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# Domestic Abuse Charges Dropped Against Carolina Panthers' Greg Hardy

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## Scooby Axson / Sports Illustrated


Feb 9, 2015 4:34 PM UTC

![Greg Hardy of the Carolina Panthers looks out on the field during a game against the Tampa Bay Buccaneers on Sept. 7, 2014 in Tampa, Fla.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt5efbe5c9b580dde6/69877e408e0601204345a316/455613660-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=3:2)

Greg Hardy of the Carolina Panthers looks out on the field during a game against the Tampa Bay Buccaneers on Sept. 7, 2014 in Tampa, Fla.

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## Scooby Axson / Sports Illustrated


Feb 9, 2015 4:34 PM UTC

Misdemeanor domestic abuse charges were dropped against Carolina [Panthers](http://www.si.com/nfl/team/carolina-panthers) defensive end [Greg Hardy](http://www.si.com/nfl/player/greg-hardy) after his accuser failed to show up to testify, the _Charlotte Observer_ [reports](http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2015/02/09/5502866/greg-hardy-trial-opens-with-jury.html#.VNjRCbDF%5FYk).

The dropped charges come hours before Hardy was to face a trial. The prosecution said that Hardy and his accuser are believed to have [reached a civil settlement](https://twitter.com/josephperson/status/564803845558370304).

Hardy was arrested last May and charged with physically assaulting his former girlfriend, Nicole Holder. Mecklenburg County district attorney Andrew Murray [said](https://twitter.com/jjones9/status/564803738724880384) that Holder made herself “completely unavailable” and that his office has taken “extraordinary efforts” to locate her.

Hardy was accused of choking Holder and threatening to kill her after he allegedly threw her on to a futon covered with firearms.

Hardy was convicted in a bench trial last year and given a 60-day suspended sentence and probation. That punishment was vacated when Hardy appealed the verdict.

Hardy sat out the final 15 games last season and collected his $13 million salary while on the NFL’s commissioner’s exempt list. He had 15 sacks and 40 tackles for the Panthers in 2013 before the team’s placed the franchise tag on him during the offseason.

Despite Hardy’s charges being dropped, the NFL could still choose to punish him. After news of the charges being dropped, the league issued a [statement](https://twitter.com/josephperson/status/564818828384030720) that said Hardy’s status “remains unchanged until we fully review the matter.”

Hardy, 26, will be a free agent in March.

_This_ [_article_](http://www.si.com/nfl/2015/02/09/carolina-panthers-greg-hardy-domestic-abuse-charges-dropped) _originally appeared on_ [_SI.com_](http://www.si.com)_._

### Photographer as Witness: A Portrait of Domestic Violence

![At 31, Shane had spent much of his life incarcerated. His facial tattoos, along with his criminal record, made finding steady work extremely difficult, and work that paid a living wage nearly impossible. After his last stint in prison, Shane was determin](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltf6b7cd852da3ab30/698761be0b72e315cc6db228/photographer-as-witness-01.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

The following photographs were taken between Sept. 2012 and Dec. 2012\. At 31, Shane had spent much of his life incarcerated. His facial tattoos, along with his criminal record, made finding steady work extremely difficult, and work that paid a living wage nearly impossible. After his last stint in prison, Shane was determined to turn over a new leaf and create a better life for himself. That life, as he saw it, would have to include Maggie, a woman 11 years his junior who was his sister's neighbor. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie and Shane's courtship was brief but intense. Shane called her every day from prison, and upon his release, they began to date.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt7b17f3c1843ce0df/698761be5f570f44edb12d4a/photographer-as-witness-02.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie and Shane's courtship was brief but intense. Shane called her every day from prison, and upon his release, they began to date. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie had two children, Memphis, age 2, and Kayden, age 4. Maggie had separated from their father several months prior to beginning her relationship with Shane.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt589ddac6e59811ed/698761bff887dc340de879dd/photographer-as-witness-03.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie had two children, Memphis, age 2, and Kayden, age 4\. Maggie had separated from their father several months prior to beginning her relationship with Shane. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![One month into their courtship, Shane had Maggie's name tattooed on his neck in large black letters.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltfe942cca8cce092e/698761bf8e0601a64e457cfe/photographer-as-witness-04.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

