--- title: Pregnancy OMG! Offers a Real Look at Pregnant Bodies description: Find out why Nancy Redd decided to write an uncensored book on the ups and downs of pregnancy called, 'Pregnancy OMG!' canonical: https://time.com/5211616/real-talk-pregnancy/ author: Nancy Redd article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2018-04-03T12:00:59.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-05-11T04:39:05.854Z og:title: I Was So Fed Up With Unrealistic Pregnancy Books, I Wrote an Uncensored One og:description: Your body isn't self destructing og:url: https://time.com/5211616/real-talk-pregnancy/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt13dbaa43a73f6b00/69892ca2656a3f7d3ebd40b8/nancyredd.jpg?branch=production&width=1159&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1159 og:image:height: 652 og:image:alt: Pregnancy OMG!, Nancy Redd og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: I Was So Fed Up With Unrealistic Pregnancy Books, I Wrote an Uncensored One twitter:description: Your body isn't self destructing twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt13dbaa43a73f6b00/69892ca2656a3f7d3ebd40b8/nancyredd.jpg?branch=production&width=1159&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # I Was So Fed Up With Unrealistic Pregnancy Books, I Wrote an Uncensored One > Sponsored content. 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(Photo by Damon Dahlen, Huffington Post) \*\*\* Local Caption \*\*\* Marc Lamont Hill, Josh Zepps; Alyona Minkovski; Nancy Redd; Caitlyn Becker; Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani; Ricky Camilleri; roy sekoff NEW YORK, NY - AUGUST 13: HuffPost Live president Roy Sekoff celebrates HuffPost Live's anniversary during a segment with hosts Marc Lamont Hill, Josh Zepps, Alyona Minkovski, Nancy Redd, Caitlyn Becker, Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani and Ricky Camilleri in New York Wednesday August 13, 2014\. (Photo by Damon Dahlen, Huffington Post) \*\*\* Local Caption \*\*\* Marc Lamont Hill, Josh Zepps; Alyona Minkovski; Nancy Redd; Caitlyn Becker; Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani; Ricky Camilleri; roy sekoff Courtesy of Nancy Redd / Damon Dahlen by [Nancy Redd](https://time.com/author/nancy-redd/) ## Nancy Redd Apr 3, 2018 12:00 PM UTC “Why did no one tell me that this could happen?” When I was [pregnant with my first child](http://time.com/magazine/us/4989032/october-30th-2017-vol-190-no-18-u-s/), I must have exclaimed that exact phrase to at least a dozen mamas that I’d known for years. The answer was often: “We didn’t want to scare you, you might not have wanted to get pregnant.” That’s insanity! Knowing in advance that pregnancy might cause your voice to change, or make you temporarily hate the love of your life’s smell isn’t going to tamp down the average [woman’s maternal yearning](http://healthland.time.com/2011/09/06/baby-fever-the-desire-to-procreate-is-not-just-for-women/), but being prepared for these mind and body changes can make the experience so much better.  Brynne Zaniboni / Courtesy of St. Martins Press As the weeks turned into trimesters, I felt very left out of the sixteen [mainstream maternity books](http://time.com/3475131/why-most-pregnancy-guides-are-a-total-turnoff/) that I bought. None of them discussed many of the strange and embarrassing symptoms I experienced, and the lack of photographic diversity was depressing. We’re not all [cellulite](http://time.com/77632/15-myths-and-facts-about-cellulite/)\-free moms-to-be. That’s why I decided to write and produce[ _PREGNANCY, OMG!_ ](https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1250113180/ref=as%5Fli%5Fqf%5Fasin%5Fil%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&tag=time037-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1250113180&linkId=908ee169a1c4171b7be5f722c738a7ba)with the hope that every pregnant person can see a semblance of herself in print. Over a period of multiple months, my photographer [Brynne Zaniboni](http://www.brynnezaniboni.com/) and I captured an incredibly inclusive lineup of pregnant women of varying shapes, sizes, sexualities and skin colors. These awesome moms-to-be were brave enough to bare it all to modernize the conversation about pregnant bodies. If you’re pregnant, I’m telling you now: You’re in for one crazy ride. If this is your first pregnancy, then for the first time in your life your body doesn’t completely belong to you — you’re the host to a very cute parasite. If you’ve been there, done that, you’re still in for a new and unusual journey — every pregnancy is different in both beneficial and bizarre ways. I know because I’ve been there and done that three