I Paid Off $45,000 in Debt as a Stay-at-Home Dad

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My family went from cash broke to debt-free in less than 5 years.

Who would have thought that getting laid off from my job could have been one of the best things that ever happened to me and my family?

Of course, it would have been hard to say that seven years ago, when we were going through the lowest point financially in our lives.

It was February 2009, and I was a casualty of the recession. I had lost my job in financial sales in St. Paul, Minn., which turned my wife, Rickele, into the sole breadwinner and me the caretaker to our two young children.

Although I had seen the writing on the wall, it didn’t lessen the sting when I finally got the pink slip.

What followed were a lot of sleepless nights, when Rickele and I would stay up late discussing how we were going to keep paying the bills.

It was during this time, however, that our family’s relationship to money started to change: We realized we had to stop stressing about the income we didn’t have—and start learning to better manage what we did have.

To accomplish that, we needed to set goals, establish principles, and follow rules that reflected our new money values and would help keep our financial house in order.

What started as a few scribbled notes on paper evolved into a full financial framework that would eventually help us get out of debt, start a business—and even go on to help others just like us.

Paying the Price for a Marriage Built on Poor Financial Decisions

Our financial troubles didn’t start in 2009. Truth is, we’d been making bad money moves for a while—and not because we were big spenders.

We simply weren’t informed enough to make smart decisions. And when you combine that with a tough job market, you have a recipe for disaster.

For example, Rickele and I underestimated the potential impact of our adjustable rate mortgage (ARM).

Back in 2007, I was working as a mortgage consultant, which was a lucrative gig until the market began to tank. It was clear to me that I needed to look for another job—not only because lenders were closing their doors, but also because we were expecting our second child right around the time our ARM interest rate was to reset.

That would spike our payments from about $1,100 to $1,800 a month, which we couldn’t afford. We tried to sell but had no takers. We tried to refinance but couldn’t get a deal.

In fact, I remember being on the phone with our mortgage company at the hospital, trying to negotiate a payment plan, while my wife was in labor. We ultimately foreclosed, walking away from our home and renting for cheaper.

While I struggled in the mortgage business and my wife was on maternity leave, we started to rely more on our credit cards to cover such basic costs as gas and groceries. As our savings dwindled, we took on even riskier moves—like taking out three high-interest payday loans simultaneously.

All this meant that, by the time I found and lost that job in finance, we were well down a slippery slope—except now we had less than half the income. Could we really survive on unemployment benefits and my wife’s modest income as an ambulatory coordinator at a local hospital?

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Running Our Household Like a Business

Rickele and I had to work as a team to figure out our next steps.

After sharing my idea to abide by money rules to keep us financially accountable, we agreed that our overarching principle would be to run our household like a business.

That meant we had to track where all of our money was going, so we could cut costs and eliminate waste.

For starters, we agreed that I should be a stay-at-home dad for a while to immediately free up $500 a month in child care for our daughter, Morgan, then 2, and son, Jalen, then 7. We’d also save on gas costs, since I wouldn’t be commuting.

We also cut out all discretionary costs. No fast food, work lunches or happy hours. And we pulled the kids out of after-school sports and dance classes, which was met with some grumbling.

But one of our rules was that the entire household had to be involved—even the members who were too young to understand why our life needed to change.

Another rule? We could only shop with a list to eliminate impulse purchases.

To adhere to that, we met as a family once a month to plan our meals and grocery list. Jalen and Morgan enjoyed this because they liked having a say in the menu.

The big goals we had to tackle: Get out of debt and improve our credit. Between our credit cards, payday loans, student loans and auto loans, we were more than $45,000 in the hole. Rickele and I made a goal to pay that all off in five years.

Our strict spending would prevent us from adding to our credit card bill, but we still needed to tackle the balances we had—which were in judgment. I negotiated a $500 monthly payment with the credit card companies, which helped us pay off those balances in about three years.

During my “Super Dad” years, I was also trying to ramp up my career from the kitchen table.

The same month I was laid off, I’d received my insurance license, anticipating that I’d need a new career. But meeting clients was hard to do with a 2-year-old tagging along—there were times when McDonald’s PlayPlace subbed as my conference room.

Still, selling the occasional insurance policy provided much needed money—and gave a nod to one of my other rules: Create multiple streams of income.

It all paid off: We went from cash broke to debt-free in less than five years.

Turning Personal Experience Into Public Service

I eventually took my musings and expanded them into a bigger framework that included not only financial but life principles, because I believe monetary success is as much about your mind-set as anything else.

I called the whole thing “Wingonomics,” but it wasn’t until my daughter turned 5 that I thought about taking it beyond our four walls.

With Morgan in all-day preschool, I could work on my insurance business full-time, and volunteer at a residential house for women and children, teaching a financial literacy class. It was an opportunity to see if my principles could work for others.

Well, I knew it was a hit when people began calling me Mr. Wingonomics.

