--- title: What Being Malala Yousafzai's Dad Taught Me About Feminism description: "Breaking the chains of patriarchy in our family didn't just free Malala. It freed me and my sons too," writes Ziauddin Yousafzai. canonical: https://time.com/5605625/malala-yousafzai-father/ author: Ziauddin Yousafazi article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2019-06-14T14:30:45.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-08-04T07:52:45.151Z article:section: Ideas og:title: What Being Malala's Father Taught Me About Feminism og:description: "Life within patriarchy is a sad, frustrated life, for everyone" og:url: https://time.com/5605625/malala-yousafzai-father/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt740e38163221b891/69894b294ee26250c2314a2e/dsc01651.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 4240 og:image:height: 2385 og:image:alt: malala-ziauddin-yousafazi og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: What Being Malala's Father Taught Me About Feminism twitter:description: "Life within patriarchy is a sad, frustrated life, for everyone" twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt740e38163221b891/69894b294ee26250c2314a2e/dsc01651.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 video:duration: 02:27 video:published: 2015-10-08 section: history topics: Nobel Peace Prize, acceptance speeches, racial injustice, human rights, nonviolence, war and peace, planetary emergency, children's rights, women's rights, freedom from fear and want genre: speech compilation, archival excerpts tones: solemn, urgent, hopeful, inspirational, earnest emotions: hope (high), urgency (high), determination (high), concern (medium) sentiment: positive audience: general viewers, students, history enthusiasts, human rights advocates content_suitability: hate [00:21-00:32]; war [00:47-00:56]; disasters [01:12-01:24] transcript_source: publisher captions transcript_reviewed: not applicable ---  # What Being Malala's Father Taught Me About Feminism > Sponsored content. 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Another speaker represents children and keeps an empty chair as a reminder, and a final speaker calls for respect among all human beings and for fighting for the rights of children and women. ## Key points - A speaker accepts the Nobel Prize for Peace at a moment when 22 million Negroes of the United States are engaged in a creative battle. (00:00) - The speech describes a long night of racial injustice and contempt for human rights that resulted in barbarous acts outraging the conscience of mankind. (00:21) - The proclaimed highest aspiration of common people is a world where human beings enjoy freedom of speech and belief and freedom from fear and want. (00:32) - A speaker frames the challenge as dichotomies: war and peace, violence and nonviolence, racism and human dignity, oppression and repression, liberty and human rights. (00:47) - The human species is said to face a planetary emergency that threatens the survival of civilization and is gathering ominous and destructive potential. (01:12) - The speaker says there is hopeful news: the crisis can be solved and the worst, though not all, of its consequences avoided if people act boldly, decisively, and quickly. (01:24) - One speaker represents millions of children who are left behind and keeps an empty chair as a reminder, having come only to share the voices and dreams of children. (01:36) - A speaker says skin color, language, and religion do not matter; all should regard each other as human beings and fight for the rights of children, women, and every human being. (02:04) ## Chapters - [00:00 to 00:47] Racial injustice and human rights aspirations. A speaker accepts the prize and describes the battle against racial injustice and the aspiration for freedom of speech, belief, and freedom from fear and want. - [00:47 to 01:12] Dichotomies of war, peace, and dignity. A speaker outlines the contrasts between war and peace, violence and nonviolence, racism and human dignity, and oppression and liberty. - [01:12 to 01:36] Planetary emergency and hope. A speaker warns of a threat to civilization's survival while stating that it can be solved through bold, decisive, quick action. - [01:36 to 02:04] Voices of children and the empty chair. A speaker represents millions of children and keeps an empty chair as a reminder. - [02:04 to 02:27] Respect and rights for all humans. A speaker says differences of color, language, and religion do not matter and calls for fighting for the rights of children, women, and everyone. ## Key quotes - [00:21] Speaker 1: "When the long night of racial injustice- Disregard and contempt for human rights have resulted in barbarous acts