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The play contains more truth than allegory. One of the poignant trends of U.S. life is the gradual devaluation of older people, along with their spectacular growth in numbers. Twenty million Americans are 65 or over. They have also increased proportionately, from 2.5% of the nation’s population in 1850 to 10% today. While the subculture of youth has been examined, psychoanalyzed, photographed, deplored and envied, few have wanted even to admit the existence of a subculture of the aged, with its implications of segregation and alienation. Strangely enough, the aged have a lot in common with youth: they are largely unemployed, introspective and often depressed; their bodies and psyches are in the process of change, and they are heavy users of drugs. If they want to marry, their families tend to disapprove. Both groups are obsessed with time. Youth, though, figures its passage from birth; the aged calculate backward from their death day. They sometimes shorten the wait: the suicide rate among elderly men is far higher than that of any other age group. The two subcultures seldom intersect, for the young largely ignore the old or treat them with what Novelist Saul Bellow calls “a kind of totalitarian cruelty, like Hitler’s attitude toward Jews.” It is as though the aged were an alien race to which the young will never belong. Indeed, there is a distinct discrimination against the old that has been called ageism. In its simplest form, says Psychiatrist Robert Butler of Washington, B.C., ageism is just “not wanting to have all these ugly old people around.” Butler believes that in 25 or 30 years, ageism will be a problem equal to racism. We have time to grow old — the air is full of our cries. — Samuel Beckett It is not just cruelty and indifference that cause ageism and underscore the obsolescence of the old. It is also the nature of modern Western culture. In some societies, explains Anthropologist Margaret Mead, “the past of the adults is the future of each new generation,” and therefore is taught and respected. Thus, primitive families stay together and cherish their elders. But in the modern U.S., family units are small, the generations live apart, and social changes are so rapid that to learn about the past is considered irrelevant. In this situation, new in history, says Miss Mead, the aged are “a strangely isolated generation,” the carriers of a dying culture. Ironically, millions of these shunted-aside old people are remarkably able: medicine has kept them young at the same time that technology has made them obsolete. Many are glad to end their working days. For people with money, good health, careful plans and lively interests, retirement can be a welcome time to do the things they always dreamed of doing. But for too many others, the harvest of ”the golden years” is neglect, isolation, anomie and despair. One of every four Americans 65 or over lives at or below “the poverty line.” Some of these 5,000,000 old people were poor to begin with, but most are bewildered and bitter nouveaux pauvres, their savings and fixed incomes devoured by spiraling property taxes and other forms of inflation. More than 2,000,000 of them subsist on Social Security alone. Job discrimination against the aged, and increasingly against the middleaged, is already a fact of U.S. life. While nearly 40% of the long-term unemployed are over 45, only 10% of federal retraining programs are devoted to men of that age. It is often difficult for older people to get bank loans, home mortgages or automobile insurance. When the car of a 68-year-old Brooklyn grocer was stolen last winter, he was unable to rent a substitute. Though his driving record was faultless and he needed a car for work, he was told falsely by two companies that to rent him one was “against the law.” Youth is everywhere in place Age, like woman, requires fit surroundings. — Ralph Waldo Emerson Treated like outsiders, the aged have increasingly clustered together for mutual support or simply to enjoy themselves. A now familiar but still amazing phenomenon has sprung up in the past decade: dozens of good-sized new towns that exclude people under 65\. Built on cheap, outlying land, such communities offer two-bedroom houses starting at $18,000, plus a refuge from urban violence, the black problem (and in fact blacks), as well as generational pressures. “I’m glad to see my children come and I’m glad to see the back of their heads,” is a commonly expressed sentiment. Says Dr. James Birren of the University of Southern California: “The older you get the more you want to live with people like yourself. You want, to put it bluntly, to die with your own.” Most important, friendships are easy to make. One relative newcomer to Laguna Hills Leisure World, Calif., received more than 200 get-well cards from her new neighbors when she went to a hospital in Los Angeles. There is an emphasis on good times: dancing, shuffleboard, outings on oversized tricycles and bowling (the Keen Agers v. the Hits and Mrs.). Clubs abound, including Bell Ringing, Stitch and Knit, Lapidary and “tepees” of the International Order of Old Bastards. The I.O.O.B. motto: “Anything for fun.” There is, in a sense, a chance for a new start. “It doesn’t matter what you used to be; all that counts is what you do here,” said a resident of Sun City, Ariz. To some residents the communities seem too