Life has changed a lot in the few short years since then. I turned Wingonomics into a book, and expanded my business to include other financial services. And Rickele left her job to become a realtor, and help manage the tax-prep part of my business.

Even though our circumstances today are obviously much better than they were seven years ago, we still live by Wingonomics.

We meet every other week as a family to review our spending. Jalen and Morgan, now 13 and 8, get a “commission” for chores, so they can pay for their wants and learn to save. We also tell them to establish personal and financial goals, and they keep a vision board in their rooms of what they want to achieve.

As for me, the big lesson I learned is that it’s not about how much money you make but how much money you keep. And living by our principles reminds me that, ultimately, we were in control of our financial outcome all along.

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5 Reasons Why You Have a Bad Credit Score

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Maybe you're disorganized or maybe you just don't make enough money to cover your expenses.

A few questions for you: First, have you checked your credit score lately? If not, you might want to do that. It’s one of those habits that everyone knows they should do but often forgets to do until something bad happens — like how you only remember to floss after you already have a cavity.

If you haven’t checked your credit score recently, there are many ways to check your credit scores for free. It’s also a good idea to check your credit reports regularly for errors or other problems — and you can get those for free once a year from each of the major credit reporting agencies.

But if you have checked your credit score recently: YAY YOU. Did you like what you saw? If not, there are plenty of reasons your credit score may not be in as good of shape as you would like it to be. But that’s OK, because once you figure out what the issue is, you can get to work on taking care of the problem, and start to build stronger credit.

1. You & Your Spouse Never Talk About Money

If your finances involve more than one spender — i.e. you’re married, or you’re living with a significant other — you should talk about money things. When expectations are out of whack and there’s little communication about who’s handling what, things can get messy and expensive.

Make sure all your bills are paid, otherwise you may end up with collection accounts on your credit reports and damaged credit scores as a result. No matter how you share or divvy up financial responsibilities, you should still communicate about cash flow, because a lack of planning could put you in a situation where you fall into debt (or you’re already in it and haven’t started working your way out of it).

You each have your own credit scores, but don’t underestimate the impact the other’s habits could have on your credit file — if someone overspends, misses a payment or starts racking up debt, your efforts to find financial balance may have credit-score consequences.

2. You’re Disorganized

Tracking your spending is one of the best ways to stay out of debt. It’s easy to think you’re not spending beyond your means if you’re not budgeting, and maybe you are really good at estimating that stuff in your head, but more likely than not, you won’t realize how much things add up until you need to pay a credit card bill and you can’t afford it.

Even if you’re able to afford your spending, keep in mind that it’s ideal to keep your credit card balances as low as possible, relative to your credit card limit. That’s called credit utilization, and it has a huge impact on your credit scores.

Additionally, if you’re so disorganized you keep missing bill deadlines, you may find yourself with a collection account or two. It’s one thing to have a collection account if you really can’t afford to pay your bills, but it’s another if you can afford to pay but aren’t because you’re not paying attention to when they’re due.

3. You Just Don’t Care

Maybe you see your credit score, realize it’s not great and you’re reaction is, “Oh, well.” Perhaps it doesn’t seem worth the trouble of tracking your credit card’s balance-to-limit ratio or to minimize how frequently you apply for new credit, but in the long run, you may find yourself in a situation that requires you to have good credit.

Your credit score comes into play in your life more often than you might think. Yes, a good credit score is ideal if you’re applying for a mortgage or trying to buy a car, but it can also help you get lower insurance premiums, get a new smartphone or set up Internet without having to pay a large deposit. If you’re not sure what’s considered a good credit score, this guide can help you.

4. Someone Else Is Dragging You Down

This applies if you are an authorized user on someone else’s credit card or vice versa: The other person’s spending habits on that card also show up on your credit report as long as the issuer reports it. That can be good if that person is using the card responsibly, but if that changes, you may find yourself tangled up in their problems. It’s the same if you co-signed for a loan and the primary accountholder isn’t doing their part to keep the account in good standing. This is why it’s helpful to carefully consider the risks before you enter into such agreements.

5. You’re Underpaid

Income has no direct bearing on credit scores, but if you’re not making enough money to cover your necessities, it can put you in precarious financial situation. Even if you’re able to pay your bills right now, the slightest emergency or unexpected expense may leave you with little choice but to go into debt or let a bill go unpaid, which could lead to dealing with debt collectors.

People who receive small paychecks can have great credit, and plenty of wealthy people have bad credit, but it’s certainly easier to manage your finances if you have a steady, sufficient income.

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The Financial Literacy Test You Need to Pass

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Answer these 5 questions to find out how much you know about money.

It’s generally useful to be literate in at least one spoken and written language. But that’s not the only kind of literacy that matters. We need to be savvy about managing (and growing!) our money, too. Here’s a financial literacy test that will help you figure out where you are on the road to financial success.

