--- title: 'The Affair' on Showtime Is the Sound of Puppies Drowning description: 'The Affair' is emotional like how we used to be—now everyone is on Facebook and on Prozac... and dead inside. canonical: https://time.com/3643162/the-affair-is-the-sound-of-puppies-drowning-and-we-cant-stop-listening/ author: Elizabeth Wurtzel article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2014-12-21T14:57:00.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-02-22T03:02:32.303Z article:section: Ideas og:title: 'The Affair' Is the Sound of Puppies Drowning—and We Can't Stop Listening og:description: 'The Affair' is emotional like how we used to be—now everyone is on Facebook and on Prozac... and dead inside. og:url: https://time.com/3643162/the-affair-is-the-sound-of-puppies-drowning-and-we-cant-stop-listening/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4cc7cced3a1b0efe/6987704706f2c1e111333076/the-affair-showtime.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 3600 og:image:height: 2025 og:image:alt: the-affair-showtime og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: 'The Affair' Is the Sound of Puppies Drowning—and We Can't Stop Listening twitter:description: 'The Affair' is emotional like how we used to be—now everyone is on Facebook and on Prozac... and dead inside. twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt4cc7cced3a1b0efe/6987704706f2c1e111333076/the-affair-showtime.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # 'The Affair' Is the Sound of Puppies Drowning—and We Can't Stop Listening > Sponsored content. 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Absolutely everything about _The Affair_ is too much, which must be its appeal. It is a bubble bath of bathos. The white waves break in Ditch Plain, and on the shore someone is screaming or crying or having sex on a trapeze. (Okay, I lied about the last thing—but the show has been renewed for another season, so here’s hoping.) Of course, this is nothing at all like how we live now. No one is this this emotional anymore. _The Affair_ is a lot like how we used to be, maybe in the last century. Now everyone is on Facebook and on Prozac—and dead inside. Which is probably a good thing—certainly it is better than epidemic road rage. Consider the way things go when everyone is out at the same time, like on Black Friday. On days like that, when many people have little control over their behavior, it seems good that psychotropic medication and online living have become so prevalent. But we are nostalgic for everything, including pain. Enter _The Affair_: on Sunday night at 10 p.m., there will be spiraling. As a portrait of an extramarital relationship, _The Affair_ is accurate in the worst ways. The two cheaters are the lesser halves of their respective marriages, and it is resentment that has led them down the primrose path. Alison is a failed nurse who is now a waitress, and Noah is a failed novelist who can’t even teach “Romeo and Juliet” to ninth graders like he knows what love is. After a brief encounter in a diner—yes, the writers of _The Affair_ settled on that gin joint—Alison and Noah are obsessed like Capulets and Montagues. It happens like kaboom. Or like desperation. But people cheat because they can and they will and they do. _The Affair_ does not make excuses for the affair. It does not even make excuses for the attraction. It shows every situation twice—he says, she says—and both ways all you get is that they are in it for the mess. Don’t try to explain why people do wrong for fun. There: I just explained it. The usual checks and balances don’t exist to stop Noah and Alison. The dialogue can be characterized as bad advice alternated with worse advice. Both Noah’s daughter and Alison’s mother-in-law are sociopaths, and only some of the children’s clothes are imported from France to Brooklyn. The only character on _The Affair_ who seems to have principles is Cole, Alison’s husband, but he also happens to be running a drug-smuggling operation disguised as a horse stable. There is no one who is just an okay person on _The Affair_. Everyone is lousy. Dominic West played Jimmy McNulty on _The Wire_, and McNulty was lousy. Really lousy. As a guy, Jimmy McNulty was worse than Noah Solloway. But McNulty had a mission. He was natural police. He was a man with a job he cared about. A lot. His wretched personal life was a sideshow that the audience forgave—mostly—because McNulty was cleaning up Baltimore one perp at a time like it mattered. There was a time when television was about relationships mostly, but then the best TV was suddenly about work. Lately, whether it’s _Mad Men_ or _The Good Wife_, people are more substantial accomplishing than emoting. We prefer it. We prefer it the way we prefer that life be less messy, which is why we conduct so much of it on a screen. But somehow, when we are reminded of how raw we can be—and how ridiculous it is—we watch _The Affair_ as obsessively as the characters behave. We want to do wrong for fun. _Elizabeth Wurtzel is the author of_ [Prozac Nation](http://www.amazon.com/Prozac-Nation-Elizabeth-Wurtzel/dp/1573225126)_,_ [Bitch](http://www.amazon.com/Bitch-In-Praise-Difficult-Women/dp/0385484011/ref=pd%5Fsim%5Fb%5F2?ie=UTF8&refRID=0CQ07D42QVPZKQDEN7YZ) _and_ [More, Now, Again](http://www.amazon.com/More-Now-Again-Memoir-Addiction/dp/0743223314)_. 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