--- description: Irshad Manji, author of "Don't Label Me," argues that schools shouldn't just teach students how not to be offensive. title: It's Time to Teach Young People How to Stop Being So Offended image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltcc5db1611708770e/698946314ee262c9dc3141ed/work-here-justines-edits.00_00_11_02.still001.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [Ideas](/section/ideas/) ## Ideas Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [debate](/tag/debate/) ## debate Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # It's Time to Teach Young People How to Stop Being So Offended  by [Joey Lautrup](/author/joey-lautrup/)  ## Joey Lautrup Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Mar 6, 2019 8:50 PM CUT   by [Joey Lautrup](/author/joey-lautrup/)  ## Joey Lautrup Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Mar 6, 2019 8:50 PM CUT Irshad Manji, author of [_Don’t Label Me: An Incredible Conversation for Divided Times_](https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1250157986/ref=as%5Fli%5Fqf%5Fasin%5Fil%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&tag=time037-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1250157986&linkId=d5110aa1386c14a8d04996d877c7d6b0 "undefined"), thinks it’s about time we all stopped getting offended. Speaking to TIME at New York’s Tenement Museum, Manji argues that when we allow ourselves to take offense, we miss out on the opportunity to learn from people with views that differ from our own. “Giving offense is the price of diversity, not an impediment to diversity,” she says. “While more and more schools are teaching young people how not to be offensive, they also need to be teaching a new generation how not to be offended.” Watch her full argument in the video above. ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"OpinionNewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/5543441/stop-getting-offended/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/5543441/stop-getting-offended/"},"headline":"It's Time to Teach Young People How to Stop Being So Offended","datePublished":"2019-03-06T20:50:42.000Z","dateModified":"2026-02-23T22:56:10.267Z","description":"'Giving offense is the price of diversity, not an impediment to diversity'","url":"https://time.com/5543441/stop-getting-offended/","keywords":["debate","society","Evergreen"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltcc5db1611708770e/698946314ee262c9dc3141ed/work-here-justines-edits.00_00_11_02.still001.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Joey Lautrup","jobTitle":null,"url":"https://time.com/author/joey-lautrup/"}],"articleSection":"Ideas","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltcc5db1611708770e/698946314ee262c9dc3141ed/work-here-justines-edits.00_00_11_02.still001.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"WORK HERE-JUSTINE'S EDITS.00_00_11_02.Still001","caption":"","creditText":"","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/section/ideas/","name":"Ideas"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"/tag/debate/","name":"debate"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":3,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/5543441/stop-getting-offended/","name":"It's Time to Teach Young People How to Stop Being So Offended"}}]}] ```