--- title: Mentorship: What Graduating During the Recession Taught Me description: Celebrity stylist Micaela Erlanger shares her experience finding a mentor after graduating during the recession. canonical: https://time.com/4292756/annabel-tollman-micaela-erlanger-mentorship/ author: Micaela Erlanger article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-04-14T22:00:26.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-08-04T07:44:54.365Z og:title: What I Learned When I Gained My Mentor’s Trust og:description: 'My mentor came in the form of one of the most-loved and well-known fashion and celebrity stylists working at the time' og:url: https://time.com/4292756/annabel-tollman-micaela-erlanger-mentorship/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltcbc0459e482b2583/69888f2e0a4a220d319c9400/micaela-erlanger.jpeg?branch=production&width=714&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 714 og:image:height: 402 og:image:alt: micaela-erlanger og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: What I Learned When I Gained My Mentor’s Trust twitter:description: 'My mentor came in the form of one of the most-loved and well-known fashion and celebrity stylists working at the time' twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltcbc0459e482b2583/69888f2e0a4a220d319c9400/micaela-erlanger.jpeg?branch=production&width=714&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 video:duration: 00:50 video:published: 2016-02-02 section: ideas topics: personal mottos, life advice, creating memories, trusting instincts, making an impact, living in the moment, leadership, giving genre: interview, inspirational tones: inspirational, reflective, upbeat, personal emotions: inspiration (medium), warmth (medium), hope (low) sentiment: positive audience: professionals, women in leadership, general viewers interested in personal growth, business audiences people: Carolyn Everson organizations: Facebook, TIME transcript_source: publisher captions transcript_reviewed: not applicable ---  # What I Learned When I Gained My Mentor’s Trust > Sponsored content. 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Carolyn Everson, who works at Facebook and runs Global Marketing Solutions, offers her motto about making memories and mentions a fortune cookie fortune she has carried for decades. Other mottos include trusting one's instincts, bringing someone along on the journey, having an impact on others each week, and living in the moment. ## Key points - Carolyn Everson says she works at Facebook and runs Global Marketing Solutions. (00:07) - Everson's motto is that life is short, so one should create memories. (00:11) - Everson says she has carried a fortune cookie fortune around for decades. (00:14) - The fortune advises trusting your instincts, which Everson says are valid. (00:17) - Another speaker's motto is that you never know if you don't try. (00:20) - One speaker advises making sure each week you have had an impact on someone's life. (00:24) - A speaker's motto is to bring someone along for the ride and make the journey great for both. (00:30) - A speaker says it is not how much you have but how much you have to give, and to live in the moment since tomorrow is not guaranteed. (00:35) ## Chapters - [00:00 to 00:07] Opening music. Background music plays before the first speaker begins. - [00:07 to 00:20] Carolyn Everson's mottos and fortune. Everson introduces herself and shares her motto about creating memories and a fortune cookie fortune about trusting instincts. - [00:20 to 00:35] Mottos on trying and impact. Speakers share mottos about trying, making an impact on others, and bringing someone along on the journey. - [00:35 to 00:50] Living in the moment. A speaker shares a motto about giving and living in the moment, followed by closing music. ## Key quotes - [00:11] Carolyn Everson: "life is short, create memories." - [00:17] Carolyn Everson: "Trust your instincts, they are valid." - [00:20] unidentified speaker: "you never know if you don't try." - [00:35] unidentified speaker: "It's not how much you have, it's how much you have to give." - [00:42] unidentified speaker: "live in the moment because you don't know if there is going to be a tomorrow." ## Questions this video answers - What is Carolyn Everson's personal motto? [00:11] - Where does Carolyn Everson work and what does she run? [00:07] - What advice does the fortune cookie fortune give? [00:17] - What motto is shared about making an impact each week? [00:24] - Why does one speaker say to live in the moment? [00:42] by [Micaela Erlanger](https://time.com/author/micaela-erlanger/) ## Micaela Erlanger Apr 14, 2016 10:00 PM UTC  by [Micaela Erlanger](https://time.com/author/micaela-erlanger/) ## Micaela