Answer the following questions without reading below them until you’re done:

  1. What is your net worth?
  2. Is it more important to pay off high-interest rate debt or save for retirement first?
  3. When should you start saving for retirement?
  4. How much money will you need to have accumulated for retirement?
  5. Do stocks, bonds, or real estate grow fastest over long periods?

Now let’s review each question and what your answer reveals.

What is your net worth?
There isn’t exactly a right or wrong answer to this question, though an answer of $0 or negative $100,000 would clearly be undesirable. Instead, the way to get this question right is to know what your net worth is, roughly.

Many people have no idea, because they haven’t given much thought to the matter. But as you take control of your finances, and aim to build a comfortable future, it’s important to have a handle on how financially healthy you are.

To determine your net worth, add all your assets together, including cash, savings and investing accounts, and the value of your home, car, and other belongings. Then subtract from that total all your debt, including the balance on any mortgage, car loan, or credit card account. What do you get?

Ideally, your net worth is positive — and poised to grow. If it’s negative, or lower than you want it to be, start figuring out how much money you have coming into your household, where it’s all going, and what changes you might be able to make to boost your net worth.

Is it more important to pay off high-interest rate debt or save for retirement first?
Tackling the debt should be your priority. With pensions having been phased out at myriad companies, it’s more important than ever for us to save for our retirements. But don’t do so while carrying high-interest rate debt, or you’ll likely end up losing ground.

You can hope to earn close to the stock market’s long-term annual average growth rate of around 10% with your stock investments, and that can turn a single $10,000 stub into almost $26,000 in a decade. But if you’re carrying $10,000 in credit card debt and are being charged 25% interest, you can expect that balance to soar to more than $90,000 in a decade, if you don’t pay it off pronto.

It’s OK to maintain low-interest rate debt, such as a mortgage, while saving and investing for retirement; but debt with steep rates should be tackled as soon as possible. Otherwise, what you owe is likely to grow faster than what you own.

When should you start saving for retirement?
The right answer here is as soon as possible. It’s easy to assume that it’s safe to put it off while you’re in your 20s and even 30s, but that would be a big mistake. The later you start saving and investing for retirement, the more aggressive you’ll have to be. If you start at age 45, for example, you’ll have only 20 years to accumulate your nest egg, while someone starting at age 25 will have 40 years — twice as long.

That’s important, because the longer your money has to grow, the faster it can do so. Consider that if you save and invest just $5,000 per year, and it grows at 10% annually, it will become $315,000 in 20 years. That total wouldn’t just be twice as much over 40 years — it would be $2.4 million! If you sock away just $1,200 at age 18 and it grows at 10% for 47 years until age 65, it will top $100,000. Your earliest dollars have the most growth potential.

How much money will you need to have accumulated for retirement? There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here. You’ll probably need to crunch some numbers on your own to arrive at a decent estimate.

For starters, note that, per many experts, a relatively safe annual withdrawal rate from your nest egg in retirement is 4% (adjusted for inflation each year), if you want your money to last. Thus, estimate how much annual income you’d like in retirement, and multiply it by 25 to determine how big a nest egg you need. Want $50,000 annually? Aim for $1.25 million.

Of course, you can also factor in Social Security income and any other expected income. (As of June, the average Social Security benefit was $1,335 per month, or $16,000 per year.) If you earn an above-average income, and assume an annual income of $22,000 from Social Security, then you’ll only have to aim for $28,000 annually on your own, which would mean a nest egg of $700,000.

Do stocks, bonds, or real estate grow fastest over long periods?
The answer here is clear, and it’s stocks. If you don’t understand how much you can expect to earn on various kinds of investments, you can leave thousands or hundreds of thousands of dollars on the table during your investing lifetime.

Check out this data from Wharton Business School professor Jeremy Siegel, who has calculated the average returns for stocks, bonds, bills, gold, and the dollar, between 1802 and 2012:

Asset Class Annualized Nominal Return
Stocks 8.1%
Bonds 5.1%
Bills 4.2%
Gold 2.1%
U.S. Dollar 1.4%

Source: Stocks for the Long Run.

The annualized rate for stocks from 1926 to 2012 was 9.6%, by the way. Stocks overpower bonds over both the long run and — usually — the short run. Siegel’s data shows stocks outperforming bonds in 96% of all 20-year holding periods between 1871 and 2012, and in 99% of all 30-year holding periods.

Meanwhile, the research of Nobel-prize-winning economist Robert Shiller, famous for his studies of the housing market, has home prices averaging annual growth of about 5% in the post-war period since World War II.

Don’t doom yourself to financial illiteracy. Keep reading and learning about smart money management, and your future may be much brighter. Give yourself a financial literacy test every now and then, too, to keep yourself on your toes.

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The Student Loan Problem Nobody Is Talking About

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A hidden culprit for much of our $1.2 trillion student loan debt problem.

Student loan debt isn’t a problem. Having a lot of student loan debt is the problem. That sounds obvious, but it’s a point that’s lost in a lot of discussion involving large numbers like the $1.2 trillion bill being carried around by America’s former students.

