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# Dr. Ruth Westheimer


## Dr. Ruth Westheimer


## Dr. Ruth Westheimer


* ![Unmade bed in a bedroom with two pillows and crumpled bed sheet](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt6c3233861a0cb692/69892dfb22fb856559e255eb/bed-couple-desire-libido.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Apr 20, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How Do I Boost My Sex Drive?](https://time.com/5244762/dr-ruth-increase-sex-drive/)  
'Can I overcome my recent hypoactive sexual desire disorder diagnosis?'
* ![](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt39526621c86a713e/69892d7bfb4eac3a3a89652b/pregnant-woman-sex-safe-dr-ruth.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Apr 12, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: Can I Safely Have Sex While Pregnant?](https://time.com/5235045/sex-during-pregnancy-safety/)  
In most cases, yes, and often!
* ![Hand of woman with red nail polish squeezing lemon](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbc2f2797d6273506/69892cefe76ad21ac76319ba/squeeze-kegels-sex-better-excercise-women.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Apr 5, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: Can Kegel Exercises Make Sex Better for Women?](https://time.com/5228035/dr-ruth-kegels-benefit-sex-life/)  
Perhaps, and you can literally do them anywhere
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Mar 29, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How Can I Orgasm More Easily During Sex?](https://time.com/5188198/ask-dr-ruth-better-orgasm-during-sex/)  
I’m often left unsatisfied
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Mar 22, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How Do I Broach the Subject of Personal Hygiene With My Partner?](https://time.com/5188182/dr-ruth-personal-hygiene-partner/)  
 I don’t want to hurt their feelings  
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Mar 15, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How Can I Help My Partner Last Longer in Bed?](https://time.com/5188155/dr-ruth-delay-premature-ejaculation/)  
‘Most men can be taught how to control their orgasms’
* ![ask-dr-ruth-porn-healthy-relationships](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0051f02b8658a1a9/69892b17656a3ffd9dbd3e36/ask-dr-ruth-porn-healthy-relationships.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Mar 8, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: Is Porn Healthy for Me and My Relationship?](https://time.com/5188153/ask-dr-ruth-porn-healthy-relationships/)  
It depends
* ![infedility cheated relationship dr ruth westheimer therapy trust liar](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt9f6a797c31ee1b34/69892b15bc6cfc70e83e55e9/infedility-cheated-relationship-dr-ruth-westheimer-therapy-trust-liar.jpg?branch=production&width=640&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Mar 1, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: Can a Relationship Overcome Infidelity?](https://time.com/5176048/ask-dr-ruth-relationships-cheating-infidelity/)
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Feb 22, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: Where’s My G-Spot?](https://time.com/5166953/ask-dr-ruth-sexual-pleasure-g-spot/)
* ![varinismus-dr-ruth-westheimer-gynecologist-therapy](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt030e0423cb65502f/69892b16e76ad23b64631680/varinismus-dr-ruth-westheimer-gynecologist-therapy.jpg?branch=production&width=828&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Feb 15, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How Do I Overcome a Vaginismus Diagnosis?](https://time.com/5136099/ask-dr-ruth-vaginismus-relationships/)  
The sexual dysfunction condition may be linked to relationship woes  
* ![dr-ruth-long-distance-relationships-fizzling-out-phone](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltdbca0a81b6dee5aa/69892b1b0a4a22ce3c9d21ee/dr-ruth-long-distance-relationships-fizzling-out.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Feb 8, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How Do I Keep My Long-Distance Relationship From Fizzling Out?](https://time.com/5136066/dr-ruth-long-distance-relationships/)  
Fantasies (and good communication)
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Feb 1, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How to Tell a New Sexual Partner That You Have an STD](https://time.com/5127660/dr-ruth-disclosing-stds/)  
There's a silver lining
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Jan 25, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: How to Focus on Creating a Better Sex Life](https://time.com/5113326/dr-ruth-focus-during-sex/)  
You’ll need a good fantasy or two
* ![Dr-Ruth-Amazon-Publishing-author](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt67a392abe73e3ce2/69892aec096a943feb6a1d6f/dr-ruth-amazon-publishing-author-fb.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Jan 18, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: What You Should Do When Your Body Makes Strange Sounds During Sex](https://time.com/5107829/body-sounds-sex-dr-ruth/)  
You know you've been there
* ![therapy dr ruth sex therapist relationship advice seek help Cropped Image Of Woman Hand Holding Mobile Phone Against Pink Background](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blta82ff406d13a7aad/69892b13cf40a80a0cc4babf/dr-ruth-sex-therapist-relationship-advice-seek-help-sex.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1:1)  
Jan 11, 2018  
### [Ask Dr. Ruth: When Should I See a Sex Therapist?](https://time.com/5097125/ask-dr-ruth-sex-relationship-advice/)  
The famous — and hilarious — 89-year-old therapist has a new sex column on TIME

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