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I’ve deeply felt all three of those exact fears, along with many others. But those fears are just a few I’ve started overcoming using a little happiness hack I can share with you. Are you ready? O.K., to start with, here is the thought process most of us follow when it comes to facing our fears: **CAN DO IT —** **\>** **WANT TO DO IT** —**\>** **DO IT** Before you _do_ anything, you have to feel like you _can do_ _it_ first—and then you have to actually _want to do_ _it_ second. Take my fear of swimming. Developed from a childhood full of ear infections and never-ending sets of tubes, I grew into the 30-year-old guy perpetually hanging by the grill at the pool party. I was afraid of the water. Why? Because “I _can’t_ swim. I’ll sink like a stone! I can’t tread water, jump into the deep end, nothing.” And “You know, I don’t really _want_ _to_ swim anyway. No big deal. I prefer reading at the beach. Getting wet, showering, showing off spaghetti-noodle arms? No thanks. I’ll do without.” Yes, I never got to _do_ _it_ because I never thought I _could_ _do it_ and so I didn’t _want to do it_. It’s the same way many of us think about running a marathon, giving a big presentation or writing a novel. So what happens if we think about that process in a different order? The same set of words, but said a different way? Specifically, what happens if _do it_ becomes the starting point instead of the end? Well, then it looks like this: **DO IT —** **\>** **CAN DO IT —** **\>** **WANT TO DO IT** _Watch some of the world’s most powerful women share their best advice:_ What happened with my fear of swimming? Well, I started dating a beautiful woman who I fell in love with, fast. On our second date, she told me her family had a cottage on an island—and every morning in the summer, her little cousins and 80-year-old grandparents swam around the island together. And did I ever want to come? That night, without thinking about whether I _could do_ _it_ or whether I _wanted to do_ _it_, I just _did it_. I signed up for swimming lessons at the city pool. Shortly thereafter, I walked into the moldy locker room and listened to my heart thumping as I stepped onto the pool deck wearing a life jacket and goggles. After that first 30 minutes of flutter-kicking in the shallow end and wearing a life jacket, guess what happened? I thought, “I can do _this_!” And so the next week, I _wanted to_ _do it_. “Give me moldy locker rooms! Pass me the flutter board—in the deep end this time.” And after I had done it one week, I knew I could do it again. **_Read more:_** [_4 Ways to Gain an ‘Extra’ Hour Every Day_](http://motto.time.com/4266199/gain-extra-hour/) How do you turn your biggest fear into your biggest success? You place _action_ in front of _capability_ and _motivation_. You put _do it_ before _can do it_ and _want to do it_. Turns out, it’s easier to act yourself into a new way of thinking than it is to think yourself into a new way of acting. Those forced baby steps create the early belief in your abilities, which create the motivation—and a virtuous cycle quickly develops. So go forward. Step into your fears. Because you’ll quickly see that, completely counter-intuitively, motivation does not actually cause action. Action causes motivation. _Neil Pasricha is the director of the Institute for Global Happiness and author of_ [The Book of Awesome](http://www.amazon.com/The-Book-Awesome-Neil-Pasricha/dp/0425238903?tag=timecom-20) _series. His newest book is_ [The Happiness Equation](http://www.amazon.com/The-Happiness-Equation-Anything-Everything/dp/0399169474?tag=timecom-20)_._ ## Transcript [00:00] [ MUSIC ] [00:05] Don't wait for people to give you your power. Just take it. [00:07] Think of yourself as a thermostat. You do have to have [00:11] situational leadership. Sometimes you have to dial things [00:13] up. And sometimes you have to dial things down. Best [00:15] piece of advice? Sing every day. Resist the temptation [00:19] to hire in your likeness. So the best piece of advice I've [00:22] ever gotten is super simple. Work harder than everybody [00:24] else. Hire people that think differently than you do. That [00:28] add something different than what you have to offer. From [00:30] my father before I went to basic training just to keep my [00:33] sense of humor. Make it a great place to work. And you'll [00:37] attract talent. You can develop talent. And great products [00:40] come from great teams. Being patient. Don't be so restless. [00:43] You're not the smartest person in the room. It's okay to take [00:46] risks. Play nice. It'll always come back to you no matter [00:50] what happens. You need to collaborate with your [00:53] colleagues and make them as successful as yourself. [00:56] There are very few decisions, career decisions, that you [01:00] make that are irreversible. Always be [01:04] yourself. 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