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# The Secret to Telling if Your Life is on Track


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Nov 4, 2014 5:01 AM CUT

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Sir Ray Avery, entrepreneur and author of [Rebel With A Cause](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1459630386/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&tag=spacforrent-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1459630386 "undefined"), says it’s as easy as counting your days.

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He’s 65\. So he’s “_got about 5,625 days to live._” Then he just works backward to plan.

Via [Techcrunch](http://techcrunch.com/2012/12/11/sir-ray-avery-nz-makes-you-dangerous/ "undefined") (HT: [99U](https://twitter.com/99u/status/284053978428370944 "undefined")):

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Mind-blowingly simple yet it makes so much sense.

9 minutes in to his famous Stanford commencement speech Steve Jobs discussed the importance he placed on thinking about death during life:

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And scientists agree he’s on to something. Thinking about death [really does help us prioritize and be better people](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/04/was-steve-jobs-right-can-thinking-about-death/ "undefined").

Candy Chang gave an inspirational TED talk about a project that asked people to finish the sentence: “Before I die I want to…”

I’d love to write more but I’ve got less than 20,000 days left. So much to do…

**_This piece originally appeared on_** [**_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/12/easiest-effective-plans-life/ "undefined")**_._**

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