Erlanger Apr 14, 2016 10:00 PM UTC I graduated from Parsons, the New School for Design, with the right degree at the wrong time. There were no jobs, everyone was firing and no one was hiring. I called and emailed every possible contact and introduction that I could find, but everyone was scared and unwilling to take a chance on new talent. Despite the fact that I’d completed several internships and had great references, the only option (one that I’m very fortunate to have been able to afford) was to offer my time for free. What I didn’t expect out of this perfect storm of fear and anxiety was that I would find the one thing that every young professional woman seeks with dogged determination: A mentor. My mentor came in the form of one of the most-loved and well-known fashion and celebrity stylists working at the time: Annabel Tollman. Over the course of that first year working for her, I gave myself over completely to the job, working all hours and taking every task given to me with a smile. As a result, she took me under her wing. Tollman was inspiring, wickedly smart, funny, kind, successful and ultra-glamorous. She cared about her team and about the interns that were putting in the time to learn. After a year of interning, I was hired full-time. And over the course of the next five years, I rose to the most senior position in Tollman’s office. It was the mutual respect that we shared for one another that stays with me: She respected my determination to prove my worth, my willingness to learn and my dedication to her vision. In return, I respected how warm, intelligent and truly generous with her time and expertise she was. _Watch some of the world’s most powerful women share their personal mottos:_ What many young professionals seeking a mentor don’t understand is that a mentorship isn’t gained or given; it’s earned. Authentic mentorships are based upon a mutual trust and confidence. The ones that last the longest and prove the most beneficial are reciprocal relationships, where a mentee is able to provide something in return for the generosity of advice and guidance. In my case, I was able to truly understand the unique joys and challenges that come with being a fashion stylist. I was able to commiserate because I was in the trenches every day with her. And at the end of the day, isn’t that what every relationship is based upon? A mentorship is an inherently professional relationship, but it is nonetheless a human relationship. When Tollman died unexpectedly in 2013, I was suddenly pushed out of the nest and into running my own business. Most people doubted that a then-28-year-old could succeed as a stylist in the fashion industry. When I started my company, I only had one client to my name. But because of my mentor and the lessons she provided, I was able to set aside my fear and pursue a career that I am deeply passionate about. Some have credited my rapid ascent in the industry to being in the right place at the right time since I began working with an unknown Kenyan actress named Lupita Nyong’o right before _12 Years a Slave_ premiered. And they’re right, but just not about the place or time. Meeting my mentor at the precise moment I needed a guiding hand, a tough education and a friend is the true origin of any success I can claim now. **_Read more:_** [_Why Everyone Should Have Multiple Mentors_](http://motto.time.com/4217558/multiple-mentors/) Every day, there is something I remember from my time with her: A lesson, a word of advice, a joke, a smile. I now feel the duty to pass along these lessons to the women who work in my office and toil tirelessly to execute my vision. Perhaps this is the best part of having a mentor: The eventual process of becoming one. _Micaela Erlanger is a stylist whose clients include Lupita Nyong’o, Meryl Streep, Hilary Swank, Jared Leto, Common and Jennifer Hudson._ ## Transcript [00:00] [ MUSIC ] [00:07] I am Carolyn Everson. I work at Facebook and I run [00:11] Global Marketing Solutions. And my motto is, life is [00:14] short, create memories. I have a fortune cookie [00:17] fortune. Which I've carried around for decades. Trust [00:20] your instincts, they are valid. My motto is, you never [00:24] know if you don't try. At the end of each week, make [00:27] sure you've had an impact on someone's life. My motto [00:30] is, bring someone along for the ride With you and [00:33] make sure it's a great journey for both of you. >. [00:35] There's only now. It's not how much you have, it's how [00:39] much you have to give. My personal motto is live in the [00:42] moment because you don't know if there is going to be [00:44] a tomorrow. 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