--- title: How Self-Promotion Can Backfire description: A new study shows that when we try to get people to like us, we can often come across as braggy and annoying. canonical: https://time.com/3855788/how-self-promotion-can-backfire/ author: Alexandra Sifferlin article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-05-12T19:35:36.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:57:01.442Z article:section: Health og:title: How Self-Promotion Can Backfire og:description: A new study shows that when we try to get people to like us, we can often come across as braggy and annoying. og:url: https://time.com/3855788/how-self-promotion-can-backfire/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt04dfff7c519e1ef8/6987ef76f887dc2d51e8e716/552168609-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2048 og:image:height: 1152 og:image:alt: 552168609 og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: How Self-Promotion Can Backfire twitter:description: A new study shows that when we try to get people to like us, we can often come across as braggy and annoying. twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt04dfff7c519e1ef8/6987ef76f887dc2d51e8e716/552168609-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # How Self-Promotion Can Backfire > Sponsored content. 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Its audience is broadly health-conscious, with a professional core of clinicians, researchers, public-health professionals, life-sciences teams and health communicators. by [Alexandra Sifferlin](https://time.com/author/alexandra-sifferlin/) ## Alexandra Sifferlin May 12, 2015 7:35 PM UTC  Peacock Showing Feathers Peacock Showing Feathers Getty Images by [Alexandra Sifferlin](https://time.com/author/alexandra-sifferlin/) ## Alexandra Sifferlin May 12, 2015 7:35 PM UTC Tuesday in social faux pas news comes [a paper](http://pss.sagepub.com/content/early/2015/05/07/0956797615573516.abstract) showing that when we try to make people like us, we often come across as braggy and annoying. We often practice a little self-promotion when we’re trying to be impressive. Turns out, it doesn’t always come across the way we want it to. New research published in the journal _Psychological Science_ shows that people frequently overestimate how much their self-promotion works in their favor and underestimate how much it achieves the opposite effect. “These results are particularly important in the Internet age, when opportunities for self-promotion have proliferated via social networking. The effects may be exacerbated by the additional distance between people sharing information and their recipient, which can both reduce the empathy of the self-promoter and decrease the sharing of pleasure by the recipient,” said study author Irene Scopelliti, a lecturer in marketing at City University London in a statement. To better understand the phenomena, researchers conducted a few experiments. In the first they asked people to describe in detail a time they bragged about themselves, what emotions they felt, and how they think the person listening to them felt. Then, another group of people were asked to describe a time when they listened to someone brag about themselves, as well as what emotions they felt and how they think the other person felt. The results showed that the people who did the bragging tended to think the people who were listening to them felt happier and more proud of them than they actually did. They were also likely to underestimate how annoying the listener thought they were. A third part of the study, where the researches asked people to make a positive impression of themselves, showed that, indeed, people tended to brag about themselves to do it. That, too, backfired. So next time you have something to brag about, consider your audience. 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