June 18, 2014 10:18 AM EDT

Taylor Swift may not love dudes dieting, but the singer absolutely adores her fans. Justifying all of our delusions that she’s our real life best friend, Swift has been leaving incredibly nice, off-the-cuff comments on her fans’ Instagrams.

While it is incredibly easy to chalk this up as a publicity stunt…

This has quietly been going on for months. Here’s one from May 1:

She’s invested in her fans’ relationships:

And their health:

Swift is just a normal 20-something who gets social media in an unscripted, organic way. Stars, they’re just like us!

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