Look behind the numbers, and you’ll see that the student loan debt problem – just like the credit card debt problem, or the mortgage debt problem – is multi-faceted. Some people are managing their debt just fine, some aren’t.

For example, despite many claims that student loans are blocking millennials from buying homes, a study by Goldman Sachs last year argued that millennials with average college debt (around $30,000, depending on how you count) are no less likely to get a mortgage than their loan-free peers. That makes sense. Paying down a $30,000 student loan isn’t much different from paying off a car loan. On the other hand, former students with more than $50,000 in debt are considerably less likely to own a home, and those with large debt that eats up a big chunk of their income are much worse off – those who spend more than 10% of their income are 22% less likely to own a home.

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So the problem isn’t debt, it’s unmanageable debt. And not all college debt is created equal. For example, The New York Times recently reported that only 12% of students who graduated from public colleges owed more than $40,000, while 20% of private college graduates did. On the other hand, fully 48% of for-profit college graduates owed more $40,000.

But to find the really stunning student debt numbers – and the heart of the problem — you need to look at students who go on to graduate school.

Median combined college / graduate school debt for someone who earned a degree in 2012 was $57,600 and worse, one-quarter of all grad degree earners had borrowed more than $100,000, according to a paper published last year by the New America Education Policy Program. One in 10 borrowed more than $150,000.

It should come as no surprise that people carrying six-figure student debt balances aren’t taking out mortgages. They are already making what feels like a mortgage payment every month.

Roughly 40% of the $1 trillion-plus outstanding student debt is owned by graduate school students, the paper says

Jason Delisle, who wrote the New America paper, blames skyrocketing graduate school debt on changes to federal loan programs that essentially allow grad students unlimited borrowing. The more students can borrow, the more schools can charge. Recent research linking increased lending limits to tuition inflation suggest he’s right.

“Looking at the debt levels of law school students, for example, there was no significant change in the average amount of debt students graduated with between 2004 ($88,634) and 2008 ($90,052). But by 2012 (after loan limits were raised), the average spiked to $140,616, and the average monthly payment shot up from $760 in 2008 to $1,187 in 2012,” he writes.

In other words, when talking about the $1.2 trillion student loan problem, it might be more specific to talk about the graduate school student loan problem. And it might be possible to focus the discussion even more. A new study released in July from the Center for American Progress (CAP) found that 20 universities received one-fifth of the total amount of loans the government gave graduate students in the 2013-2014 academic year. Those schools educate only 12% of the students, however — and most of them are private, for-profit schools.

So we might think of the student loan problem as the graduate school and for-profit school problem.

Delisle says that’s not quite accurate, however.

“For-profits are a small share of the problem,” he said. His data shows that for-profit schools generate only 10% of the total debt for students who end up owing more than $100,000. For grad students borrowing between $25,000 and $50,000, that number swells to 16% — disproportionate, since graduate schools educate only 8% of students, but still a small slice of a big problem, he said.

“Graduate school debt is driving the big numbers,” he wrote in a post on recently. “Even if lawmakers expunge the system of unscrupulous for-profit colleges, those trends won’t change.”

The danger of graduate school debt comes into focus even more sharply when you consider the surge in graduate school applications that occurred during the Great Recession, when many suddenly unemployed mid-career professionals jumped into graduate schools for a lifeline. Their loans are just starting to come due now.

Of course, big graduate school balances aren’t the only serious problem in the student debt world. College students who drop out face perhaps the biggest obstacles of all – no degree and years of monthly repayments. College graduates with higher-than-average loan balances also face a steep climb. But when you hear horror stories about overwhelming student loan balances, odds are, you are hearing about a former graduate school student.

If you’re having trouble paying your student loans, it’s important to contact the loan servicer to see if you qualify for a relief program (here’s a list of repayment options), or if you can restructure your loans for a more manageable payment. Missing payments, not to mention defaulting, can have a big negative impact on your credit.

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5 ‘Good’ Credit Habits That Are Actually Bad

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Time to rethink what you know.

Americans know a fair amount about credit and credit scores. More than half understand, for example, that making payments on time, keeping credit card balances low or paid off, and not opening several cards at once can help raise a low score or maintain a high one, according to a recent survey.

People also know that credit scores are important. More than 80% of respondents knew that mortgage lenders and credit card issuers use them to evaluate applicants, and more than 50% also knew that landlords and cell phone companies take them into account.

That said, credit scoring formulas are complicated, and some of the nuances of how they work are mysterious. Here are five credit habits that seem positive at first glance, but on closer look could be causing you trouble.

1. Paying in Full

…if you think that undoes the damage of running up big bills.

To be clear: Paying in full is really the only smart way to use credit cards. You shouldn’t carry balances or charge more than you can easily pay off each month.

But paying in full won’t save you from the damage done to your credit scores when you’ve charged up a storm. That’s because the balance reported to the credit bureaus — and used to create your scores — is often the balance from your last statement or from a random day of the month picked by your issuer. You can pay your balance the day after it’s due, but the higher balance reported by the issuer is the one that matters.

