Ever have trouble getting to sleep? Or staying asleep? Or you get plenty of shut-eye but you’re not refreshed? Everyone wants to get better sleep. But sleep trouble is incredibly common.
And feeling tired the next day isn’t the half of it. By not getting enough sleep you’re reducing your IQ.
And losing “beauty sleep” really does make you less attractive. Seriously.
Want to be miserable? Being tired actually makes it harder to be happy.
And if that’s not enough, lack of sleep could contribute to an early death.
Via Night School:
We need answers before sundown. So I figured I’d call somebody who has them.
Richard is going to tell you the #1 mistake you make when it comes to sleep, how to take awesome naps, how to get more quality sleep and the surprising secret to why you wake up in the middle of the night. And much more.
If you’re not too tired to keep reading, let’s get to it…
The #1 Mistake That’s Screwing Up Your Sleep
If you’re already exhausted, here’s the main takeaway you need from this interview:
Your smartphone is the devil. Your iPad is Lucifer. Your TV cackles with glee when you have insomnia.
They all give off blue light that your brain mistakes for sunshine. And that tells your grey blob it’s time to wake up, not go to bed.
Stay away from them during the hour before you try to nod off. Here’s Richard:
So your smartphone is the devil? Okay, not really. In fact, sometimes it can be the best friend your sleep schedule has. Huh?
When you’re dealing with jet lag, I encourage you to indulge in all the blue light device bliss you so urgently crave.
They can help shift your circadian rhythm forward. Awesome, right? Your phone has a new feature you didn’t even know about. Here’s Richard:
(To learn the 4 things astronauts can teach you about a good night’s sleep, click here.)
Okay, modern technology is a double-edged sword. What else are you doing wrong?
A Good Nightly Routine Is Key
Just like a good morning routine is incredibly powerful, one before bed is a game changer as well. First step?
No booze. It seems like it helps but it’s actually a big no-no. Here’s Richard:
Richard says thinking positive thoughts before you go to bed is helpful and can promote good dreams. One of the biggest things that causes insomnia is thatanxiety about getting to bed.
When those awful thoughts start running through your head at night, try this little game. Here’s Richard:
Worrying keeping you awake? Richard says to keep a pad and pen by the bed and write those thoughts down to dismiss them. Mindfulness training can help with this too so give meditation a try. (Here’s how.)
Still can’t sleep? Get up. Don’t accidentally make a Pavlov-style association between your bed and *not* sleeping. Here’s Richard:
(For more science-backed tips on a nightly routine that will bring you amazing sleep, click here.)
So your winding down ritual is in order. What about naps? (Yes, I know they’re amazing.) How can you and I make them *more* amazing?
How To Nap Like A Pro
Don’t go down for more than an hour. 20-30 minutes is great — but even five minutes can give you a big boost. Here’s Richard:
NASA found pilots who take a 25 minute nap are 35% more alert and twice as focused.
Via Night School:
NASA found that naps made you smarter — even in the absence of a good night’s sleep.
Worried you won’t wake up in time for something important? Richard recommends drinking a cup of coffee immediately before laying down. The caffeine will kick in after about 25 minutes.
(To learn the 5 scientific secrets to naps that will make you smarter and happier, click here.)
All this is great for getting some sleep… but what about when you can’t stay asleep? Not a problem. Literally.
Waking Up In The Middle Of The Night Is Natural
Research shows we evolved to sleep in two distinct phases. So don’t worry. Do something for a little while and then head back to bed for round 2. Here’s Richard:
Is this fragmented sleep bad? Far from it. Bloodwork showed that the time between the two sleeping periods was incredibly relaxing and blissful.
(For more on the science of why we sleep in two chunks, click here.)
But here’s a problem everyone has had: ever sleep for over eight hours and you still feel groggy and awful? Here’s why.
Want To Get Better Sleep? Remember “The 90 Minute Rule”
Your body goes through sleep cycles of 90 minutes. Wake up in the middle of one and you’ll feel lousy no matter how long you’ve been in bed. So plan your sleep schedule in increments of an hour and a half. Here’s Richard:
(For more on how to have the best night’s sleep of your life, click here.)
I could use a nap now, frankly. But before any of us nod off, let’s round up what Richard had to say so tonight is a restful one. (And we’ll get one more tip that can help make sure your nighttime habits don’t backfire.)
Here’s what Richard had to say about getting more quality zzzzzzzz’s:
- Avoid smartphones and devices at night. But they’re great when you’re dealing with jet lag.
- A good nightly routine is key. No alcohol before bed, think positive thoughts and play the alphabet game.
- Naps are awesome. Just keep them under 30 minutes. Drink a cup of coffee before you lay down.
- Sleeping in two chunks is natural. Get up and do something for a little while and then go back to bed.
- Remember the “90 minute rule.” Think about when you need to be up and count back in increments of 90 minutes so you wake up sharp.
Sometimes we’re our own worst enemy. We stay up surfing the net or watching Netflix. How can we behave better?
John Durant offers a piece of advice I follow: forget the morning alarm clock; set an alarm to remind you when to go to bed.
I wish you great sleep and blissful dreams.
And as Anthony Burgess once said:
Laugh and the world laughs with you, snore and you sleep alone.
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This piece originally appeared on Barking Up the Wrong Tree.
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