--- title: Why Celebrity Breakups Matter So Much to Us description: When celebrities break up, that de-romanticized, very adult truth about love is brought back to the forefront of our minds. canonical: https://time.com/4356371/celebrity-break-ups-taylor-swift-calvin-harris/ author: Katherine Schafler article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-06-03T14:27:19.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T09:02:39.141Z og:title: Why We Get So Upset When Celebrities Break Up og:description: Don't worry, love is real og:url: https://time.com/4356371/celebrity-break-ups-taylor-swift-calvin-harris/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt161ada7b4e1c8540/6988a6e8524fc0af48df98cb/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-divorce-breakup.jpg?branch=production&width=1024&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1024 og:image:height: 576 og:image:alt: AFI FEST 2015 Presented By Audi Opening Night Gala Premiere Of Universal Pictures' "By The Sea" - Arrivals og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Why We Get So Upset When Celebrities Break Up twitter:description: Don't worry, love is real twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt161ada7b4e1c8540/6988a6e8524fc0af48df98cb/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-divorce-breakup.jpg?branch=production&width=1024&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Why We Get So Upset When Celebrities Break Up > Sponsored content. 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(Photo by Barry King/Getty Images) HOLLYWOOD, CA - NOVEMBER 05: (L-R) Director/producer/writer/actress Angelina Jolie and actor Brad Pitt arrive at AFI FEST 2015 Presented By Audi Opening Night Gala Premiere Of Universal Pictures' 'By The Sea' at TCL Chinese 6 Theatres on November 5, 2015 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Barry King/Getty Images) Barry King/Getty Images by [Katherine Schafler](https://time.com/author/katherine-schafler/) ## Katherine Schafler Jun 3, 2016 2:27 PM UTC I’m still not over the fact that Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams never got back together (preferably in the rain), and I remember the _trash_ shirt Brad Pitt wore on the beach, pictured with Jennifer Aniston the day before they announced their separation more than 10 years ago. There are certain couples in my everyday life whom I love so much that if they announced a split, I might need to take a personal day. Why do I care? For the same reason you do. Couples who we see as “perfect” together let us hold onto the belief that love is all you need. What I’ve learned in my own life and in my work as a therapist is this: Love is absolutely fundamental, but it is not the be all, end all.Deep down, we all know this. But if we let ourselves think about it too much, it makes us kind of sad. We need love, but we also need someone with whom we can communicate effectively, someone who shares our notion of what commitment means, someone with whom we can build financial intimacy and trust. Relationships are founded on love, yes, but they remain standing on a collection of many other (less glamorous) pillars. When celebrities break up, that de-romanticized, very adult truth about love is brought back to the forefront of our minds. I mean, here are the most celebrated, attractive, wealthy, interesting, gifted humans on earth, and they’re getting rejected? We feel an understandable sense of, “_If they can’t figure it out, how the &^%$ am I supposed to get it right?_” But before you start binge-listening to Adele, take heart. Love is not, in fact, all you need—but that doesn’t mean it’s not a beautiful start. _Katherine Schafler is a New York City-based licensed psychotherapist._ ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/4356371/celebrity-break-ups-taylor-swift-calvin-harris/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/4356371/celebrity-break-ups-taylor-swift-calvin-harris/"},"headline":"Why We Get So Upset When Celebrities Break Up","datePublished":"2016-06-03T14:27:19.000Z","dateModified":"2026-04-13T09:02:39.141Z","description":"Don't worry, love is real","url":"https://time.com/4356371/celebrity-break-ups-taylor-swift-calvin-harris/","keywords":["motto","Love & Relationships"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt161ada7b4e1c8540/6988a6e8524fc0af48df98cb/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-divorce-breakup.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Katherine Schafler","jobTitle":null,"url":"https://time.com/author/katherine-schafler/"}],"articleSection":"","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt161ada7b4e1c8540/6988a6e8524fc0af48df98cb/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-divorce-breakup.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"AFI FEST 2015 Presented By Audi Opening Night Gala Premiere Of Universal Pictures' \"By The Sea\" - Arrivals","caption":"AFI FEST 2015 Presented By Audi Opening Night Gala Premiere Of Universal Pictures' \"By The Sea\" - Arrivals","creditText":"Barry King/Getty Images","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/tag/motto/","name":"motto"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/4356371/celebrity-break-ups-taylor-swift-calvin-harris/","name":"Why We Get So Upset When Celebrities Break Up"}}]}] ```