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# The Way to Happiness: Remember the 4 P’s

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## Eric Barker


May 12, 2014 2:00 PM UTC

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## Eric Barker


May 12, 2014 2:00 PM UTC

There’s an [overwhelming amount of happiness research](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/01/the-way-to-happiness/www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/08/here-are-the-things-that-are-proven-to-make-y/).

Forget incorporating it all into your life — merely _remembering_ it is daunting enough.

I like to keep it simple: **Remember the 4 P’s.**

1. **Purpose**
2. **Perspective**
3. **People**
4. **Play**

Work those into every day and you’ll be smiling more.

## Purpose

This one gets short shrift in the modern era so we’ll put it first. You don’t need to live and die by the Bushido code but **the best lives have purpose**.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

This can be religion or a set of ethics or goals. But your vision of your life needs structure.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

And it’s not enough to just have beliefs. **We really feel good when we make progress toward our ideals.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

## Perspective

**Happiness is more about how you look at life than what actually happens.**

Happy people and unhappy people’s lives, objectively, are not all that different.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

**Compare yourself to those better than you and you’ll feel bad. Compare against those below you and you’ll feel better.**

…despite that the circumstances might be exactly the same.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

If you focus on the added work and pressure, even a promotion can be seen as negative.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

Happy people see negative things as isolated incidents. Unhappy people see bad times as part of who they are.


Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

## People

**70% of happiness is your relationships with other people.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

**Do you have a group of people you feel very close to? You’re four times as likely to be happy.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

**Friends and family were nine times more important than money when it comes to being happy.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

And it’s not just getting. **Giving has a huge effect on happiness.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

**It’s hard to tell how happy you are from knowing how many problems you have.**

**It’s much easier to tell by knowing how many people love you.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

## Play

It’s not all serious, deep stuff. **You need to have plain old fun to really have a happy life.**

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

Laugh.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

Rest.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):


Exercise.

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

Read. (Yes, blog posts count.)

Via [The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FC10FW/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B000FC10FW&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

## Keep The 4 P’s In Mind

Try to check off all four of these each day:

1. **Purpose**
2. **Perspective**
3. **People**
4. **Play**

“Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself in your way of thinking.” – Marcus Aurelius, [Meditations](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0082XJGRK/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B0082XJGRK&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20)

**Join 45K+ readers.** Get a free weekly update via email [here](http://eepurl.com/o6uAD).

Related posts:

[What 10 things should you do every day to improve your life?](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/05/what-10-things-should-you-do-every-day-to-imp/)

[Here are the things proven to make you happier](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/08/here-are-the-things-that-are-proven-to-make-y/)

[What are the three ways to train your brain to be happy?](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/12/train-brain-happy/)

_This piece originally appeared on_ [_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/)_._

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