--- title: The Surprising Science Behind Earthshakingly Wonderful Friendships description: Excerpts from my interview with Carlin Flora, author of Friendfluence: The Surprising Ways Friends Make Us Who We Are. Not Having Enough Friends Can Kill... canonical: https://time.com/2829401/the-surprising-science-behind-earthshakingly-wonderful-friendships/ author: TIME Staff article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2014-06-06T04:01:23.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:54:12.940Z article:section: Ideas og:title: The Surprising Science Behind Earthshakingly Wonderful Friendships og:description: Excerpts from my interview with Carlin Flora, author of Friendfluence: The Surprising Ways Friends Make Us Who We Are. 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A paid TIME subscription is separate and available at time.com/subscribe-agent. by [TIME Staff](https://time.com/author/time-staff/) ## TIME Staff Jun 6, 2014 4:01 AM UTC  Women laughing together on boat Women laughing together on boat Blend Images - Colin Anderson—Getty Images/Brand X by [TIME Staff](https://time.com/author/time-staff/) ## TIME Staff Jun 6, 2014 4:01 AM UTC Excerpts from my interview with Carlin Flora, author of [Friendfluence: The Surprising Ways Friends Make Us Who We Are](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B009UBQU04/?tag=spacforrent-20). ## **Not Having Enough Friends Can Kill You** Carlin Flora: --- > “” --- ## **Friends Know You Better Than You Know Yourself** Carlin Flora: --- > “” --- ## **The Biggest Mistake You Make With Friendships** Carlin Flora: --- > “” --- ## **What Books Do You Recommend?** --- > “” --- ## **The Number One Tip For Improving Your Friendships** Carlin Flora: --- > “” --- More on improving friendships and making friends [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2013/11/how-to-make-friends-easily/). **Join 45K+ readers.** Get a free weekly update via email [here](http://eepurl.com/o6uAD). 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