homogeneous and confining. A 74-year-old Californian found that life was flavorless at his retirement village; he was just waiting for “the little black wagon.” Having begun to paint seascapes and landscapes at 68, he moved near an artists’ colony, where he now sells his landscapes and lives happily with a lady friend of 77\. In silent synods, they play chess or cribbage . . . — W.H. Auden In fact, less than 1% of the elderly leave their own states. The highest proportion of the aged outside Florida is in Arkansas, Iowa, Maine, Missouri, Nebraska and South Dakota — on farms and in communities from which youth has fled. In small towns, the able elderly turn abandoned buildings into “senior centers” for cards, pool, slide shows, lectures and pie socials. In Hebron, N. Dak. (pop. 1,137), grandmothers use the balcony of the former J.C. Penney store for their quilting. But there is little socializing among the rural aged, who often subsist on pittances of $60 a month, and become even more isolated as public buses disappear from the highways, cutting off their lifelines to clinics, stores and friends. A third of the nation’s aged live in the deteriorating cores of the big cities. On Manhattan’s Upper West Side, thousands of penniless widows in dingy single-room-occupancy hotels bar their doors against the alcoholics and dope addicts with whom they share the bathroom, the padlocked refrigerator and the telephone down the hall. “Nine out of ten around here, there’s something wrong with them,” says a 72-year-old ex-housekeeper living on welfare in a hotel on West 94th Street. “I get disgusted and just sleep every afternoon. Everybody dying around you makes you kind of nervous.” Terrified of muggings and speeding cars, the disabled and disoriented do not leave their blocks for years on end, tipping anyone they can find to get groceries for them when their welfare checks arrive. Close to a million old people live in nursing homes or convalescent facilities provided by Medicare. A new growth industry, nursing homes now provide more beds than hospitals. They are badly needed. But in many of the “homes,” the food and care are atrocious. Patients have even been confined to their beds merely because bed care entitles the owners to $2 or $3 more a day. Mrs. Ruby Elliott, 74, recalls her year in a California nursing home with fear and bitterness: “It’s pitiful, but people are just out for the money. That whole time I was among the living dead.” Fewer than half of the country’s 25,000 nursing homes actually offer skilled nursing. Arkansas Congressman David Pryor recently visited twelve nursing homes near Washington, D.C. “I found two where I would be willing to put my mother,” he said. “But I don’t think I could afford either one on my $42,500 congressional salary.” Pryor is trying to set up a congressional committee to investigate long-term care for the aged. How terrible strange To be seventy. — Simon and Garfunkel Almost everyone hates to think about aging. Doctors and social scientists are no exception. “They think one shouldn’t look at it too closely, as though it were the head of Medusa. It is considered a morbid preoccupation,” says one anthropologist. But the acute problems and swelling ranks of the American aged have lately stimulated a number of new behavioral studies that are more scientific than any ever done before. They show, among other things, that people age at very different speeds and that many changes formerly attributed to age are actually caused by other factors. The cliche that a man is as old as his arteries, for example, has been found to be misleading. It is probably more accurate to say that a man is as sick as his arteries, and that such sickness is caused by diet and stress rather than by age. The ability of elderly people to memorize and recall new information has been exhaustively tested at the Duke University Center for the Study of Aging and Human Development. They can do it, but they need more time than younger people. Their responses are apparently slowed down by anxiety; an older person’s goal is less to achieve success than to avoid failure. Changes in the blood of elderly pupils showed that they were undergoing the physiological equivalent of anxiety without being aware of it. Drugs that changed this physiological happening helped them, and their performances improved. Dr. Carl Eisdorfer, who conducted the experiments, suggests that what initially slowed down his subjects was not so much their age as their attitude toward their age. Old people may be ridiculed when they try to act young, but according to San Francisco Psychologist Frances Carp, it is better to fight age than to accept it. In America today, “acceptance of old age holds out few if any rewards,” she says. Those who surrender often become debilitated by a devastating “elderly mystique” — and victims of self-fulfilling prophecies. For example, doctors at the University of Illinois studied 900 old people living at home and found many so sick that they could not walk to the door. They had lived for months without medical attention because they felt that they were old and therefore were supposed to be sick. Actually, the overwhelming majority of the aged can fend very well for themselves. Only 5% of aged Americans live in institutions; perhaps another 5% remain bedridden at home. True, four out of five older people have a chronic condition. “But chronic diseases must be redefined,” says Duke’s Dr. Eisdorfer. “I’ve seen too many depressed people leaving their doctor’s office saying, ‘My God, I’ve got an incurable disease.’ Chronic illness gets confused with fatal illness. Life itself is fatal, of course, but as far as most chronic illnesses go, we simply don’t know what they do to advance death. The role of the doctor has to change. Now that infectious diseases are on their way out, the doctor must stop thinking about cures and start teaching people how to live with what they have.” New findings show that hypochondria, or “high body concern,” one of the most common neuroses of the elderly, can often be cured. According to Dr. Ewald Busse, director of the Duke study center, if a man’s family “keeps criticizing him unjustly, makes him feel uncomfortable, unwanted, he may retreat into an imaginary illness as a way of saying, ‘Don’t make things harder for me. I’m sick and you should respect me and take care of me.’ It is clear from our studies that if the older hypochondriac’s environment changes for the better, he will too. He will again become a reasonable, normal person. This is quite different from the reaction of the younger hypochondriac, who is much sicker psychologically and much less likely to respond to a favorable change in environment.” Recent studies bear out Sex Researchers Masters and Johnson’s findings that men who enjoyed sex earlier in life can, if all else goes well, continue to enjoy it. Questionnaires over a ten-year period at Duke showed that the same men’s interest in sex changed little from age 67 to 77, although there was a slight drop in activity. Result: a gradual widening in what the researchers coolly call the “interest-activity gap.” A much lower proportion of women continued to be interested in sex after 67, but they managed to keep their interest-activity graph lines close together. “It depends on the individual,” an elderly San Franciscan points out. “All ages have sexy people.” People expect old men to die, They . . . look At them with eyes that wonder when. — Ogden Nash A common and unfortunate diagnosis of many aged people is that they are senile, a catchword for a number of conditions. There may be organic brain damage — for example, the brain may run short of oxygen because of impaired blood flow. But many of the “senile” actually have psychological problems. One 70-year-old retired financier, who insisted on calling his successor at the company all the time and had all sorts of paranoid suspicions, was diagnosed as having organic brain disease. A combination of psychotherapy and a new job as treasurer of a charitable organization helped the man to recover completely. Other “senile” patients actually suffer from malnutrition, or have simply broken down out of loneliness, perhaps caused by a temporary overload. As one old man put it: “There is no one still alive who can call me John.” Explains Harvard Psychoanalyst Martin Berezin: “The one thing which neither grows old nor diminishes is the need for love and affection. These drives, these wishes never change.” Actually, senile traits are not peculiar to the aged. A group of college students and a group of the elderly were recently rated according to the characteristics of senility, and the students were found to be the more neurotic, negative, dissatisfied, socially inept and unrealistic. The students, in sum, were more senile than their elders. Other studies have shown that the percentage of psychiatric impairment of old persons is no greater than that for younger groups. But younger people are usually treated if their psychological problems are severe. Says New York Psychologist Muriel Oberleder: “If we encounter unusual nervousness, irritability, depression, unaccountable anger, personality change, apathy or withdrawal in a young person, we make sure that he is seen by a physician. But when those symptoms appear in elderly people, they are considered par for the course of old age. We rarely consider the possibility that elderly people who have had a breakdown can recover.” Dr. Berezin successfully treated a 70-year-old woman who had a severe breakdown, her first. She had been picked up for drinking, setting fire to her home and other bizarre behavior, including chalking off a section of the sidewalk and claiming it as her own. In therapy, she revealed that she had yearned all her life for marriage and children. Eventually, she mastered her grief and regrets, settled down and began to enjoy the people around her. Psychotherapy has never been easily available to the aged. Since it demands so much time and effort, it is considered better to expend it on those who have a long life ahead. There is also the still-powerful influence of Freud. If one’s behavior is believed to be programmed in the first years of life, one cannot hope to change that program substantially during old age. (Freud, who contributed to ageism, was also its victim. At 81, discussing “the many free hours with which my dwindling analytical practice has presented me,” he added: “It is understandable that patients don’t surge toward an analyst of such an unreliable age.”) . . . I reach my center, my algebra and my key, my mirror. Soon I shall know who I am. — Jorge Luis Borges Most psychologists have simply ignored the process of aging. Says Harvard’s Erik Erikson: “It is astonishing to behold how (until quite recently and with a few notable