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# Guy Behind the Latest Big Meme You Saw Everywhere: 'I Didn’t Even Know What a Meme Is'

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## Video: Why Do People Always Look So Serious in Old Photos?

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_Published 2016-11-29. The first photographs were taken in the late 1820s, and the new medium developed throughout the rest of the century as a practical tool, artistic form and social activity._


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## Raisa Bruner


Aug 28, 2017 9:00 PM UTC

![Disloyal man with his girlfriend looking at another girl](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt1dfa5022a93d660e/6988db95196cf461aa041ae1/gettyimages-493656728.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=3:2)

Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl

Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl AntonioGuillem—iStockphoto/Getty Images

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[Raisa Bruner](https://time.com/author/raisa-bruner/)


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## Raisa Bruner


Aug 28, 2017 9:00 PM UTC

After a stock photo of three people entangled in a romantic triangle [became a viral sensation](https://twitter.com/i/moments/901044973881217024), the photographer behind the image is speaking out about the roots of the picture, the models involved and how he’s handling this whole internet fame thing.

“My models and I work really hard and we make a living out of our work, so the meme situation is just an anecdote that can be curious,” Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem wrote [in an extensive comment to _New York’s_ Select All](http://nymag.com/selectall/2017/08/antonio-guillem-the-photographer-behind-guy-looking-back-meme.html?utm%5Fcampaign=nym&utm%5Fsource=tw&utm%5Fmedium=s1). Since he says he has worked for half a decade in the stock photo industry and sells 1,600 photos daily, this one was only a blip on his radar. “I never thought that one of my images will be that popular. I didn’t even know what a meme is until recently, when the models started to tell me,” he continued.

He also explained that the models are close to him: “I care about them as they were my kids,” he said of two of them. (The internet discovered that the three are in many of his shots, [leading to funny takes](https://twitter.com/oranforest/status/900923334799622144) on the rest of the photo shoot’s narrative.)

As for the back story on the photo shoot that has now become iconic? They were in Catalonia, Spain in mid-2015, he said, playing around with the “infidelity” concept. Everything was improvised, but it was “challenging” to get the facial expressions just right — since the group had difficulty keeping straight faces.

Intriguingly, this is not Guillem’s best-selling photo, nor is it making him a ton of money. Most of the memes of the image are pirated online spoofs, so Guillem is not getting much in the way of a copyright kickback. But he’s not too bothered by it, except, he says, in instances where the new take is decisively derogatory.


See below for two iterations.

> [](https://twitter.com/DoctorZachJones/status/900346924766609408)

> [](https://twitter.com/oranforest/status/900923334799622144)


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