--- description: Writer-director Greta Gerwig’s semi-autobiographical Lady Bird is both generous and joyous, but when it stings, it stings deep. title: Review:Lady Bird Captures Joy and Pain of Coming of Age in Suburbs image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4dfc68930298d73b/6988e44922fb8505f6e23849/lady-bird-movie-greta-gerwig.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [Entertainment](/section/entertainment/) ## Entertainment Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [movies](/tag/movies/) ## movies Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # _Lady Bird_ Captures the Joy and Pain of Coming of Age in the Suburbs  by [Stephanie Zacharek](/author/stephanie-zacharek/)  ## Stephanie Zacharek Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Film Critic Nov 2, 2017 10:47 AM CUT  Ronan as Christine, a.k.a. Lady Bird. She wants everything, right away, yet even a $3 magazine is out of reach Ronan as Christine, a.k.a. Lady Bird. She wants everything, right away, yet even a $3 magazine is out of reachMerie Wallace—A24  by [Stephanie Zacharek](/author/stephanie-zacharek/)  ## Stephanie Zacharek Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Film Critic Nov 2, 2017 10:47 AM CUT Writer-director Greta Gerwig’s semiautobiographical _Lady Bird_ is both generous and joyous, but when it stings, it stings deep. At one point, Saoirse Ronan, as disgruntled high school senior Christine, begs her mother, Laurie Metcalf’s Marion, for a magazine at the supermarket: “It’s only $3! I’m having a bad week!” Marion brushes her off, and it could be the usual mom move of just saying no–until she reaches the cash register and you realize that this respectable-looking suburban woman can barely cover the family groceries. There’s no lingering, sentimental camera work, no telltale bummer music. Metcalf’s face betrays nothing so obvious as frustration or anxiety. Instead, it’s as if every molecule of her body has been, out of necessity, trained to count money. Meanwhile, when you’re a teenage girl wanting a magazine–so you can look at makeup ads, or pictures of rock stars, or fashion spreads featuring clothes you can’t afford but want to ogle anyway–it is among the world’s most straightforward, achievable desires. This measly dream costs $3, and Christine’s mother won’t–can’t–let her have it. There are tons of movies about coming of age in the suburbs, but few are as astute as _Lady Bird_ when it comes to class. Even so, the movie–set in Sacramento circa 2002–is more universal than it is insular. Gerwig knows, as her young heroine doesn’t yet, that what really defines you as an emerging grownup is how you handle everything else clustered around issues of money. The first love who’s all sorts of wrong yet also perfectly right, the desire to hang with the cool crowd only to realize that your longtime, uncool friends are a thousand times better and, perhaps most complicated of all, the slow crawl toward a truce with the parent who drives you crazy. Gerwig has a sense of humor about even fairly painful subjects. She doesn’t make filmmaking, or filmgoing for that matter, seem like drudgery. Ronan’s Christine–the movie’s title comes from the new name she’s given herself, a misguided teenage attempt at reinvention–attends a Catholic school she can barely tolerate, though this isn’t one of those joints filled with awful nuns. The great Lois Smith appears as Sister Sarah Joan, aged but groovy, who looks at the awkward raspberry tint of Christine’s hair and the half-affected scowl beneath it and sees nothing but promise. Christine finds that very nice first boyfriend (Lucas Hedges) and a less-than-satisfactory second one (Timothée Chalamet). But mostly she fights with her mother, and if words were bayonets, blood would flow. Meanwhile, Christine’s beloved, depression-prone dad (Tracy Letts) looks on helplessly, though he does become her partner in crime in pulling off her one big goal. _Lady Bird_‘s performances are all lovely, which you could chalk up to smart casting. But maybe it’s also that Gerwig–who previously co-directed, with Joe Swanberg, the 2008 _Nights and Weekends_–is kind of like the cartoon _Sleeping Beauty_, good at breezily orchestrating the special gifts of each bird in the forest. She’s certainly attuned to Ronan, who resembles a Leonardo da Vinci Madonna, if you were to add a few angry teenage thunderbolts and a scattering of mild acne. Beneath all that free-radical exasperation, Christine’s face is radiant, open, alive. It’s only when she gets everything she ever wanted that she’s hit by the weight of all she’s left behind. That’s usually how it works around age 18\. _Lady Bird_ puts you right back there, no matter how many years have elapsed. ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/5006939/lady-bird-captures-joy-pain-coming-of-age/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/5006939/lady-bird-captures-joy-pain-coming-of-age/"},"headline":"Lady Bird Captures the Joy and Pain of Coming of Age in the Suburbs","datePublished":"2017-11-02T10:47:01.000Z","dateModified":"2026-02-23T18:05:09.947Z","description":"Writer-director Greta Gerwig’s semi-autobiographical Lady Bird is both generous and joyous, but when it stings, it stings deep.","url":"https://time.com/5006939/lady-bird-captures-joy-pain-coming-of-age/","keywords":["movies"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4dfc68930298d73b/6988e44922fb8505f6e23849/lady-bird-movie-greta-gerwig.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Stephanie Zacharek","jobTitle":"Film Critic","url":"https://time.com/author/stephanie-zacharek/"}],"articleSection":"Entertainment","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4dfc68930298d73b/6988e44922fb8505f6e23849/lady-bird-movie-greta-gerwig.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"lady-bird-movie-greta-gerwig","caption":"Ronan as Christine, a.k.a. 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