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I talked to a financial planner once who holds regular “state of the union” meetings with his wife to talk about money. That’s a great practice to follow, and recently I learned a way for couples to build on it. You might call it morbid, but I call it smart: every year, partners should rehearse what to do, financially, if the other dies, according to an advisor who works with widows. There’s plenty to talk about. For example, if you’re both collecting Social Security, how much will your income fall when you start receiving one check instead of two? What are your online banking passwords? And, will one income cover the household bills until any life insurance payouts arrive? Break out some wine if that’ll help the discussion go down. It’s not easy to talk about this stuff, but not talking about it will prove even harder for the surviving spouse if the worst comes to pass. Learn more about how to protect yourself in today’s edition.

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Elizabeth O'Brien is a senior writer at MONEY, covering retirement and health care. You can email her at elizabeth.o'brien@moneymail.com and follow her on Twitter at @elizobrien.

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