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# My Gender-Neutral Childhood: Lessons in Raising Girls Who Succeed in Tech

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## Video: Cracking The Girl Code

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_Published 2014-07-31. A program is trying to address low employment rates of women in the technology industry by attacking the issue at its source: Education. 'Girls Who Code' teaches young women computer science, in order to reverse the decline of women in the field._


by 

[Kira Makagon](https://time.com/author/kira-makagon/)


## Kira Makagon


Aug 1, 2014 1:10 PM UTC

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Kira Makagon as a child

Kira Makagon as a child Courtesy Kira Makagon

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[Kira Makagon](https://time.com/author/kira-makagon/)


## Kira Makagon


Aug 1, 2014 1:10 PM UTC

Raised as the only child of Ukrainian immigrants, I never thought much about my childhood. It was certainly different from the way most of the other American kids I met grew up, and in a lot of ways, it seemed harder. (Imagine the wardrobe dilemmas of an immigrant teenager in 1980s San Francisco coming from a Soviet-bloc country, for instance.)

Lately though, I’ve been getting a lot of pointed questions about my upbringing: Did you play with Legos? Did you always love math? Were you allowed to study art, history and literature? The reason for the curiosity is clear. As a female tech entrepreneur in a predominantly male industry, people are interested in how my environment encouraged my academic and professional path toward technical learning.

More than ever, parents of young children are concerned about how to enable their children to succeed in a world where traditional occupations and industries have been upended by technology. Parents of girls especially worry that the best jobs will go to graduates who master science, math and technology education (the so-called STEM disciplines), which tend to attract more boys. We’ve all seen the media stories about the unemployed philosophy majors.

Recognizing that every child is different, I do believe that there are certain elements of my unconventional upbringing that prepared me to be comfortable and happy building a career in a technical field. All parents pour their hopes and dreams into their children, but I now know my parents invested in me in the right ways. From early on, they provided me with the right tools to continue developing myself as an older child, teenager and into adulthood. Based on my experience, below are my top five takeaways on how to prepare a child (and especially a girl) to be prepared for a technical career.


**1\. Choose gender-neutral toys.**

My parents did not encourage dolls, and I didn’t gravitate to them. I liked Legos and building things. My father was an engineer who designed toys in Russia. He and I would build miniature models of houses. We built whole cities with railroads and cars. The floor of my room was always crowded with our playthings.

**2\. Encourage sports, and not just girls-only teams.**

I liked all kinds of sports. When I was younger, it was bicycles, badminton and ping-pong. I was always fast — faster than most boys early on. I loved ice skating, and because I was very fast, I could play hockey with boys. For this reason, I always had a lot of friends who were boys. I grew up comfortable around boys, confident in my natural ability and with very little fear.

**3\. Treat your sons and daughters as individuals, not as gender stereotypes.**

As an only child, my parents gave me lots of attention and treated me purely as an individual — not like a stereotypical girl. My dad treated me the same as he would any son. We played hockey together, and he took me to sporting events.


**4\. Emphasize the importance of leadership at an early age.**

My mother, a Russian-literature teacher, encouraged me to be a class leader and participate in class (even if I found the lessons boring). She and I had long talks about leadership. She impressed upon me the need to excel in school. Even a B was unacceptable. I became class president in elementary school and learned to enjoy leading others.

**5\. Pursue music, chess and logic problems.** 

I practiced piano for two hours a day, loved the math olympiad and enjoyed solving logic problems in my spare time. These weren’t treated as nerdy or antisocial, but as valid and valuable pursuits to develop my mind and capabilities.

[**READ MORE: Cracking the Girl Code — Tech Giants Are Betting on Coding Camps for Girls to Close Their Gender Gap** ](http://time.com/3062885/girls-who-code-google-facebook/?pcd=hp-magmod)

_Makagon leads product, engineering and operations teams at_ [_RingCentral,_](http://www.ringcentral.com/) _the cloud-based business phone company, where she is Executive Vice President of Innovation. She is a Silicon Valley–based serial entrepreneur who has co-founded several technology companies, including Octane (acquired by E.piphany) and RedAril (acquired by Hearst). Follow her_ [_@kiramakagon_](https://twitter.com/kiramakagon)



## Transcript

When I thought about coding I felt like nerd. Guy. Impossible. Isolated. Inaccessible. Boring. Not for me. It is sad that those are the words that I would associate with coding. Which is why I'm really happy that I had this opportunity to change such a stereotype mind. [ UNKNOWN ] Coding has always been really foreign, and it's, I've been told, I guess by male guys, like, oh Riya, you're going to be a doctor, like I guarantee you're not going to be a good coder. Someone said that to me before I started this program. And I told them well, I'm gonna prove you wrong. [ MUSIC ] In 2010 I was running for office and would visit schools.

And would see 100 boys in a robotics lab and then one girl in the basement of the church at a school in Queens using a computer that was 10 years old. And as we're becoming more digitally engaged, and as technology has become more prestigious, we are pushing women out. And I wanted to do something about it, and that's why I started Girls Who Code. [ MUSIC ] In the back of my mind, I've always wanted to learn how to code, but for some reason like I was too scared. to code. Working in class of like 19 guys. So when I saw that it was like girls who code, I immediately like, this is what I wanted to do over the summer.

So, Grace Hopper is responsible is for all of programming. That's woman. Coding is like learning how to read or write. It's being able to take an idea in your head and put it down and make it into. Into something real. There's very few subject where a girl can come in knowing nothing and when she leaves she can say I can solve this problem. I mean, that's empowering. You're creating your own puzzle using several puzzle pieces. And you try to put it together to create your own pattern. It requires a lot of creative thinking and a lot of, I guess, motivation. You know, you have to keep pushing forward.

Like, right now we're working on a game. And we have been trying to get this the one button to work for the past half an hour. And once I figured out what, what went wrong and once I solved the problem, I was so happy and so excited that I could do this. And I could solve the problem. And I could make it better. [ MUSIC ] Computer sciences needs to disrupted because it's not just women. It's, you know, Latinos and African Americans and just all different kinds of people. People who like sports should be taking more computer science and, you know, and they're not. I think what Girls Who Code is trying to do is disrupt the way that computer science is taught.

We ask all of our girls to build a project. And when I looked at what they wanted to build. They wanted to build an algorithm to help detect false positives in breast cancer. Testing. They wanted to build a product to help fight obesity because a family member was obese. I would love to be in [ UNKNOWN ] and I think Cody has the ability to change any surgeon operates in terms of prosthetics or transplant. I mean, these are the problems that they wanna solve and that's why it's so important because we don't even know what solutions. Finding because women don't have access to technology skills.

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