Your credit utilization — how much of your available credit you’re using — is one of the largest factors influencing your scores. Keeping it low throughout the month is important. Try to use less than 30% of your credit limit on any card, and keep usage below 10% if you’re working to improve your scores.

2. Checking Your Credit Score…

…if you’re looking at only one score.

If you’re at all savvy about credit, you know the act of checking your credit reports or scores won’t hurt your numbers. But you may not understand how many scores are being used to judge you, which limits the value of seeing just one.

FICO is the leading credit scoring formula. Its creator, also called FICO, says it’s used in more than 90 percent of credit-granting decisions. But there are many different FICOs. The most commonly used is the FICO 8, but many lenders use older versions of the score and some are testing the latest version, known as FICO 9.

There are also variations on each formula customized to different industries, such as auto lending and credit cards. While most FICOs are on a scale of 300 to 850 scale, the auto and bankcard scores are on a 250-to-900 scale.

All these scores also can vary based on which credit bureau supplies the credit report. The three credit bureaus (Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion) are private, competing businesses, so the information in your files is likely to be different at all three.

And FICO isn’t the only formula being used. VantageScore, which the credit bureaus created to rival FICO, is gaining acceptance as well.

You can’t predict which score a lender will use, so you may find it helpful to see a range of numbers that reflect your credit situation. To do that, you can buy a FICO 8 ($19.95) from one of the bureaus, and the site will include five or six other FICOs commonly generated at that bureau.

You can check your VantageScore 3 for free at various sites. CreditSesame offers VantageScores drawn from TransUnion data, while MyBankrate and Quizzle distribute VantageScores using Equifax data.CreditKarma offers two VantageScores, one each from TransUnion and Equifax, and offers VantageScores from Experian.

3. Putting a Fraud Alert on Your Credit Reports After a Breach…

…instead of a security freeze.

Placing a fraud alert on your credit reports is a prudent move after a database breach exposes personal information such as your credit card numbers, address, or email. If the breach exposed your Social Security number — the key that unlocks your credit history — you need to consider something more drastic.

A security freeze, also known as a credit freeze, prevents new lenders (ones you don’t already have a business relationship with) from seeing your credit report or score.That makes it harder for identity thieves to open new credit accounts.

Security freezes involve some hassle and cost. You may have to pay fees to freeze your credit reports and more fees to temporarily lift the freeze if you need to apply for credit, rent a new apartment, or get a new job. (Landlords and employers may also check your credit.)

Security freezes also don’t protect you against all types of identity theft. A criminal could still take over your existing accounts, use your health insurance to get medical coverage, or steal your tax refund. But they typically make new account fraud — one of the most profitable types of identity theft — much harder to pull off.

4. Keeping Unused Accounts Open…

…if your credit scores are high.

Yes, closing credit cards can hurt your scores. Shuttering an account typically reduces the amount of available credit you have, which in turn affects your overall credit utilization.

If your scores are good — say, FICOs in the 750 range and above — you shouldn’t be afraid to close an unused account now and then, especially if you’re tired of paying an annual fee on a card you no longer use or you’re concerned an unmonitored account might be used for fraud.

5. Not Using Your Credit Card…

…and using a debit card instead.

To have good credit scores, you need to have and use credit accounts. That doesn’t mean you should carry balances, but you should use a card to reduce the chances the issuer will shut it down.

The bigger problem is that debit cards are a much less secure payment method because they give thieves a direct way into your bank account. Once the money is gone, you may have to fight to get it back.

And if you don’t report the fraud in time, you may be stuck with the loss. Federal law limits your liability to $50 if you report fraudulent charges within two days. Between two days and 60 days, your liability is $500. After that, it’s unlimited.

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Parent Education Loans Can Ruin Your Retirement

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Here's what you need to know before taking out a parent PLUS loan.

Parent education loans can help your child attend the college of her dreams—and sink any dreams you had of ever retiring.

The grim reality is that the federal PLUS loan program allows parents to borrow far more than they can comfortably, or even ever, repay.

PLUS loans let parents (and graduate students) borrow up to the full cost of an education. There is only a basic credit check and no underwriting to determine whether the borrower has the income or ability to repay the loans.

The vast majority of parents do not borrow nearly as much as Democratic president hopeful Martin O’Malley and his wife, who said they have borrowed $339,200 to educate the first two of their four children, or Republican presidential candidate Scott Walker, who has borrowed between $100,000 and $120,000 for his two sons who are still in college, according to recently filed financial disclosure forms.

But even much smaller amounts can prove difficult to repay for some parents. An analysis by financial aid expert Mark Kantrowitz in 2012 found that monthly PLUS loan payments ate up an average 38% of monthly income for borrowers in the lowest 10% of incomes. One in five parent borrowers had a child that received a Pell Grant, which are reserved for the poorest students with household incomes of $50,000 or less.

