--- description: The company issued a formal apology Friday and promised to be "more inclusive" and "better [represent] all players" in future versions of the life simulation game. The apology comes after a wave of protests demanding the company include same-sex relationships in the game title: Nintendo Apologizes for Tomodachi Life Same-Sex Exclusion image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt483f6df6bcb0d0d3/69868ebc810bbb550ec91802/nintendo-tomodachi-gay-marriage1.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [Business](/section/business/) ## Business Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [Tech](/tag/time-section-tech/) ## Tech Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Nintendo Apologizes for Not Allowing Same-Sex Relationships in Tomodachi Life by [Matt Peckham](/author/matt-peckham/) ## Matt Peckham Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close May 9, 2014 9:43 PM CUT  This photo provided by Nintendo shows a screenshot from the video game, "Tomodachi Life." This photo provided by Nintendo shows a screenshot from the video game, "Tomodachi Life."Nintendo/AP by [Matt Peckham](/author/matt-peckham/) ## Matt Peckham Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close May 9, 2014 9:43 PM CUT Stating that it’s “committed to fun and entertainment for everyone,” Nintendo issued a formal apology Friday afternoon for it’s failure to include same-sex relationships in the upcoming 3DS game _Tomodachi Life_. Billed as a “life simulation,” _Tomodachi Life_ allows players to use virtual avatars knowns as Miis to engage in everyday activities with each other, from eating to modeling clothing to falling in love with other Miis right up to (and including) marriage. [The same-sex controversy](http://time.com/91308/nintendo-gay-marriage-ban-tomodachi-life/ "undefined") arose when, in the original Japanese version of the game, players unearthed a glitch that allowed users to re-gender male characters as female, allowing the semblance of same-sex relationship. But Nintendo eliminated that bug, unleashing a wave of protests and campaigns demanding the company enable same-sex relationships as part of the game’s upcoming North American and European release (it launches stateside and in Europe on June 6). Here’s Nintendo’s apology in full: --- > “” --- It’s impossible, standing on the outside, to say how “significant” the development change Nintendo refers to would have been, but Nintendo’s quality control is legendary in the industry — it does nothing lightly or easily. The company is doubtless hoping its formal apology and promise to be “more inclusive” and “better \[represent\] all players” in future versions will quell or at least mitigate some of the outrage. ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/94738/nintendo-apology-tomodachi-life/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/94738/nintendo-apology-tomodachi-life/"},"headline":"Nintendo Apologizes for Not Allowing Same-Sex Relationships in Tomodachi Life","datePublished":"2014-05-09T21:43:29.000Z","dateModified":"2026-04-13T08:02:12.603Z","description":"The company issued a formal apology Friday and promised to be \"more inclusive\" and \"better [represent] all players\" in future versions of the life simulation game. 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