times myself, and have two children to show for it. (If you also unfortunately find yourself searching for a rainbow after suffering a [loss](http://time.com/3849280/pregnancy-miscarriage/) like I did, this book has you covered). My female friends are also all knee-deep in the fertility years, popping out babies left and right, and we collectively became exasperated over all the issues the other pregnancy books leave out or gloss over. So after being a pregnant or postpartum mom for basically four non-stop years, in preparation to write this book, I scoured the Internet with fresh, non-hormonal eyes, hanging out in popular birth-message boards, perusing blogs, and checking out what questions preggos asked and the candid pictures they shared in the vast and anonymous online world. I then revisited about a dozen of the top pregnancy books that caused me such angst, many of them bearing bruised spines from being thrown across the room in terror or frustration or both, cross-referencing them all to come up with dozens of concerns that each and every one failed to so much as acknowledge, much less advise upon. And I don’t mean just a couple of accidental misses. In my research I found dozens of major issues that weren’t deemed worthy of discussion by the most popular pregnancy books on the market such as excessive swearing, jewelry allergies, weakened tooth enamel, bad breath and [gender disappointment](https://www.thecut.com/2016/01/gender-disappointment-boy.html).  Brynne Zaniboni; Courtesy of St. Martins Press Speaking of other pregnancy books, why is it that most of them are organized by weeks and trimesters? Some women get hit with pregnancy nosebleeds at eight weeks and some at 32\. Others don’t have any nausea until the third trimester, while some poor souls start getting back pain before the baby inside of them is bigger than a peanut. That’s why _PREGNANCY, OMG!_ is 100% mama-centric and organized by body part, not timetable, so you don’t have to feel weird because your personal pregnancy issue is “out of order”— every pregnant body is different. As your fingers swell up and look like sausages and your engorged breasts seem to take on heartbeats of their own, you may feel as if your body is self-destructing. Well, stop. This book will offer visual proof that you’re not the only preggo with a blue vulva, among other disorienting dilemmas. It’ll also feature medically vetted explanations of your frustrating moments — all organized in bite-size portions designed to quickly and clearly alleviate any concerns you may have. I didn’t set out to give you the play-by-play of your baby’s development, from pea to pumpkin. If you want that type of information, there are plenty of tried-and-true, fetus-focused resources, as well as your own trusted doctor, for you to turn to. Instead, I want to talk about your pregnant body. I want to help inspire you to get through this demanding time, and help you embrace rather than fear it. Relish and rejoice in the fact that no matter what’s happening to you, you’re not alone. _Excerpt adapted from_ [PREGNANCY, OMG!: The First Ever Photographic Guide for Mamas-to-Be](https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1250113180/ref=as%5Fli%5Fqf%5Fasin%5Fil%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&tag=time037-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1250113180&linkId=908ee169a1c4171b7be5f722c738a7ba) _(St. Martins Press, 2018)._ ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/5211616/real-talk-pregnancy/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/5211616/real-talk-pregnancy/"},"headline":"I Was So Fed Up With Unrealistic Pregnancy Books, I Wrote an Uncensored One","datePublished":"2018-04-03T12:00:59.000Z","dateModified":"2026-05-11T04:39:05.854Z","description":"Your body isn't self destructing","url":"https://time.com/5211616/real-talk-pregnancy/","keywords":["motto","Parenting","Pregnancy","Babies","Books"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt13dbaa43a73f6b00/69892ca2656a3f7d3ebd40b8/nancyredd.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Nancy Redd","jobTitle":null,"url":"https://time.com/author/nancy-redd/"}],"articleSection":"","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt13dbaa43a73f6b00/69892ca2656a3f7d3ebd40b8/nancyredd.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"Pregnancy OMG!, Nancy Redd","caption":"","creditText":"Courtesy of Nancy Redd / Damon Dahlen","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/tag/motto/","name":"motto"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/5211616/real-talk-pregnancy/","name":"I Was So Fed Up With Unrealistic Pregnancy Books, I Wrote an Uncensored One"}}]}] ```