which have outraged the conscious of mankind" - [01:12] Speaker 3: "We, the human species, are confronting a planetary emergency, a threat to the survival of our civilization that is gathering ominous and destructive potential" - [01:24] Speaker 3: "But there is hopeful news as well. We have the ability to solve this crisis and avoid the worst, though not all, of its consequences if we act boldly, decisively, and quickly." - [01:36] Speaker 4: "I represent millions of those children who are left" - [02:04] Speaker 5: "It does not matter what's the color the skin, what language that you speak, what religion you believe it." - [02:12] Speaker 5: "We should all fight for our rights, for the rights of children, for the rights of woman, and for the rights for every human being." ## Questions this video answers - What aspirations for common people are described in the opening speech? [00:32] - What dichotomies does one speaker say the challenge involves? [00:47] - What does a speaker say about the threat to the survival of civilization? [01:12] - Is there hope of solving the planetary crisis, according to the video? [01:24] - Why does one speaker keep an empty chair? [01:36] - Whose rights does the final speaker say everyone should fight for? [02:12] ## Content suitability - hate [00:21-00:32]: Speech references racial injustice, contempt for human rights, and barbarous acts. - war [00:47-00:56]: Mentions the dichotomies of war and peace and violence and nonviolence in general terms. - disasters [01:12-01:24]: Warning of a planetary emergency threatening the survival of civilization. by [Ziauddin Yousafazi](https://time.com/author/ziauddin-yousafzai/) ## Ziauddin Yousafazi Jun 14, 2019 2:30 PM UTC  Ziauddin Yousafazi with his daughter Malala Ziauddin Yousafazi with his daughter Malala Hannah Orenstein by [Ziauddin Yousafazi](https://time.com/author/ziauddin-yousafzai/) ## Ziauddin Yousafazi Jun 14, 2019 2:30 PM UTC Long before my daughter, Malala Yousafazi, was born, long before we began fighting for girls’ rights to education together, and long before the Taliban’s brutal attack on her brought the world’s attention to her story, I made a decision. Growing up in a village in Shangla, northern Pakistan, I was surrounded by patriarchy. I had five sisters and a brother and I saw how we boys got better shoes, more clothes, and tastier cuts of chicken than the girls. I saw how my mother couldn’t go out unescorted and, on documents like doctors’ prescriptions, was never referred to by her name – Maharo Bibi – but as mother of Ziauddin, or wife of Rohul Amin. And, worst of all, I saw how I got to go to school, while my sisters stayed home, crippling their future. I was very determined that if I ever got to be a father, I’d be different. When I married my wife, Toor Pekai, we chose to build an egalitarian family, respecting each other as equal partners and raising our daughter Malala the same way we raised our sons, Khusal and Atal. I didn’t hear the word feminist until I was 45, after the attack on Malala led us to move to the city of Birmingham in the U.K. But it was feminism I had been trying to spread in my family, and in my community, for years. I believe fathers have a crucial role to play in the fight for women’s rights. Of course, when your rights are being violated — at home, at work, anywhere — your voice is the most powerful to challenge your oppression. And so women’s voices are the most important in feminism. But in patriarchal societies, a father’s voice is perhaps the next most important tool to galvanize change. We have seen great moments in history, from the Suffragettes, to #MeToo, and wonderful global organizations and local organizations, who are working for gender equality, and for the rights of women and girls. But in patriarchal societies – which even many Western countries still are –, one platform, one organization, is universal: the family. When a father begins a journey **into** feminism, believing in the worth of his daughters, he can change his whole family’s future. I’m not sure why I chose to start that journey, while other men accept the values passed down to them for centuries. Maybe it’s because I was bullied as a child, for my dark skin and my stammering problem, so I was angry about any kind of discrimination against someone for the way they are born. But I am sure of one thing: patriarchy is sheer stupidity. Fathers have a great interest in dismantling it. And we as campaigners need to communicate that to them. Life within patriarchy is a sad, frustrated life, for everyone. I have seen families in Pakistan where a father and mother have one boy and five or six girls. Because of social norms, the father and his one son go out to earn for the