exceptions) Western psychology has avoided looking at the whole of life. As our world image is a one-way street to never-ending progress, interrupted only by small and big catastrophes, our lives are to be one-way streets to success — and sudden oblivion.” But lately Erikson and oth,er psychiatrists have become interested in all stages of man’s development, and the “aging” that goes on at every stage. One practitioner of “lifecycle psychiatry,” Washington’s 43-year-old Dr. Butler, believes that the possibilities for psychic change may be greater in old age than at any other period of life. “Little attention has been paid to the wish to change identity, to preserve and exercise the sense of possibility and incompleteness against a sense of closure and completeness.” When a person’s identity is maintained throughout old age, “I find it an ominous sign rather than the other way around. If the term needs to be used at all, I suggest that a continuing, life-long identity crisis is a sign of good health.” Though many believe that age accentuates personality characteristics, Dr. Butler notes that “certain personality features mellow or entirely disappear. Others prove insulating and protective, although they might formerly have been impairing, such as a schizoid disposition.” Some doctors suggest that neuroses and some psychoses burn themselves out with age, and note that the rate of mental disorders declines after the age of 70\. Carl Jung, who lived with great vigor until the age of 85, saw aging as a process of continuous inward development (“individuation”), with important psychic changes occurring right up to the time of death. “Anyone who fails to go along with life remains suspended, stiff and rigid in mid-air,” Jung wrote. “That is why so many people get wooden in old age; they look back and cling to the past with a secret fear of death in their hearts. From the middle of life onward, only he remains vitally alive who is ready to die with life, for in the secret hour of life’s midday the parabola is reversed, death is born. We grant goal and purpose to the ascent of life, why not to the descent?” Erik Erikson agrees: “Any span of the cycle lived without vigorous meaning, at the beginning, in the middle, or at the end, endangers the sense of life and the meaning of death in all whose life stages are intertwined.” Better to go down dignified With bonghten friendship at your side Than none at all. Provide, provide! — Robert Frost The problems of the aged are not their concern alone. Since reaching the age of 70 or 80 is becoming the norm rather than the exception, more and more of the middle-aged — even when they retire — have elderly parents and other relatives to care for. For the “command generation” there are two generation gaps, and the decisions to be made about their parents are often more difficult than those concerning their children. Various community agencies sometimes help, and in Manhattan a private referral service is kept busy helping distraught people find the right place for parents who can no longer live at home. One 81-year-old woman was persuaded to go to a nursing home when her daughter, with whom she had always lived, married late in life. To her own surprise, she is happier than she was before, taking great pride in reading to and helping her older roommate. A difficult decision of the middle-aged is how to allot their resources between children and parents and still provide for their own years of retirement, which may well extend for two decades. The next generation of the aged may be healthier, certainly better educated and perhaps more politically aware. Those over 65 are now a rather silent minority, but in number they are almost exactly equal to the nation’s blacks. Since none are below voting age, the aged control a high percentage of the vote — 15%. More and more are banding together. The American Association of Retired Persons, for example, helps its nearly 2,000,000 members get automobile insurance, cheaper drugs and cut-rate travel. A more politically oriented group, the 2,500,000-member National Council of Senior Citizens, played a major role in pushing through Medicare. Now the group is lobbying to improve Medicare, which helps the sick but does not provide checkups, by including some sort of Preventicare. Aside from health, money is the most pervasive worry of the aged; income maintenance is a major need. Private pension plans need attention too. According to one informed estimate, only 10% of the people who work under pension plans actually receive any benefits, usually because they do not stay long enough to qualify. As presently arranged, pensions also tend to lock older workers into their jobs and, if they become unemployed, to lock them out. They are then denied jobs because it is too expensive to let them join a pension plan. Come, my friends, ‘Tis not too late to seek a newer world. — Tennyson Will able 70-year-olds have more opportunities to work in the future? Probably not. Instead of raising the age of mandatory retirement, business and labor may lower it, perhaps to 50 or below — making workers eligible even earlier for social insecurity. Aside from those fortunate few in the professions — law, medicine, dentistry, architecture — most of the people over 65 who are still at work today are farmers, craftsmen and self-employed tradesmen, all categories whose numbers are shrinking. Of course, people