--- title: Being Skinny Won't Solve Your Problems Body Image Plus Size description: No one will ever have a perfect life, skinny or not canonical: https://time.com/2815649/skinny-solve-problems/ author: TIME article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2014-06-03T11:00:53.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:55:24.297Z og:title: Being Skinny Won't Solve Your Problems og:description: No one will ever have a perfect life, skinny or not og:url: https://time.com/2815649/skinny-solve-problems/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt6354b6473e12850e/698695f5adae4446ee54385d/87142025.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 3567 og:image:height: 2006 og:image:alt: 87142025 og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Being Skinny Won't Solve Your Problems twitter:description: No one will ever have a perfect life, skinny or not twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt6354b6473e12850e/698695f5adae4446ee54385d/87142025.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Will Being Skinny Solve All My Problems? > Sponsored content. 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In junior high, the fantasy was simple: I would come back to school skinny, my crush would fall in love with me, and my life would be perfect. In the high school fantasy, I would come back to school skinny, my crush would fall in love with me, I’d get the lead part in the school play, _and then_ my life would be perfect. Through college, the fantasy changed, but the template remained the same: get skinny, blah blah blah, and my life would be perfect. The idea that skinny meant having a perfect life was a silent mantra that I would affirm as I watched my more slender friends experience major (and, sometimes very minor) milestones that seemed to allude me. If I were skinny, he would have bought me a drink. If I were skinny, I could shop there, too. If I were skinny, I would have gotten that job. (**MORE**: [Is There Such A Thing As Being Fat And Fit?](http://www.refinery29.com/fat-and-fit?utm%5Fsource=time&utm%5Fmedium=syndication&utm%5Fcampaign=related)) Then, a random night out changed everything. I was invited to a [BBW club](http://www.plussizeprincess.com/?s=BBW) in NYC. A BBW club is bar-slash-night club specifically for big girls and the men who are attracted to them. Walking into the club, my weight was a non-factor because all of the women were plus-size. I began to see myself in a completely different light: Instead of standing on the wall silently apologizing for being a big girl, I was confidently dancing, talking to people, and generally having a great time. It might seem ridiculous, but I felt like the night had endless possibilities — this was the perfect life I’d been imagining. That’s when it hit me: The only variable that had changed was my issue with my weight. When I stopped acting like a perfect life was only accessible to the non-existent Skinny CeCe, my perfect life began to open up. (**MORE**: [3 New Kale Recipes For A Summer Detox](http://www.refinery29.com/kale-recipes?utm%5Fsource=time&utm%5Fmedium=syndication&utm%5Fcampaign=related)) I always say you shouldn’t wait on your weight, because for a long time, I fell into the habit of believing life would open up to me if only I’d lost a few dozen pounds. There were so many things that I was saving for my “perfect life,” and so many things that I thought that only Skinny CeCe could do — and feeling confident was _definitely_ one of them. But, I had been waiting on Skinny CeCe to show up since I was a pre-teen. And frankly, she was late, and I had things to do, so I began to do them. I forced myself to address why I hid behind my extra pounds (read: It was an easy excuse for why things weren’t working out for me). and I started a plus-size dating blog. I experiment with my style on my YouTube channel, and I go on travel excursions. Even better? I’ve since given myself permission to live a healthy lifestyle without the pressure of being thin (which, coincidentally enough, actually lead to me losing 55 pounds). (**MORE**: [Introducing The Anti-Diet Project: It’s On](http://www.refinery29.com/anti-diet-project?utm%5Fsource=time&utm%5Fmedium=syndication&utm%5Fcampaign=related)) No one will ever have a perfect life, skinny or not. I had to realize that outside of my weight, I had too much to be thankful for to keep myself boxed in. Letting go of the idea that my life couldn’t begin until I lost weight got me closer to perfection than I’ve ever been. 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