--- title: Why a ‘Third Life’ Is the Answer to America’s Loneliness Epidemic description: A life with regular time for connection and glorious, unproductive leisure is a great goal for 2025, explains Adam Chandler. canonical: https://time.com/7202834/third-life-america-loneliness-essay/ author: Adam Chandler article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2025-01-02T12:00:00.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-03-31T12:59:55.775Z article:section: Ideas og:title: Why a ‘Third Life’ Is the Answer to America’s Loneliness Epidemic og:description: A life with regular time for connection and glorious, unproductive leisure is a great goal for 2025. og:url: https://time.com/7202834/third-life-america-loneliness-essay/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb43cfdf391ddb89f/698b24c747ca38641e3c516f/third-life.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2121 og:image:height: 1193 og:image:alt: Group of friends in cafe og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Why a ‘Third Life’ Is the Answer to America’s Loneliness Epidemic twitter:description: A life with regular time for connection and glorious, unproductive leisure is a great goal for 2025. twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb43cfdf391ddb89f/698b24c747ca38641e3c516f/third-life.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 --- # Why a ‘Third Life’ Is the Answer to America’s Loneliness Epidemic > Sponsored content. 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Third places, which are informal spots to gather outside of home and work for socializing, have been features of societies going back to antiquity, from Greek agora and Viennese cafés to barber shops and Burger King dining rooms. But their role in making cultures vibrant and communities cohesive, Oldenburg warned, had begun to “constitute a diminishing aspect of the American social landscape.” He was right to worry. These days, the role of coffee shops and bars, libraries and community centers, civic clubs and houses of worship, have faded as the creep of work and domestic obligation in American life have become all but inescapable. According to the 2021 Census Bureau’s Time Use Survey, Americans [were already spending significantly less time with friends](https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/the-state-of-american-friendship-change-challenges-and-loss/) before the pandemic rearranged life entirely. Our collective isolation has only metastasized since then. In 2024, a staggering 17% of Americans [claimed to have zero friends](https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/an-unsettled-electorate-how-uncertainty-and-apathy-are-shaping-the-2024-election/), up from 1% in 1990, around when Oldenburg was first urging caution. As a journalist reporting on the culture of work in American life, I found that the unnerving consequences from this social and civic decay go well beyond what the data conveys. We already know that Americans are [working longer hours](https://researchdatabase.minneapolisfed.org/downloads/7d278t17r) than most of our peer nations with less money and less stability to show for it. For many people, the cost of living has increasingly turned free time into a luxury. And, in the place of in-person socialization, we’ve bent our necks toward our screens. And while it may feed us an endless stream of perfect Corgi videos, it also has allowed work to seep into our off hours and has facilitated [an unprecedented loneliness crisis](https://theconversation.com/teens-have-less-face-time-with-their-friends-and-are-lonelier-than-ever-113240) among younger Americans. As we’ve shifted our lives online, there are now fewer third places that provide communities and individuals with opportunities to engage in low-stakes hangs and chance encounters with people of different ages, backgrounds, and life experiences. Co-working spaces, billed as community hubs, combine the trappings of a self-selecting office with the cheery imperative to network. Quick-service businesses from Starbucks to McDonald’s have morphed from being democratic places with a low-financial barrier to entry into glorified takeout counters with overworked employees and limited seating. While social media platforms and online spaces have created communities for some, technology [has been linked](https://www.nytimes.com/2024/11/10/technology/personaltech/technology-loneliness.html) in far-ranging ways to a loneliness epidemic that [prompted a formal warning](https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2023/05/03/new-surgeon-general-advisory-raises-alarm-about-devastating-impact-epidemic-loneliness-isolation-united-states.html) by the U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy. Endorphins and digital high-fives aside, crushing a Peloton ride is simply no match for doing something, anything, with another person in real life. Broadly, this growing lack of social exposure is terrible for us and terrible for democracy. Using the voter registration data of 180 million U.S. voters, Harvard researchers Jacob R. Brown and Ryan D. Enos analyzed how geographic polarization—the growth of physical partisan clusters— has evolved from regional phenomena (red counties, blue metro areas, for example) down into individual neighborhoods and blocks. “A large proportion of voters live with virtually no exposure to voters from the other party in their residential environment,” they [wrote](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33686203/) in 2021\. “Such high levels of partisan isolation can be found across a range of places and densities and are distinct from racial and ethnic segregation.” In other words, at the street level, Americans are going through their days with hardly any interactions with people who are different from them, be it demographically, economically, and politically. As a result, our politics are growing more extreme and our elected representatives have become less open to compromise and exponentially more annoying. **Read More:**[_What We Learned About Relationships During the Pandemic_](https://time.com/6076596/relationship-lessons-during-covid-19/) Not all of these problems track neatly back to the demise of third places as a social force in American life. However, as antidotes to the national epidemics of stress and isolation as well as American [empathy deficits](https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-us-has-an-empathy-deficit/), the sanctity of what Ray Oldenburg dubbed “the regular, voluntary, informal, and happily anticipated gatherings of individuals beyond the realms of home and work" has never been more important. Studies show how both [taking time off ](https://hbr.org/2023/07/how-taking-a-vacation-improves-your-well-being)and [replacing digital communication](https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-023-34957-4) with in-person interactions improve physical and mental well-being. And while no one really needs a public-health paper to decipher the joys of IRL connection, the community-born sense of social support it generates[ is also linked](https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/public-health/articles/10.3389/fpubh.2024.1376672/full) to better personal resilience and even longer lifespans. In an era of eroding civic baselines and disengagement, there are few comforts more fortifying than reaffirming a shared reality with friends, neighbors, or strangers. If third places once represented readymade outlets for community, then in their growing absence, we should look to create what I’d call “third lives.” Whether it’s through a noble commitment to volunteering, a noble commitment to something new that [we’re simply terrible at doing](https://www.wsj.com/articles/go-ahead-let-yourself-be-bad-at-something-11662865257), talking to new people, or the steady building of regular social outings, creating a framework that is safe from the reach of obligation or the temptation of performative busyness is a higher calling for this lonely and polarized moment. With a new year and its attendant resolutions calling on us to work harder and be fitter, cultivating a third life—a life with regular time for connection and glorious, unproductive leisure—is a better goal for 2025\. Traditional physical outlets for socializing may be harder to find. 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