cannot work hard forever. Each man ages according to his own clock, but at long last he is likely to lose much of his strength, his drive and adaptability. Witness the gerontocracy that slows down Congress and the businesses that have failed because of rigid leadership. But there are still many areas where the aged can serve and should, for aside from humane consideration, they can provide skill and wisdom that otherwise would be wasted. New plans to recruit, train and deploy older workers to provide much needed help in hospitals, special schools and elsewhere will be discussed at the White House Conference on Aging scheduled for November 1971\. Meanwhile, a few small-scale programs point the way. One is Operation Green Thumb, which hires retired farmers for landscaping and gardening. Another is the International Executive Service Corps, which arranges for retired executives to lend their management skills to developing countries. Hastings College of Law in San Francisco is staffed by law professors who have retired from other schools. A federally financed program called Foster Grandparents pays 4,000 low-income “grandparents” to care for 8,000 underprivileged youngsters. Although they have numbered only in the hundreds, most elderly volunteers in Vista and the Peace Corps have been great assets. “We know about outhouses and can remember when there weren’t any refrigerators,” says Nora Hodges, 71, who spent two years in Tunisia and is now associate Peace Corps director in the Ivory Coast. “People in underdeveloped countries rate age very highly. When we meet with this appreciative attitude, we outdo ourselves.” Begin the preparation for your death And from the fortieth winter by that thought Test every work of intellect or faith. — W.B. Yeats Life would be richer, students of aging agree, if a wider repertory of activities were encouraged throughout life. Almost everyone now marches together in a sort of lockstep. They spend years in school, years at work and years in retirement. Youth might well work more, the middle-aged play more, and the older person go back to school. Former HEW Secretary John Gardner wants to see “midcareer clinics to which men and women can go to re-examine the goals of their working lives and consider changes of direction. I would like to see people visit such clinics with as little self-consciousness as they visit their dentist.” As Psychiatrist Robert Butler puts it: “Perhaps the greatest danger in life is being frozen into a role that limits one’s self-expression and development. We need Middle Starts and Late Starts as well as Head Starts.” To get a late start does not necessarily require a federal program. Many an enterprising individual has done it on his own. Mrs. Florida Scott-Maxwell, who at the age of 50 began training to become a psychotherapist, recently wrote down her reflections about aging in The Measure of My Days. “My seventies were interesting and fairly serene,” she noted, “but my eighties are passionate. I am so disturbed by the outer world, and by human quality in general, that I want to put things right as though I still owed a debt to life. I must calm down.” Old age should burn and rave at close of day. — Dylan Thomas How socially involved older people should be is a question in hot dispute among students of aging. Some believe in the “theory of disengagement,” which holds that aging is accompanied by an inner process that makes the loosening of social ties a natural process, and a desirable one. Others disagree. Says Harvard Sociologist Chad Gordon: “Disengagement theory is a rationale for the fact that old people haven’t a damn thing to do and nothing to do it with.” After analyzing lengthy interviews with 600 aged San Franciscans, Anthropologist Margaret Clark found that engagement with life, rather than disengagement, contributed most to their psychological wellbeing. But not when that engagement included acquisitiveness, aggressiveness or a drive to achievement, super-competence and control. To cling to these stereotypical traits of the successful American seems to invite trouble, even geriatric psychiatry. The healthiest and happiest of the aged people in the survey were interested in conserving and enjoying rather than acquiring and exploiting, in concern for others rather than control of others, in “just being” rather than doing. They embraced, Dr. Clark points out, many of the values of today’s saner hippies. Similarly, religion often teaches the aged, in spite of their physical diminishment, to accept each day as a gift. The ranker injustices of ageism can be alleviated by governmental action and familial concern, but the basic problem can be solved only by a fundamental and unlikely reordering of the values of society. Social obsolescence will probably be the chronic condition of the aged, like the other deficits and disabilities they learn to live with. But even in a society that has no role for them, aging individuals can try to carve out their own various niches. The noblest role, of course, is an affirmative one — quite simply to demonstrate how to live and how to die. If the aged have any responsibility, it is to show the next generation how to face :he ultimate concerns. As Octogenarian Scott-Maxwell puts it: “Age is an intense and varied experience, almost beyond our capacity at times, but something to be carried high. 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