love disconnection. More dates go hilariously badly than well–the woman on Blind Date, for instance, who belched her way through roller-skating and drinks with a straitlaced doctor. And if the participants don’t humiliate themselves sufficiently, the shows finish the job, with snide commentary from the hosts and Pop-Up Video-style graphics (a lunkish guy at a gym gets labeled a “210-lb. dumbbell”). “The shows represent the transformation of dating into sport,” says Aisha Tyler, host of The 5th Wheel. On EX-treme Dating, two ex-lovers of one dater spy on the rendezvous and comment to their ex’s date through an earpiece, like evil Cyranos; if they “win”–sabotage the date–they get a prize. (So far, they usually do.) On Rendez-View, a panel of “relationship experts” offers play-by-play, SportsCenter style. Dating shows tend to divide into two categories: the raunchier blind-date shows, generally on cable or in syndication, and the more mainstream “relationship” shows, generally on big networks, which combine a frisson of edginess with premises rooted in old-fashioned gender roles. On The Bachelor, one man chooses from a buffet of ladies with ring envy. Who Wants to Marry a Multimillionaire?–ditto. Meet My Folks re-creates a paternalistic scenario that went out with the Hula Hoop, if not the moat: three young men ask the parents’, especially Dad’s, permission to court their daughter. Yes, Meet My Folks plans to air some episodes with eligible sons instead of daughters, and on next January’s The Bachelorette, a young woman will propose to 1 of 25 prospective beaus. (The lucky lady is Trista Rehn, 29, the former Miami Heat dancer who finished second on The Bachelor–or won, depending on how you define success.) But is it a coincidence that these shows started off with women as their objects? Bachelor creator Mike Fleiss doesn’t think sexual double standards will hurt Bachelorette–“It’s 2002\. A woman can do anything a man can do, and on TV too”–but he says it would have been harder to cast men for the show if they hadn’t already seen the comely Rehn: “She’s a known quantity. For men, the prospect of marriage itself isn’t necessarily going to get them lined up to apply.” That’s not to say the syndicated and cable shows are that much more liberated. But they’re more libertine. They’re unapologetically about the meat market–none of them have “Love” or “Marry” in their title–and they don’t root themselves in cockamamie romantic truisms. For young viewers who spent their entire lives in the aids era, they’re a safe fantasy of commitment-free dating, all about getting lucky, drunk and stupid with little at stake. (Which makes the herpes-medicine ads during the shows that much more unintentionally poignant.) Couples hook up–mostly, it seems, as a performance for the audience–trash-talk each other and move on. “I don’t understand some of the women,” says Barberie. “There was one who got in a hot tub with this guy–big fake boobs, takes her top off, has him feel her boobs. Then they interview her afterward and ask if she’d go out with him again? ‘Oh, absolutely not!'” So why do the participants sign up? Mainly to find true love in a cold world. Yeah, we couldn’t keep a straight face for that either. “It was pretty much for the free stuff,” says Justin Allen about his first dating-show stint. “I got three days in California, all expenses paid and $500.” Other shows pay as little as $100 for a day’s “work.” But they offer a hit of today’s drug of choice, exposure. “We try to weed out the wannabe actors and actresses,” says David Garfinkle, co-creator of Blind Date, Rendez-View and The 5th Wheel. “No one has ever come on our show and become famous.” Someone must have forgot to tell Blind Date alum Jerri Manthey, who became the she-villain of Survivor 2\. Or Allen, an aspiring actor who’s been on Elimidate, Change of Heart, A Dating Story and “a dating-auction show that never aired called The Gamut.” Kelly Ryan, a waitress in Studio City, Calif., parlayed a Blind Date appearance into stints on dating-game shows SexWars (she won $4,000) and Friends or Lovers. Ryan played the wild girl on her date, coaxing her beau into a hot-tub dip (surprise!) and a shower. The budding nightclub singer said her bikinied escapades helped increase her, er, visibility. “So many customers would tell me they saw me,” she says. “They’ve played my segment close to 80 times.” Are the contestants cynical? As dating teaches us, it’s a fine line between cynicism and experience. Are the shows contrived? Undoubtedly. But that’s what dates are: arbitrary tasks (order and eat a meal, watch and comment on a movie) that give you an excuse to talk to an attractive stranger. And to young people who patronize Internet personals and “speed-dating” matchmaker services, getting hooked up by a casting director is not even the most bizarre option out there. “Where else can you find 25 guys who have had background and medical checks?” asks Bachelorette’s Rehn. Today’s dating shows may make love and romance look phony at best, vicious at worst. But isn’t that a kind of comfort? After all, if you’re on the couch watching somebody go on a date, there’s one near certain explanation for it. 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