--- title: Orlando Shooting: Republicans Should Start Saying 'Gay' description: Just as Republicans for years took shelter from the subject of AIDS, today's partisans have whitewashed the sexuality of Orlando victims. canonical: https://time.com/4368916/orlando-shooting-republicans-gay/ author: James Richardson article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-06-14T19:02:25.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-02-22T22:36:24.648Z article:section: Ideas og:title: Republicans, Start Saying 'Gay' When You Talk About Orlando og:description: Courting diverse communities is no longer a whimsical strategy for Republicans og:url: https://time.com/4368916/orlando-shooting-republicans-gay/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt606b80e794b25368/698897d2656a3f28e8bcbeb4/orlando-shooting-republican-gay.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: A member of the LGBT community in Bengalaru holds a candle during a memorial service following a mass shooting at the Pulse gay nightclub in Orlando og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Republicans, Start Saying 'Gay' When You Talk About Orlando twitter:description: Courting diverse communities is no longer a whimsical strategy for Republicans twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt606b80e794b25368/698897d2656a3f28e8bcbeb4/orlando-shooting-republican-gay.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Republicans, Start Saying 'Gay' When You Talk About Orlando by [James Richardson](https://time.com/author/james-richardson/) ## James Richardson Jun 14, 2016 7:02 PM UTC  A member of the LGBT community in Bengalaru holds a candle during a memorial service following a mass shooting at the Pulse gay nightclub in Orlando, in India June 14, 2016. A member of the LGBT community in Bengalaru holds a candle during a memorial service following a mass shooting at the Pulse gay nightclub in Orlando, in India June 14, 2016.Abhishek N.Cinnappa—Reuters by [James Richardson](https://time.com/author/james-richardson/) ## James Richardson Jun 14, 2016 7:02 PM UTC Nearly 35 years to the day before a lone gunman would enter a gay nightclub in Florida and butcher dozens of innocents in the [deadliest mass shooting](http://time.com/4365325/orlando-shooting-pulse-nightclub-deadliest-history/) in America’s bloody history, the federal government’s public health institute documented five cases of a rare lung infection that would quickly spiral to claim the lives of 25 million. [Then](http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/pdf/wk/mm5021.pdf), just as now, Republican condolences have been chilling. Indeed, as conservatives broadly lament the tragedy only to gracefully sidestep the acute animus that bore it, they continue in a shameful tradition of indifference to the lives, and disproportionate suffering, of gay men and women. The horror and breadth of the incident—some 49 perished as another 53 were injured, clinging to a life that will forever bear the scars of hate—commanded a response, just as the [deaths of nearly 7 million AIDS victims](https://partners.nytimes.com/library/national/science/aids/timeline80-87.html) compelled President Ronald Reagan to [begin addressing the crisis](http://www.nytimes.com/1985/09/18/us/reagan-defends-financing-for-aids.html) in earnest, some four years after those first documented cases in 1981. The symmetry is startling: just as Republicans of the Reagan era for years took shelter from the subject of AIDS, today’s partisans have notably whitewashed the sexuality of the Orlando victims. Say it, damn it: they were gay, and for it they were marked for death by a radical Islamist terrorist. Now, that’s not to say the victims were singularly defined by their sexuality—indeed, they were sons and daughters, mothers and fathers, husbands and wives, friends and lovers—but to blur their identity is to willfully disrespect their memory and their fight to live authentically and freely. Silence is no conservative ethic, and yet it continues to tether our pained present to the shameful stigmas of our past. With sparse exception, many Republicans pointedly refused to utter the word “gay” in the hours that followed the massacre. It was almost as though they feared their own sexual orientation would shift with the utterance—gay! Men and women were slaughtered. Not for their nationality. Nor for their creed. [But because they were gay](http://www.haaretz.com/world-news/americas/1.724548). And still GOP leaders hide behind [broad and bland references](http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2016/06/here-are-25-statements-orlando-republican-lawmakers-dont-use-word-gay) to “victims and their families,” apparently a sophist euphemism for queer. On Monday, Republicans’ presumptive presidential nominee asked a New Hampshire crowd to consider who would be a better White House partner to women and the LGBT community: former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton, who, [he said](https://www.bostonglobe.com/news/politics/2016/06/14/donald-trump-gay-friendly-gop-candidate/cCidG48MLYhPZCAfnEeMaJ/story.html), “wants to allow radical Islamic terrorists to pour into our country” to “enslave women and murder gays,” or himself. Well, if you put it that way. Today’s Republican Party is [older and whiter](http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/05/the-gop-is-dying-off-literally-118035%5FPage2.html#.V2BKIvkrKUl) than any period in its 162-year history. Today’s electorate, though, isn’t: it’s young, it’s diverse. And it’s also just a little gay. Courting diverse communities is no longer a whimsical coincidental strategy for Republicans, but a singular, imperative one. That means actually addressing those communities. That means actually identifying them—yes, saying the word gay. It took years of suffering, of healthy young men spoiling into half-living cadavers, for Republicans to acknowledge the AIDS epidemic. Their silence took a fatal toll. 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