--- title: The One Word We All Use Too Much description: And it can really undermine your credibility and creativity. canonical: https://time.com/4308036/meaningless-word-interesting/ author: The Muse article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-04-29T20:20:58.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-05-11T04:39:17.746Z og:title: The One Meaningless Word That We All Say Too Much og:description: It can really undermine your credibility and creativity og:url: https://time.com/4308036/meaningless-word-interesting/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt7e9563f436e0b74b/698890aff887dc6ab0e959a2/meaningless-word-undermine-credibility-interesting.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: 539884547 og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: The One Meaningless Word That We All Say Too Much twitter:description: It can really undermine your credibility and creativity twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt7e9563f436e0b74b/698890aff887dc6ab0e959a2/meaningless-word-undermine-credibility-interesting.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # The One Meaningless Word That We All Say Too Much by [Alyse Kalish / The Muse](https://time.com/author/the-muse/) ## Alyse Kalish / The Muse Apr 29, 2016 8:20 PM UTC  Empty thought bubble against green background Empty thought bubble against green backgroundGetty Images by [Alyse Kalish / The Muse](https://time.com/author/the-muse/) ## Alyse Kalish / The Muse Apr 29, 2016 8:20 PM UTC  A few weeks ago, I was sitting in a brainstorming meeting. After one particularly important idea was mentioned, someone responded with “That’s a really interesting point.” And then, _crickets_. OK, not exactly, but it definitely brought the conversation to a halt—until one person took the [long silence](https://www.themuse.com/advice/5-tips-thatll-help-you-avoid-that-dreaded-awkward-silence) as an opportunity to speak up. What she said surprised me: “I’m sorry, I just have to ask. What do you mean by interesting? Break that down for me.” What _did_ he mean by “interesting?” I sure didn’t know—and neither did he really. And in that brief moment, as I watched this person try to explain why he found this interesting, I realized just how meaningless the word was. **_Related:_** [_This is Your Perfect Schedule for a Productive Day_](https://www.themuse.com/advice/this-is-your-perfect-schedule-for-a-productive-day-science-says-so?ref=carousel-slide-0) I find myself using “interesting” all the time. _That was an interesting movie._ _I’m interested to hear what you think._ _I think it’s interesting that…_ I use it when I don’t want to say something (for fear of retaliation), when I don’t even know how to put my thoughts into words, or when I don’t want to confront how I really feel inside. But from this conversation, I realized that this word not only contributes nothing to the conversation, but it made it seem that the person who said it didn’t want to be involved with what we were all sitting there trying to accomplish. It was the perfect neutral—not too mean, not too encouraging, not too deep that he’d have to jump in and take initiative. In fact, it could have been taken as an insult: _I don’t really care either way, so I’ll just acknowledge that you spoke and move on._ Just think, have you ever felt _elated_ that someone said your thoughts were “interesting?” I didn’t think so. After this experience, I decided to swear off the word altogether (except for writing this article, of course). The reason is simple: I like honesty. [Honesty is productive](https://www.themuse.com/advice/4-steps-for-asking-for-and-getting-truly-honest-feedback)—it shows that you actually listened to someone, then took the time to think through what he or she said in order to craft a thorough and useful response. **_Related:_** [_5 Habits of Happy People_](https://www.themuse.com/advice/5-habits-of-happy-people-that-dont-include-reading-selfhelp-books) Ever since I swore it off, I’ve become more in tune with my emotions and have had more meaningful and productive interactions in which I was able to learn something new about myself and others around me—a.k.a., I gained some serious [emotional intelligence](https://www.themuse.com/advice/emotional-intelligence-matters-just-as-much-as-iqso-how-do-you-measure-up). Now, I present my challenge to you: Let’s take more conversation risks and start to break down what we mean by “interesting”—rather than using it as a scapegoat. Do you mean that it’s surprising, or maybe something you really hadn’t thought of before? Do you believe that it’s a good idea, but not practical right now? Or, do you absolutely love the concept but aren’t sure if other people agree? Say those things! And, if you truly don’t have a response, that’s OK too—just saying “I’m not sure how I feel about that” can be a great way to further discuss what _about_ it confuses, upsets, or bugs you. But when things remain ambiguous, nothing gets done. **_Related:_** [_10 Signs You’re a Real Leader (Even If Your Title Doesn’t Reflect It)_](https://www.themuse.com/advice/10-signs-youre-a-real-leader-even-if-your-title-doesnt-reflect-it) The next time the word “interesting” pops up in your head, I dare you to try to process it and figure out what you’re _really_ thinking before saying it out loud. You’d be surprised how many better, stronger, and more exciting phrases there are out there—I can tell you from practice that it is one word you can definitely live without. _This post is in partnership with_ [_The Muse_](http://www.themuse.com)_. 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