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An article published by investigative site ProPublica last year highlighted a woman living on Social Security disability payments who had $45,000 in parent PLUS loans for her child. (The average Social Security disability recipient gets about $14,000 a year, while the maximum possible benefit is just under $32,000.)

Parent PLUS default rates are still far below those for undergraduate student loans – 5% of parent borrowers in 2010 defaulted within three years compared to 15% of student borrowers. But the parent rate has nearly tripled over the past four years, suggesting a rising tide of floundering borrowers.

Repayment Plans

The Obama administration in recent years expanded income-based repayment programs for struggling student borrowers, typically reducing payments to 10% or less of their incomes. The lowest-income student borrowers do not have to pay anything, and forgiveness of remaining balances is possible after 10 years for those in public service jobs and 20 years otherwise.

There is no similar help for parents. The income-contingent repayment plans available are not as generous, and there is no forgiveness. As with student loans, parent PLUS loans are extremely difficult to erase in bankruptcy and the government has extraordinary powers to collect, seizing tax refunds, getting wage garnishments without going to court and taking a portion of defaulted borrowers’ Social Security checks, which are off-limits to other creditors.

In general, PLUS loans that total less than the parents’ annual incomes can be paid off within 10 years, Kantrowitz said. If the parents were within five years of retirement, they should limit total education debt to 50% of their income, he said.

That does not mean taking on that much debt is smart. College graduates presumably will benefit from higher incomes as the result of their education. Their parents will not. Parents also have fewer working years ahead of them, which means any financial setback such as a layoff can make a heavy debt load overwhelming and kill any shot at a comfortable retirement.

“I would never recommend parents borrow six-figure debt for their children, even if they can afford to repay the debt,” Kantrowitz said, adding, “Parents don’t always make the smartest financial decisions.”

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How Scott Walker Can Fix His Credit Card Troubles

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The solution depends on the governor's credit score.

Gov. Scott Walker has a credit card debt problem.

The Wisconsin governor and GOP presidential candidate has between $20,000 and $30,000 in combined credit card debt on two separate cards, according to his recent public financial disclosure. On one card, in fact, he’s enduring a particularly onerous 27.24% APR.

What this development portends for the self-described fiscal conservative’s political future is unknowable. Walker currently rests in third place among the 17 Republican candidates vying for the party’s nomination, according to recent polls.

But Walker’s debt trouble doesn’t necessarily make him so different from the average indebted household — which, after all, is also burdened by more than $15,000 in credit IOU’s. MONEY talked with a number of credit card experts to come up with a plan to help the governor alleviate his troubles. If you are carrying a balance as well, there’s a lesson here for you too.

State of Affairs

First, the facts: Walker says he has $10,000 to $15,000 worth of debt on two separate cards, with a 27.24% APR on his Barclaycard and and 11.99% on a piece of Bank of America plastic. The astronomical Barclaycard APR is a particular problem, say experts.

How bad is it? If “Walker were to only make minimum payments on his bill every month, it would take him approximately 142 years to pay off his Barclaycard debt completely,” says consumer financial site’s Robert Harrow.

Plan of Attack

The first thing Walker needs to do is lower the interest he’s paying on his debt. One way to do this is to open a balance-transfer credit card, which offers an extended 0% interest period, but usually charges a fee for the transfer.

But he may not be able to move everything over at once. Since his debt is so high, “he may not get a large enough credit line to transfer the entire balance, in which case he should transfer the highest balance first,” says’s Gerri Detweiler. Issuers will rarely allow cardholders to transfer more than $15,000, Harrow adds.

What cards should he consider? “Chase Slate would be a terrific deal for him,” says Detweiler. A MONEY Best Credit Card from 2014, the Slate offers balance carriers a bevy of features to help them pare down a bill. The main benefit is that borrowers can transfer their balance without a fee — generally 3% — if they do so within 60 days of opening the card.

Walker would then have 15 months of 0% interest during which he could chip away at his debt. If you assume Walker is right in the middle of the disclosure form’s range, owing $12,500 on the Barclaycard card, he could retire his debt on that card with 15 payments of $833 a month — not an impossible task, since he takes in nearly $150,000 a year from taxpayers. To pay off his debt over the same time period but leaving it on the Barclaycard would require payments of almost $1,000 a month.

To get a 0% interest reprieve for the Bank of America card debt, Walker would do well to sign up for the Citi Simplicity, another MONEY Best Credit Card. While he would confront a 3% fee on the transfer — equal to $375, if we again assume a balance of $12,500 — he’d have 21 interest-free months to settle his balance. That would make his monthly payments about $600.

So Walker could rid himself of the debt by paying roughly $1,433 a month for 15 months, and then $600 for an additional six months.

Possible Setbacks

There’s one potential roadblock here: Both the Slate and the Simplicity require excellent credit. And although it’s possible to carry a balance and also have a FICO score in the 700s, Walker may not be so fortunate.