whole family. The burden falls to them, while all his sisters have to stay back at home, not sent to school, unable to do jobs, just waiting to get married. A guy sacrifices his life for a foolish norm, and girls don’t see their potential unlocked. And, even in countries like the U.S. and the U.K., while girls are educated and often have the same opportunities as boys, issues like pay inequality, sexual harassment and misogyny continue to damage girls’ careers and personal lives. Unhappiness breeds unhappiness. Fathers who help unlock their daughter’s potential, standing up for their rights and raising them to believe they have them, bring prosperity and happiness to their entire families. Worldwide, according to our data at the Malala Fund and the World Bank, if we gave all the girls in the world free, quality education for 12 years, we would add [between 15 and 30 trillion dollars to the world economy](https://www.malala.org/resources/cost-of-no-ed). It really is win, win. These arguments are powerful, and the arguments for patriarchy are weak. That is why the Taliban shot Malala in 2012 as she and I campaigned against their ban on girls going to school. They knew that one girl with a voice can create more change than their guns and bombs. The attack was the worst thing that could happen to a family and remembering it is traumatic. Malala is not just my daughter, she is my comrade, my soulmate – _jani_, in Urdu, my nickname for her. To see her on the verge between life and death was terrible. But it did not affect our commitment to equality. If anything, it made us more sure that our fight is worthwhile. Now, as Malala campaigns around the world without me and studies for her degree at Oxford University, I miss her deeply. Her first week in her dorm room, I peeked in and shed a few tears while she wasn’t there, thinking about how independent she has become. But in my heart, I was so happy to see her move freely and confidently around the world, no longer needing me as an escort. Good parents should want their children to be as independent as early as possible. Within my family, we have broken the chains of patriarchy. Because of that, all of us — not only Malala and Toor Pekai, but my sons and I too — are free. _As told to Ciara Nugent_ ## Transcript [00:00] [ MUSIC ] I accept the Nobel [00:04] Prize for [00:09] Peace [ BLANK_AUDIO ] At a moment when 22 million [00:12] Negroes of the United States [ BLANK_AUDIO ] Are [00:17] engaged in a creative battle When [00:21] the long night of racial injustice- Disregard [00:26] and contempt for human rights have resulted in [00:29] barbarous acts which have outraged the conscious of [00:32] mankind, and the advent of a world in which human [00:36] beings shall enjoy freedom of speech and belief [00:41] And freedom from fear and want, has been [00:44] proclaimed as a highest aspirations of the common [00:47] people. We speak here of the challenge, of the [00:51] dichotomies of war and peace, violence [00:56] and nonviolence. Racism [01:01] and human dignity. Oppression and repression. [01:07] And liberty and human rights. We, the human species, [01:12] are confronting a planetary emergency, a threat to the [01:16] survival of our civilization that is gathering ominous and [01:20] destructive potential, even as we. Gathered here. But [01:24] there is hopeful news as well. We have the ability to [01:28] solve this crisis and avoid the worst, though not all, of [01:32] its consequences if we act boldly, decisively, [01:36] and quickly. I represent millions [01:41] of those children who are left And that's why I have [01:44] kept an empty chair [01:51] as to remind us a reminder. I have come here only to [01:56] share the voices and dreams [02:00] of our children. Because they're all of [02:04] our [ UNKNOWN ] It does not matter what's the color [02:08] the skin, what language that you speak, what religion [02:10] you believe it. It is that we should all consider each [02:12] other as human beings and we should respect each [02:15] other. We should all fight for our rights, for the rights of [02:19] children, for the rights of woman, and for the rights for [02:21] every human being. [ BLANK_AUDIO ] ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"OpinionNewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/5605625/malala-yousafzai-father/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/5605625/malala-yousafzai-father/"},"headline":"What Being Malala's Father Taught Me About Feminism","datePublished":"2019-06-14T14:30:45.000Z","dateModified":"2026-08-04T07:52:45.151Z","description":"\"Breaking the chains of patriarchy in our family didn't just free Malala. 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