One month into their courtship, Shane had Maggie's name tattooed on his neck in large black letters. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Shane had been trying to make a career as a singer in a Christian rock band while providing for Maggie and her children.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltae46a7f9148bd2dc/698761c0428a9e6656cc4a1a/photographer-as-witness-05.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane had been trying to make a career as a singer in a Christian rock band while providing for Maggie and her children. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![While Shane's relationship with Memphis was decidedly less confrontational than his relationship with Kayden, he still found his new role as a caregiver to two small children to be challenge to his patience. "I'm just trying to do the right thing by them](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt6322e10e4a8f9e49/698761c055a859d5a3a8353d/photographer-as-witness-06.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

While Shane's relationship with Memphis was decidedly less confrontational than his relationship with Kayden, he still found his new role as a caregiver to two small children to be challenge to his patience. "I'm just trying to do the right thing by them," he said of Maggie and her children. "I'm trying to be a father to them." Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Shane's relationship with Memphis was far less conflicted than his relationship with her brother, Kayden. He would constantly lavish attention and affection on Memphis, while his interactions with Kayden were decidedly more ambivalent.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2a8b4572a5f22759/698761c1e53abaa0a04d527a/photographer-as-witness-07.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane's relationship with Memphis was far less conflicted than his relationship with her brother, Kayden. He would constantly lavish attention and affection on Memphis, while his interactions with Kayden were decidedly more ambivalent. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Within a few months of their relationship, Shane moved Maggie and her children to a trailer park in Somerset, Ohio. The location was farther away than Maggie had ever been from her family and friends before, and she said her feelings of isolation only in](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt278fe8580fab7884/698761c006f2c197a83317a4/photographer-as-witness-08.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Within a few months of their relationship, Shane moved Maggie and her children to a trailer park in Somerset, Ohio. The location was farther away than Maggie had ever been from her family and friends before, and she said her feelings of isolation only increased over time. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Kayden lifted a chair and a toy truck over his head to show how strong he was.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt30fdb47bf35464b6/698761c10b72e358076db235/photographer-as-witness-09.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Kayden lifted a chair and a toy truck over his head to show how strong he was. His relationship with Shane was contentious at best, and at times he displayed open mistrust and hostility toward his mother's boyfriend. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![A trip to the barbershop designed to provide a moment of male bonding for Shane and Kayden could not dissolve the tension between them.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt64833616daf9e2b6/698761c135ba6f20bbc048d7/photographer-as-witness-10.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

A trip to the barbershop designed to provide a moment of male bonding for Shane and Kayden could not dissolve the tension between them. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Shane and Kayden had a strained relationship from the beginning, with Shane trying to exert a strong parental presence and Kayden resisting the authoritative efforts of a man he knew was not his father.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt8c7c2f3050bdceed/698761c2e53aba239d4d5282/photographer-as-witness-11.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane and Kayden had a strained relationship from the beginning, with Shane trying to exert a strong parental presence and Kayden resisting the authoritative efforts of a man he knew was not his father. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie would often say that she could sense the competition between Kayden and Shane, and often felt that she was caught between their separate demands for her affection and attention.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt5a694009b495353b/698761c255a85941a3a83541/photographer-as-witness-12.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie would often say that she could sense the competition between Kayden and Shane, and often felt that she was caught between their separate demands for her affection and attention. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Shane attepts to restrain Kayden so the barber could cut the back of his hair. "He needs a male role model. I'm trying to be that," Shane said.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2e686146ef10794d/698761c25f570f8f8ab12d4e/photographer-as-witness-13.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane attepts to restrain Kayden so the barber could cut the back of his hair. "He needs a male role model. I'm trying to be that," Shane said. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![The stress of Shane's unemployment and raising two young children on very little money often took its toll on the relationship. As the newness of their relationship wore off, they began to argue more frequently, usually about money or how Maggie focused ](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt9bdac5561dd2c71f/698761bda988ca6ac66a9ebb/photographer-as-witness-14.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

