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# The #1 Way to Easily Improve All Your Relationships

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by 

[Eric Barker](https://time.com/author/eric-barker/)


## Eric Barker


Nov 26, 2014 5:01 AM UTC

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## Eric Barker


Nov 26, 2014 5:01 AM UTC

Just try.

Put a small amount of conscious effort into trying to be a better friend, spouse, whatever.

That’s it.

Sounds ridiculous but research shows:

* Improving any relationship is as easy as [actively showing interest in the other person](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/how-to-easily-be-more-likable-and-make-people) or [sharing with them.](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/how-to-improve-your-relationship-in-5-seconds)

* Pretending time with a romantic partner was a first date makes it [more enjoyable for you](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/another-way-to-easily-improve-your-relationsh) and [for your partner](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/whats-a-quick-way-to-improve-our-relationship). Why? On first dates we make an effort to impress.

* Racists actually make a better first impression on minorities than non-racists do. Why? Because they have to try to not act racist and [the effort makes them come off better than someone who doesn’t have to try](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/do-racists-make-a-better-first-impressions-th).

* Worried that all this is fake and contrived? Relax. Putting your best face forward [actually reveals your true self](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/does-putting-your-best-self-forward-reveal-yo).

**_This piece originally appeared on_** [**_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/05/whats-an-absurdly-easy-way-to-improve-all-you/)**_._**

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