--- title: The Best, Most Hilarious Dear Men Memes on the Internet description: A new meme asks the important questions, like why shouldn’t all men look like a tattooed Danny DeVito? canonical: https://time.com/5842507/dear-men-memes/ author: Melissa Locker article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2020-05-27T16:27:25.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:01:28.148Z og:title: A New Meme Suggests New Looks For “Dear Men ” og:description: A new meme asks, why shouldn’t all me look like a tattooed Danny DeVito? og:url: https://time.com/5842507/dear-men-memes/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: TIME og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: A New Meme Suggests New Looks For “Dear Men ” twitter:description: A new meme asks, why shouldn’t all me look like a tattooed Danny DeVito? twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production --- # These Are the Best of All the 'Dear Men, What Is Preventing You From Looking Like This?' Memes by [Melissa Locker](https://time.com/author/melissa-locker/) ## Melissa Locker May 27, 2020 4:27 PM UTC by [Melissa Locker](https://time.com/author/melissa-locker/) ## Melissa Locker May 27, 2020 4:27 PM UTC There’s a [new meme](https://time.com/5838287/my-plans-2020-meme/) making the rounds of the internet and it asks one very important, why don’t more [men](https://time.com/4273865/donald-trump-toxic-masculinity/) try to look like a stack of pancakes? The silliness all started on May 25th, 2020, according to [meme](https://time.com/5720246/best-memes/) tracker database [Know Your Meme](https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/dear-men-what-is-preventing-you-from-looking-like-this), when Twitter user @katiey\_ke\_ posted a tweet of a shirtless torso, and asking the male-identifying members of the internet, “Dear men, what is preventing you from looking like this?” > [](https://twitter.com/katiey%5FKE/status/1264907128201977856) For some reason, the tweet struck a chord with social media users. Some took issue with the six-pack abs in this time of [quarantine menus](https://time.com/5804130/covid-19-social-distancing-wellness/), some thought the choice of a headless torso was a hilarious decision, others found the whole think patently ridiculous in just the right way, but many more saw the potential for comedy gold. Soon, people across social media networks, Twitter in particular, were commenting, retweeting, liking, and sharing their own versions of the newly-minted meme. The posts ask important questions like, why men didn’t look like, say, [Cate Blanchett](https://time.com/5303602/cate-blanchett-sarah-paulson-today-show/) in a suit, a tattooed [Danny DeVito](https://time.com/4916663/arnold-schwarzenegger-on-danny-devito-reddit/), a hot dog with a human face, or the aforementioned stack of pancakes dripping in syrup. In fairness, those are all excellent questions. Here are a few prime examples of the new dear meme: > [](https://twitter.com/MC%5FEtching/status/1265484661263757312) > [](https://twitter.com/AlSweigart/status/1265465616418275328) > [](https://twitter.com/TRCsnow/status/1265496084614385665) > [](https://twitter.com/JB%5FAU/status/1265480386265485312) > [](https://twitter.com/jillboard/status/1265447497977090049) > [](https://twitter.com/imchriskelly/status/1265474682850914304) > [](https://twitter.com/sopranosdoomer/status/1265373720438243335) > [](https://twitter.com/JustinWhang/status/1265430494314889219) > [](https://twitter.com/briggityboppity/status/1265358503713046533) > [](https://twitter.com/meohmyapplepie/status/1265474733119864834) > [](https://twitter.com/SkiffleRevival/status/1265292783012765698) > [](https://twitter.com/pittdave13/status/1265464050441490432) ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/5842507/dear-men-memes/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/5842507/dear-men-memes/"},"headline":"These Are the Best of All the 'Dear Men, What Is Preventing You From Looking Like This?' 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