The stress of Shane's unemployment and raising two young children on very little money often took its toll on the relationship. As the newness of their relationship wore off, they began to argue more frequently, usually about money or how Maggie focused most of her energy on the children rather than her relationship. "Why can't I be the most important one, for once?" Shane asked. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![One night, after an early birthday celebration for Memphis at a local fast food restaurant, the two began to argue. Shane said his main source of frustration stemmed from the fact that Maggie paid more attention to the children than she did to him.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2719e7789354b762/698761bd06f2c1143833179a/photographer-as-witness-15.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

One night, after an early birthday celebration for Memphis at a local fast food restaurant, the two began to argue. Shane said his main source of frustration stemmed from the fact that Maggie paid more attention to the children than she did to him. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Shane and Maggie argued in their car. Maggie's inability to devote as much attention to Shane as she devoted to her children became a constant source of strife between the two.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blta21df9d5a7e6a5da/698761bd2dce0179089db097/photographer-as-witness-16.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane and Maggie argued in their car. Maggie's inability to devote as much attention to Shane as she devoted to her children became a constant source of strife between the two. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie and Shane took a rare night out alone together, singing karaoke at a local bar.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt60f49b8d0c096246/698761be06f2c1783433179e/photographer-as-witness-17.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie and Shane took a rare night out alone together, singing karaoke at a local bar. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![After a night out at a local bar, Maggie left after becoming jealous of when another woman flirted with Shane. Upon arriving home, Shane flew into a rage, angry that Maggie had "abandoned him" at the bar and then drove home with his friend, whose house t](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt6e32ea60f38147d8/698761bef887dc5cd4e879d9/photographer-as-witness-18.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

After a night out at a local bar, Maggie left after becoming jealous of when another woman flirted with Shane. Upon arriving home, Shane flew into a rage, angry that Maggie had "abandoned him" at the bar and then drove home with his friend, whose house they were staying at for the week. Maggie told him to get out of the house, that he was too angry and that he would wake the children. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Rather than subsiding, Shane's anger began to grow, and he screamed that Maggie had betrayed him, at one point accusing his friend \(not pictured\) of trying to pursue her sexually.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltc0b16d44fa882141/698761be5f570fb9d5b12d46/photographer-as-witness-19.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Rather than subsiding, Shane's anger began to grow, and he screamed that Maggie had betrayed him, at one point accusing his friend (not pictured) of trying to pursue her sexually. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![At one point, Shane picked Maggie up and flung her back into the kitchen as she tried to run out of the room.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt94fd0912876ebf23/698761bf35ba6f74e4c048d1/photographer-as-witness-20.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

At one point, Shane picked Maggie up and flung her back into the kitchen as she tried to run out of the room. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![As the fight continued to rage, Shane told Maggie that she could choose between getting beaten in the kitchen, or going with him to the basement so they could talk privately.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blta39568761babdebd/698761bfa988ca50666a9ec0/photographer-as-witness-21.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

As the fight continued to rage, Shane told Maggie that she could choose between getting beaten in the kitchen, or going with him to the basement so they could talk privately. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![When Maggie refused, Shane began grabbing her by the face and neck, choking her. "You can either get beat up here, or we can go talk alone," he said. "Your choice."](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt278ffde2485bdd7d/698761bfcd684827ea097338/photographer-as-witness-22.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

When Maggie refused, Shane began grabbing her by the face and neck, choking her. "You can either get beat up here, or we can go talk alone," he said. "Your choice." Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![As Shane and Maggie continued to fight, Memphis ran into the room and refused to leave Maggie's side. She witnessed the majority of the assault on her mother. As the two fought, Memphis began to scream and stomp her feet.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0d7917e5827b7c94/698761c0a988cad3436a9ec4/photographer-as-witness-23.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