“You don’t get saddled with a 27.24% interest rate on a general use credit card unless the bank considers you ‘of elevated credit risk,'” says’s John Ulzheimer. The average APR is about 12 percentage points lower.

There are a couple reasons why Walker’s Barclaycard APR could be so high. Harrow suggests one scenario: Walker could have “missed one or more credit card payments, causing a penalty APR to kick in.” Such penalty rates are often between 27% and 29%, he notes.

Or Walker could just have a low credit score. Since credit cards are not collateralized, low-credit borrowers are charged higher APRs.

If Walker has bad credit, he has a couple of options.

One is to take out a debt consolation loan. “With a consolidation loan, the goal is to get a personal loan at a lower rate than what he’s paying now on his cards,” says credit card expert Beverly Harzog, author of The Debt Escape Plan. “He’d combine both balances into one loan. This simplifies life, and hopefully he’ll save money on interest.”

Walker could check out the personal loan rates available in Madison, Wis., by looking at a site like

But there’s no guarantee he’d get a lower interest rate on a personal loan, in which case he’d move onto an old-fashioned Plan B: simply hunkering down to pay off the debt. Harzog recommends he tackle the Barclaycard first, since it has the highest APR. “He’ll need to pay much more than the minimum on that card while paying the minimum on the Bank of America card,” she explains. When he finishes one card he can move onto another.

Of course, this will require some discipline, as well as adherence to a budget and a new understanding of what credit means and how to use it. “As he pays off his debts, I urge him to get to the root of the problem, or he could end up in debt again,” says Harzog.

Americans of all stripes fall on hard times, resort to poor spending habits and need help regaining their finances. Sometimes that person is your neighbor, or your colleague — and sometimes it’s the man on TV asking for your vote for president.


California Debt Collectors Will Refund $4 Million to Victims

Asset Capital and Management Group was accused of posing as process servers or employees of law offices and threatening to arrest consumers.

Do you need a feel-good story about justice today? Of course you do – who doesn’t? This one is particularly satisfying to anyone who has ever been wrongfully harassed by a debt collector seeking payment on an old debt.

Earlier this year, the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) reached a settlement with the former Asset Capital and Management Group, a California debt-collection group that violated both the Federal Trade Commission Act and the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA). As a result of the settlement, almost $4 million in refunds are being sent to more than 95,000 consumers that were harmed by the group’s practices.

The $4 million comes from personal assets of the four defendants (Thai Han, Jim Tran Phelps, Keith Hua and James Novella), as well as assets frozen from Asset Capital and its network. According to the FTC press release, Asset Capital and Management used “a sprawling network of intertwined companies and dozens of fictitious names” in their efforts to recover debts they had purchased from various creditors.

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The group used a series of belligerent and threatening tactics to attempt to recover the debts, all in violation of the above acts. The tactics included the following:

  • Notification Failures – The group did not notify consumers that the callers were attempting to collect a debt or that the consumer has a right to dispute the debt and seek verification of the debt.Debt collectors are required by the FDCPA to send written notification about the debt that includes the creditor name and the amount. If you ever receive a call from a debt collector without this information, demand they provide it and do not engage them any further until they do.
  • Making Threats/Posing as Process Servers – The group posed as process servers or employees of law offices and threatened consumers by claiming to be delivering papers related to a lawsuit, and in some cases threatened to arrest the consumer (which even a real process server does not have the power to do). Other threats included potential wage garnishment and property seizure (again, outside the authority of a real process server). All of these efforts were intended to get the consumer to pay a debt through fear or embarrassment. Debt collectors are allowed to contact you, but they are not allowed to harass you or impersonate officials.
  • Information Disclosure – The group also disclosed information about the debt to consumer’s employers, family members and co-workers. By disclosing information about the debt to these non-relevant parties, the group violated Fair Credit laws. Debt collectors can contact third parties about your basic information – address, home phone number and place of employment – but not about the debt or its details. Not only did the settlement extract redress payments from the defendants, it also barred them from future debt-collecting activities and prohibited them from “misrepresenting any relevant fact in connection with promoting or selling credit repair, debt relief, mortgage assistance relief or lending services.” In other words, the defendants are being kept out of similar industries where scam artists can thrive.

Unfortunately, while these particular scam artists have been stopped, there are still many others out there who are willing to prey on those who don’t know their rights. Do not be one of those people – know your rights under the FDCPA and fight back against the scam artists. Report any illegal activities to the FTC and perhaps you can help stop others from being victimized in the future. Be a part of the next feel-good story.

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A Whopping 80% of Americans Are in Debt

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But more than half have the "good" kind of debt.

The vast majority of Americans are in debt, according to a report from Pew Charitable Trusts published in July. For the most part, that debt comes from what many people would call a good thing — homeownership. Of the 80% of Americans with debt, 44% have mortgage debt. Overall, the median debt load among Americans is $67,900, overwhelmingly driven by mortgages (the median home loan balance is $103,000).