As Shane and Maggie continued to fight, Memphis ran into the room and refused to leave Maggie's side. She witnessed the majority of the assault on her mother. As the two fought, Memphis began to scream and stomp her feet. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Shane continued to scream in Maggie's face as Memphis wedged herself between them. At some point, the toddler had stopped crying and began trying to soothe her weeping mother.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbd2955fa9bc3e36f/698761c00b72e378096db22d/photographer-as-witness-24.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane continued to scream in Maggie's face as Memphis wedged herself between them. At some point, the toddler had stopped crying and began trying to soothe her weeping mother. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Around half past midnight, the police arrived after receiving a call from a resident in the house \(pictured at right\). Maggie cried and smoked a cigarette as an officer from the Lancaster Police Department tried to keep her separated from Shane and coax ](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt440cc0bb06a13f01/698761c00b72e3570b6db231/photographer-as-witness-25.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Around half past midnight, the police arrived after receiving a call from a resident in the house (pictured at right). Maggie cried and smoked a cigarette as an officer from the Lancaster Police Department tried to keep her separated from Shane and coax out the truth about the assault. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Shane hugged Memphis goodbye before being arrested. He insisted he wasn't a bad person and that Maggie had been trying to leave the house and drive drunk with the children in the car.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2314b00eb31d060c/698761c13c1639ec8d44f26e/photographer-as-witness-26.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane hugged Memphis goodbye before being arrested. He insisted he wasn't a bad person and that Maggie had been trying to leave the house and drive drunk with the children in the car. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Shane pled with Maggie not to let the police take him into custody, crying out, "Please, Maggie, I love you, don't let them take me, tell them I didn't do this\!"](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltfd989af8b3afd23e/698761c1e53aba43374d527e/photographer-as-witness-27.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Shane pled with Maggie not to let the police take him into custody, crying out, "Please, Maggie, I love you, don't let them take me, tell them I didn't do this!" Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![An officer from the Lancaster Police Department photographed the bruises on Maggie's neck from where Shane had choked her. "You know, he's not going to stop," the officer told Maggie as she wept. "They never stop. They usually stop when they kill you."](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blte6e659d8c2f88c34/698761c1f887dc3e2ee879e2/photographer-as-witness-28.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

An officer from the Lancaster Police Department photographed the bruises on Maggie's neck from where Shane had choked her. "You know, he's not going to stop," the officer told Maggie as she wept. "They never stop. They usually stop when they kill you." Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Convincing Maggie to be examined and sign a protection order took a great deal of coaxing from the officer. "I don't want to get him in trouble," she wept. "You aren't getting him into trouble. He got himself into trouble. I know Shane. He's a good guy, ](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt712fe98b3fa390f3/698761c206f2c173643317a8/photographer-as-witness-29.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Convincing Maggie to be examined and sign a protection order took a great deal of coaxing from the officer. "I don't want to get him in trouble," she wept. "You aren't getting him into trouble. He got himself into trouble. I know Shane. He's a good guy, but he knows better than to do this," the officer replied. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Overwhelmed by her nerves and the shock of the abuse she suffered, Maggie became sick to her stomach.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt3f37da08ac202ba8/698761c2428a9ec662cc4a1f/photographer-as-witness-30.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Overwhelmed by her nerves and the shock of the abuse she suffered, Maggie became sick to her stomach. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Maggie tried to pull herself together as she prepared to drive with her children to her best friend's house for the night.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt1b2663b24b1bdbbe/698761c2524fc05c27de9f47/photographer-as-witness-31.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie tried to pull herself together as she prepared to drive with her children to her best friend's house for the night. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Kayden, who had slept through the assault, was disoriented and began to cry when he awoke. Memphis remained calm and seemed mostly concerned with comforting her mother. "Don't cry mommy, I love you," she said over and over.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2c3272a8e36d866b/698761c33c1639c91d44f274/photographer-as-witness-32.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Kayden, who had slept through the assault, was disoriented and began to cry when he awoke. Memphis remained calm and seemed mostly concerned with comforting her mother. "Don't cry mommy, I love you," she said over and over. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie wept on her best friend Amy's sofa after the attack. "I hate him so much," she whispered.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt62ace4d230c81265/698761c355a859208ea83546/photographer-as-witness-33.jpg?branch=production&width=1440&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie wept on her best friend Amy's sofa after the attack. "I hate him so much," she whispered. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![The day following the attack, Maggie had to grapple with what would come next for her and her children. She had no source of income, no childcare, and was afraid to return to the home she and Shane shared to retrieve her possessions. She expressed intens](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt3e85d6d4c5d866d1/698761c3428a9ebf4fcc4a23/photographer-as-witness-34.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

The day following the attack, Maggie had to grapple with what would come next for her and her children. She had no source of income, no childcare, and was afraid to return to the home she and Shane shared to retrieve her possessions. She expressed intense fear that Shane would be let out on bail and come after her, and called the jail several times to make sure he hadn't been released. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie sat in front of her best friend Amy's house and smoked the morning after the assault, while Kayden and Amy's daughter Olivia, age 3, played in the window.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2d0237fcfeb8ee66/698761c4e20a876984a828fe/photographer-as-witness-35.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie sat in front of her best friend Amy's house and smoked the morning after the assault, while Kayden and Amy's daughter Olivia, age 3, played in the window. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Memphis sat on the floor of her aunt's home crying for Maggie after having woken up from a nap. She witnessed most of the attack on her mother. "I want her to know that it's not okay for someone to treat you that way, that you don't ever deserve to be tr](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt62b37ae11d74954c/698761c4cd68487cba097340/photographer-as-witness-36.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Memphis sat on the floor of her aunt's home crying for Maggie after having woken up from a nap. She witnessed most of the attack on her mother. "I want her to know that it's not okay for someone to treat you that way, that you don't ever deserve to be treated that way," Maggie said. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![In the days following the attack, Maggie had time to reflect on what had occurred and decided to make an official statement to the police. She said she had resumed communications with her estranged husband and the father of her children, and was consider](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt6e60bcd6b47a75cb/698761c4a988ca58656a9ec9/photographer-as-witness-37.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

In the days following the attack, Maggie had time to reflect on what had occurred and decided to make an official statement to the police. She said she had resumed communications with her estranged husband and the father of her children, and was considering moving with her children to Alaska, where he is stationed with the Army. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Overwhelmed by frustration at a long flight delay, as well as by the prospect of transporting two small children all the way to Anchorage, Maggie closed her eyes and tried to calm herself down. Her grandfather had been given special permission by the air](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt10e6029a09488a12/698761c535ba6fa73bc048dc/photographer-as-witness-38.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Overwhelmed by frustration at a long flight delay, as well as by the prospect of transporting two small children all the way to Anchorage, Maggie closed her eyes and tried to calm herself down. Her grandfather had been given special permission by the airport to come to the gate to help her care for Memphis and Kayden. After a flight delay that lasted several hours, they were told the flight had been cancelled and were sent home. They flew to Anchorage the following day. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Memphis stood in front of an illuminated advertisement at the Port Columbus International Airport, waiting to fly to Alaska with her mother and brother to be with her father. Memphis' father is a soldier who is currently stationed in Anchorage. "I want u](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt723c5a0005db3fa2/698761c5428a9efb52cc4a2b/photographer-as-witness-39.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Memphis stood in front of an illuminated advertisement at the Port Columbus International Airport, waiting to fly to Alaska with her mother and brother to be with her father. Memphis' father is a soldier who is currently stationed in Anchorage. "I want us to be a family again," Maggie said. "\[He\] has been so understanding about everything, he wants to take care of us. I'm really lucky." Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Maggie and Memphis, March 3, 2013. More than three months since the assault, Maggie has moved her family to Alaska to try to repair her marriage and give the children a chance to be closer to their father. Maggie and her husband met at 14. She said theyÕ](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt27e527cbbe0948f3/698761c5428a9e2fd1cc4a2f/photographer-as-witness-40.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie and Memphis, March 3, 2013\. More than three months since the assault, Maggie has moved her family to Alaska to try to repair her marriage and give the children a chance to be closer to their father. Maggie and her husband met at 14\. She said theyÕd been on and off since eighth grade, yet they always seem to find their way back to one another. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie and Kayden, four, share a moment in the apartment they now share with Maggie's husband, Zane.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt876c9c50d52f9053/698761c68e06011a10457d03/photographer-as-witness-41.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie and Kayden, four, share a moment in the apartment they now share with Maggie's husband, Zane. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Because of his deployment and his period of separation from Maggie, Zane had only met his daughter Memphis once before she moved into his home in Alaska. He has embraced his new responsibilities as a father.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt55d2231cb886abdb/698761c63c163934f644f27d/photographer-as-witness-42.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Because of his deployment and his period of separation from Maggie, Zane had only met his daughter Memphis once before she moved into his home in Alaska. He has embraced his new responsibilities as a father. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz


![Kayden’s relationship with his father was diametrically opposed to his relationship with Shane. The two acted like playmates, but Zane had very few problems getting Kayden to respect his role as a parental figure. “He just respects Zane,” Maggie said of ](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbec41bcd61b837e4/698761c6e20a8754dfa82903/photographer-as-witness-43.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Kayden’s relationship with his father was diametrically opposed to his relationship with Shane. The two acted like playmates, but Zane had very few problems getting Kayden to respect his role as a parental figure. “He just respects Zane,” Maggie said of Kayden. “He didn’t respect Shane. He never really liked him.” Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![Maggie sat on the bathroom floor and cried after arguing with Zane. The two had fought with some regularity over her relationship with Shane, and although he had said he forgave her, Zane often had a difficult time letting go of his resentment. “I’m tire](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt00f9331a0eea69e3/698761c78e06015e5c457d0b/photographer-as-witness-44.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

Maggie sat on the bathroom floor and cried after arguing with Zane. The two had fought with some regularity over her relationship with Shane, and although he had said he forgave her, Zane often had a difficult time letting go of his resentment. “I’m tired of apologizing,” Maggie said. “\[Zane\] cheated on me, I left him. It was a mistake. But when does it get easier?” Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

![The couple had argued the previous evening, and in an apparent attempt to make amends, Zane had offered to paint Maggie's toenails. They didn't exchange many words, and they didn't discuss the argument or offer apologies or excuses — they simply sat toge](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt940bb5cf94cc6a5f/698761c78e06012a0b457d07/photographer-as-witness-45.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

The couple had argued the previous evening, and in an apparent attempt to make amends, Zane had offered to paint Maggie's toenails. They didn't exchange many words, and they didn't discuss the argument or offer apologies or excuses — they simply sat together as a movie played in the background. Sara Naomi Lewkowiczi Lewkowicz—Sara Lewkowicz


![The morning after their argument, Maggie and Zane embraced in bed. The two have a host of trust issues to work through, as well as their own traumas to move past. "We've been together since we were 14," Maggie said. "It's hard not to have baggage after s](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt985cd44729dbfab7/698761c735ba6f7768c048e0/photographer-as-witness-46.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp)

The morning after their argument, Maggie and Zane embraced in bed. The two have a host of trust issues to work through, as well as their own traumas to move past. "We've been together since we were 14," Maggie said. "It's hard not to have baggage after six years." Maggie is hopeful that she and Zane will be able to move past their problems, saying that somehow, they've always managed to find their way back to each other. Sara Naomi Lewkowicz

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