Still, Americans have a lot of non-mortgage debt, too, particularly young Americans. Only 33% of millennials (people born between 1981 and 1997), have home loans. In fact, millennials are much more likely to have student loan debt (41% have it), car loans (41%) or credit card debt (39%) than they are to have a mortgage. Among all other generations, mortgages are the leading component of consumer debt.

Credit card debt is still incredibly common among American consumers — with 39% of Americans reporting unpaid credit card balances, it’s not far behind mortgages as a leading contributor to consumer debt. While those balances are much lower than those for student loans, the high interest rates and revolving nature of credit card debt can make it a serious threat to consumers’ financial health.

Having debt isn’t inherently a problem, but it can quickly become one if you’re living beyond your means or not working toward bringing your balances to zero. Carrying a lot of debt — relative to your limits for revolving credit accounts — can have an adverse affect on your credit scores, which can subject you to higher interest rates on debt in the future. Here’s a calculator that can show you how your credit scores can affect your lifetime cost of debt. Keeping balances low relative to your credit limits — no more than 30%, but ideally less than 10% — can be beneficial to your scores. As you pay off credit card debt (assuming you don’t add to it at the same time), you should see your scores start to improve. You can see how long it will take you to pay off your credit card debt and how much you can save by adjusting your payments using this credit card debt payoff calculator.

If you’re among the 80% of Americans with debt, the best thing you can do is focus on managing your debt and credit well. Taking out loans or using credit cards can be a great financial strategy, but it’s important to go after the balances with a plan. Regularly review your credit score so you understand how your debt affects your credit standing, and set realistic goals for paying your debt down, while saving up for your future.

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10 Characteristics of Debt-Free People

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They aren't afraid of credit cards but realize they're a double-edged sword.

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The other day a friend and I were discussing why some people manage to live their lives in complete control of their finances, while others are continually struggling to get out of debt — no matter how much money they make.

Financial freedom can be achieved by anybody, regardless of their income level. So what is it that separates the financially free from the financially inept? How come there are some families out there making ends meet with household incomes under $40,000 and no debt on the books — or at worst, a single mortgage payment — while others make millions per year and can’t keep their financial heads above water?

The truth is, there is no single trait that determines who will successfully manage their personal finances and those who won’t. People of modest means who know how to properly manage their finances have some combination of multiple characteristics. Here are ten of the biggest:

They’re detail-oriented. People who are in a good financial position always pay close attention to their personal finances. They know how much they earn and they keep track of how much they spend and where every penny goes. Because they’ve got a good handle on the state of their personal finances, they are less likely to buy something they can’t afford.

They realize debt is a mortgage on their future. Debt is a form of indentured servitude where we end up sacrificing our future earnings in exchange for instant gratification. Financially savvy people understand that, in most cases, such a trade almost always ends up being a Faustian bargain.

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They’re pragmatic. More often than not, folks who are debt-free are also practical people. As such, they understand the meaning of value. For example, they tend to look at cars as merely a means to get from point A to point B — so they’ll refuse to buy a Lexus when a Corolla will do. In the same vein, they won’t pay double for designer jeans that have the same lifespan as the no-name alternatives, and they’re open to buying store-brand groceries.

They’re self-reliant. Most people who work hard to maintain a life of financial freedom take pride in being self-reliant. They live within their means and save as much money as they can for rainy days and lean times.

They aren’t addicted to shopping. A lot of people get a high from spending money — whether they have it or not. And while such a high is not physically destructive like, say, a drug or alcohol addiction, an uncontrolled shopping habit is almost always financially calamitous.

They’re patient. Debt free people don’t achieve that state because they’re impulsive shoppers, or looking for instant gratification. If the money for something isn’t available, then they save and wait.

They’re self-confident. Financially free people never let their self-worth be defined by their possessions. They understand that their status in life is more accurately conveyed by self-confidence, rather than dubiously deceptive displays of wealth.

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They understand that credit cards are a double-edged sword. People who are in control of their personal finances aren’t afraid of credit cards. In fact, they embrace them. And while the financially savvy understand the incredible benefits that credit cards provide their owners, they also know that if they fail to pay them off in full at the end of each month, they will pay a heavy price. This knowledge fosters a healthy respect that keeps their credit cards from being abused.

They believe in personal responsibility. Financially responsible people refuse to make excuses. They know it’s their responsibility to put aside funds for unexpected events such as a job loss or unforeseen accident — and if they don’t they’ve got no one to blame but themselves. Short of a catastrophic medical issue or natural disaster, they also understand that living within one’s means goes a long way towards ensuring their ability to control their own destiny.

They’re not materialistic. Yes, the pursuit of expensive toys and other possessions can make life more luxurious. But at what cost? Debt-free people understand this, which is why they tend to live simpler lives that focus on the joys of family, rather than the accumulation of material possessions.

This is by no means an exhaustive list. However, the more of these characteristics that a person possesses, the more likely they are to be financially free. How many apply to you?

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